Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Guys, What do guys think about when they watch porn? Do they fantasize about the girls or is it just what's happening? Why do they watch it?
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I'm insecure with myself, and I think porn is disrespectful in a relationship because if you have your own sex life and claim to be happy with it, you shouldn't fantasize over someone elses. I asked my boyfriend if he watches porn anymore (he went without for a year with his ex so that's understood! ) and he says no that it didn't really do anything for him anymore. I worry that he fantasized (-es) about the girls and wants me to look like them/be like them. I'm insecure to the point if I were to find him looking at another girl like that or watching porn, I would probably cry I wish I wasn't like this, but I am and I don't know how to fix it. He is very respectful of my feelings towards it, but I still wonder if he thinks about the girls he seen and tries to make me like them so he can be sexually satisfied. So I just want to know is it the girls that get him off or the sex part? Please be honest. That's all I ask for. I'm just confused on the situation
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What Guys Said
(21)For me its about the fantasy and the scene, not the girls
Some do fantasize some do for masturbating :)
For me it's the act more than the girl but it has to be a sexy girl
Think about chicks that I know tbh.
thinking about how to fuck the girl lol
Porn is a life style
To be honest, I just watch it for the sounds, like moans (if they're realistic... Fake ones just make me change the video) or slaps of skin on skin, the jiggle of either butt or breasts, things of that nature. I usually don't see myself in the guy's position or anything. In fact, I mostly prefer them working over a dildo or something. Or maybe anal. Actual sex, I'm not too happy about, but if they pull it off well enough I'll suck it up.
I haven't have sexual relationship with my girlfriend so when it comes to sex well.. If I watch porn I think about her not about the actress or girl on the vid.
i don't watch porn anymore because i love and respect my girlfriend and you should be glad that your boyfriend does the same for you.
i used to when i was younger and was immature about love, I was in a relationship with a girl who had a lovely personality but wasn't very attracted to her looks so i'd always fantasize about the porn actresses whenever i was doing her... i think many men can agree
but i have to say after not watching for over 3 years, i don't fantasize about them now