What do I do about a date who jerked off?

I had a date with a nice guy. We were fooling around and he asked me to play with “it.” I did but then he asked me to finish him off. I replied no but then he said no problem and finished himself off.
he’s a great guy and I guess it was not a big deal. Have any of you experienced this?
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  • It may not be a big deal for you but I know that something like that would never happen to me for multiple reasons.

    1. I would never allow a first date to give me anything else but a peck on the cheek.
    2. You cannot know a person after the first 5 or 6 dates
    3. A person that act like that on a first date is basically a loser and a person to avoid
    4. That type of character is that of a person that lets himself be ruled by his hormones

    There are multiple other reasons why I would never come close to somebody that thinks with his genitals first and only sees a girl as a piece of flesh to satisfy his needs.

    • You're pretty quick to judge

    • @Snickermarstwix Of course I will judge those that think with their genitals instead of their brain.

    • @SueShe I know it would never happen to you because no non-simp man in his right mind is going to date a feminist. I know you are a feminist because I've debated you before.

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  • If your going to take a hand to a cock, and not help him get there, that's just teasing. It's no wonder he had to finish off. Either don't get in that position if you don't want to, or go through with it. You could have said no, but you didn't.

    It's no different from if you asked him to touch you and he got you almost there and stopped.

Most Helpful Guys

  • You know for guys it's a little different than women at least that guy was respectful enough. The four shoot I give them credit not you shouldn't f****** feel offended for him jacking off and finishing it you started it and he finished it he said no big deal you should f****** marry that guy that's a cool dude right on dude whoever you are how can I wish there was more of us here

  • Did he let you finish him? Or finish in/on you? I don’t jerk off without letting my wife get the credit. Also, that way I think about her while I’m getting close to finishing. He should involve you at least that much. If I refused to let you swallow it or didn’t finish on you, then I’d be sending a message. I smell spite

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  • Were you willing to fuck him? Did he know that?

  • Wow, just came on board and trolling already?

    What do I do about a date who jerked off?

    You can troll better than that!

    • I didn’t know witches were real

    • Just look in the mirror and be a believer.

    • 31, single and bitter. Poor daniela.

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  • I'm not really seeing any issue here either, it's a little weird but that's about it

  • I mean, if you had no problem fooling around, and you had no problem playing with it, then why would there be a problem with him finishing himself. Did you expect him to just stay there about to bust? What am I missing here?

  • I would not be a fan of that at all. But what made you say no?

    • @SarahsSummer And we're not fans of getting blue balls either.

    • @joeblow123 oh the trauma of it! Go home, take care of your medical problem there.

    • @SarahsSummer Thank you so frigging much for showing such concern for us. May you walk down dimly lit streets at night in bad neighborhoods by yourself.

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  • I`m just curious as to why you didn`t mind playing with it but you didn`t want to finish him off

    • Why didn`t you want to finish him off?

    • He initiated everything. He could finish it too.

  • It's happened. Nbd. But I probably wouldn't go out with him again unless I really liked him.

    • @WhiteShoulder There is something you need to know now, girl. We are not getting blue balls for anyone.

  • well this really is just a matter for you to decide if that bothered you or not... if he is a nice guy then at least he was being honest i guess... personally if the girl in question was comfortable with me doing it then i would also masturbate in such a situation but i would maybe also make sure she had her fun too

  • If he was a good guy and you consented to everything, I don't understand what the problem is here.

  • I don't know lol

  • Why did you say no? Just curious.

  • Called a 'prick-tease'. You failed.

    • @Browneye57 Or dick tease. But when it comes down to it is the difference between tomato (long "O" sound) and tomato (short "O" sound).

  • Not weird at all dude. Not at all.

  • He just wants sex and he does not care about the womans pleasure

    • @bellapizza Just like you don't care about a man's needs.

  • You had no issue with him as you felt he is good, you had no issue when you started playing with it, what is the issue to finish the half baked cake?

  • Someone had to finish what your lazy, selfish ass started.

  • Yes.

  • he is at ease with himself. why didn’t you finish him. you were jacking him off, cuming is the universal goal.

    just curios, no judgment.

  • It is not a deal breaker for me.

  • Just a horny guy, obviously turned on by uou.

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