What can I do to meet my boyfriend's wants?

My boyfriend wants sex everyday and I just don't feel like it sometimes. He wants that and I do not want to lose him since I promised to when we got together. I don't know what to do and I just been doing it when he wants.
What can I do to meet my boyfriends wants?
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  • What you need to do is out of the blue when you're just talking to whatever tell him how you feel tell him what you just told us and tell him you don't want it everyday like that tell him that you want it to mean something because I would almost have to say that he wants it just for himself basically I would say he's not getting you off all the time and he's making it all about him and tell him that you don't like that he needs to make it about you he needs to make you feel while having sex it he appreciate you he that he loves you and he wants to make it all about you and maybe he's not doing that I don't know but there has to be a compromise you need to communicate and then there has to be a compromise he can't always be all about him and you need to tell him that not in the moment that he wants to have sex way before then

Most Helpful Guy

  • First. Know what you want to do or don't do it - period.
    Respect is two ways.
    If you lose him you didn't lose much but a user. Seriously! He will leave you because he can't use you anymore.
    What REAL qualities does he have? Is he going places? Better yet is he there?

    I think your heart is awesome. That you are concerned about what he wants. Keep that attitude for all the wonderful people around you. You are a precious gem. But please don't let that be used to abuse you.
    You ladies make me cry because you don't see how valuable you are and sell yourself so cheep to the first user that comes along. And then they think of you as cheep and don't value you. Make him WORK for it. You have so much more to give than sex.

Most Helpful Girls

  • You’re having sex every single day? Just sit down with him and tell him it’s too much for you. Set a schedule for sex that’s more realistic and ask him to compromise with you. What else can you do? When I first moved in with my boyfriend, he was all over me every night. At first I accommodated him because it was new and exciting but it grew to be too much for me. He was so entitled, he’d come to bed naked, crawl on top of me and start pushing my legs apart. I had to set some ground rules and a realistic schedule for sex so I got some breaks but he was still getting plenty. You just have to take charge a little bit.

  • If you want a boyfriend you must be willing to take his cock whenever and however he wants no matter how bad he hurts you

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Some women just lay there. Some will rollover and take it from behind just to avoid sleeping in wet sheets. I just as soon you are asleep…. BJ might be good change?

    • I do give head

    • 👍. Watch your mandibular joint😉

  • Didn't the picture should be the other way around? looks like you didn't satisfy him.

    What can I do to meet my boyfriend's wants?
  • It is a fact in life you can't always get what you want. He needs to respect you, but you need to respect yourself first. If you don't want to do it, that's it. End of discussion. He can't handle a single night off without throwing a fit or being an asshole? He's not worth you're time anyway because he is clearly a child.

  • Compromise and have sex every other day. Let him know that every day for you is difficult. He should understand, especially if you treat him well when you have sex.

  • Just tell him that you’re not in the mood. If he’s half a decent person, he would understand that you’re not always going to be in the mood 24/7.

    My husband has a much higher sex drive than me and would fuck 10 times a day if he could. I used to feel the same way as you and I would feel bad saying. But I talked to him about it and he understood and said that I don’t have to feel pressured to fuck every single time

  • He doesn't look very happy in that pic despite reveciving affection, how odd.
    Anyway, no one has sex every single day for their entire adult lives. If he leaves because his girlfriend isn't constantly horny, then he won't be able to stay in ANY relationship.
    Just tell him your not horny atm, the world won't end over it, and he may put in the effort to try and turn you on, solving both your problems.

  • Sounds like you are not happy.

  • Seems like you two are sexually incompatible. First of all, make sure you aren't getting played. Then see if he can do something to get you more wanting sex or ask him to masurbate frequently

    • Maybe you are right. He just wants it more so I don't know I try to keep up and want to keep him

  • lay on your side ans offer your ass. you just lay there. or you put you foot down ans say your not in the mood. it’s your body. not his

  • Lol. My two long terms would just tell me to go solo if they weren’t up for it. Worked for me! Loved going solo while they watched.

  • Tell him what works for you

  • I want sexual activity everyday too so what I did Is to buy a handsfree robotic device that is heated to 98.6 degrees and feels like my girl deethroating me until I cum twice inside it.

  • Ur not compatible

    • Maybe you are right

  • Just be honest with him tell him you don't want to fuck every single day

  • Try to make him understand it's a mutual emotional and physical connection

  • I assume he was the one who hit on you

    • Who cares

    • Just making a sarcastic guess

  • If that's you in the picture I can understand why he does :P

  • Obviously, there's nothing you can do. You just said that.

  • Sex is literally one of the very few benefits a guy has in a relationship. Take that away, he might as well be single and jerk off.

    • I know what you mean

  • For sure, you have to communicate this across. Sadly, for most guys sexual compatibility is very important.

    • Ya that what a friend kinda said