What do I do when my brother is attracted to me?

I can't afford therapy and I have no where else to go. My brother tried to take things too far yesterday. What is it considered when your sibling is sexually attracted to you and you can't tell anybody?
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i told my parents when i was younger and they defended him to keep the peace
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  • You have to look at him in the eye and tell him that you are off limits. If that does not work threaten to let his friends know on social media. That might embarrass him enough. How old is he? What has he been doing that makes you think he is attracted to you?

    • he got me high and was cuddling me and asking me truth or dare about twerking and anal and sucking dick, as a kid he showed me porn, i caught him looking under my blanket when i was asleep, he was making comments about my ass when i was 12

    • this guy's dangerous.

    • He is a predator!

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Most Helpful Guy

  • You can set boundaries, and make him stick to them. You don't need therapy for that. If the issue persists, you can avoid close physical contact with him when possible. You may need to set the boundaries in very certain, pointed terms. You didn't say what he tried to do, but even thus, if there was an issue in the past, and you felt uncomfortable with his actions now, you have every right to tell him to back off, even kick him in the balls is necessary.

Most Helpful Girls

  • If you're 18-24 then go to the police. Rape amongst siblings happen. A guy and a girl friend of mine were raped by their older brothers when they were kids. If that's your age then you're not a kid and you should turn to the authorities so your family knows you're dead serious about the issue

  • Talking therapies are free of cost in the uk. I’m not sure where you are but there should be some charities of organisations that can help. Don’t give up.

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  • This is a very unhealthy situation to be in. If your parents won't talk with him, you absolutely should go to your school counselor.

  • Buy some mace and keep it nearby at all times. Use it if you have to.

  • You learn to stop posting incest related trolls.

    • this isn't a troll

    • i genuinely just dont know what to do

    • Every time you say that. Just stop.

  • Sounds like my asshole brother when I was little

  • I hate to say this but your parents need to have a talk with him
    I wish my parents had a talk with me growing up and it was wrong
    cause our house only had 2 bedrooms, Our parents slept in one
    and we had the other one with 2 single beds and my dad made
    good money at the Steel Mill and why they didn't get a 3 bedroom
    house is beyond my knowledge and we lived in a very old house
    built like in 1910 also try embarrassing him in front of friends or
    parents that might do it?

    • im shy i can't try to embarress him

    • Yeah I see well I wish you the best cause I know what you are going through

  • I understand it is common for boys to be attracted to their sisters. Tell him whatever he did cannot happen again or you will have to tell your parents.

  • he probably young and just jerking off and you are the one he sees around in pajamas, etc. maybe give him a way to see someone else and not let it e known you did it, like leave a book, or just tell him its wrong and he can't, and if he does his pee pee will fall off , or maybe he watches porn hub and likes the sister ones. push him towards step mom ones and soon you won't be an issue.

  • Your real blood brother?

    • yeah

    • What did he do

  • Sit down with your parents and your brother, trying to work out something. Do you have a way to avoid physical closeness?

    • my parents dont talk to eachother and i told my mom about it before, we are adults now anyway

    • I see. Honestly, if I was you, i would threaten by brother with getting authority's involved. His behavior is not ok and he probably needs psychological attention.

  • White people problems!

  • What did he try to do? If he won't listen to reason, then kick him right in the balls.

  • I think it's best that you threaten him if he plans to make a move. Something like "I don't care if you're family. If you touch me in a way I don't like, I'm calling the police."

  • What is your age and his age

    • 19 and 21

    • Okay, i think it isn't good idea. He is your elder brother, having sex with sibling might cause terrible reasons.

    • i dont want to have sex with him

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  • First things first... are you safe?

  • Sure you can tell someone.
    Where are your parents or guardian?
    What about other relatives?
    If all else fails, call the police!

  • What? What the hell happened?

  • Why he thinks like that on you any reason

  • If you are seriously not interested.
    You need to talk to someone.
    PMme?

  • What the hell he is doing?
    Why you can't tell anyone?
    Warn your brother or complaint with your parents

  • may be he is too much into porn which driven him in such activities.

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