I think either or can be natural for some people. It depends on what works for you, wether it's monogamy or multiple partner's. Doesn't matter to me.
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DargilMaster
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Never, ever.
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DJB72Guru
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I don't think it's a "normal" concept personally. It's too complicated keeping track of one romantic partner's needs, hopes and dreams. More than one and my head will explode!
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GwenhwyfarMaster
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Don’t like it fir myself but don’t care if other people do it
But it would solve the problem of what to do if you love two or even three people at once though
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AlexanderAnttilaYoda
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Unnatural and immoral. Just an excuse to have more bed partners.
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Dreamy2020
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I wouldn't say that. As long as everyone involved is happy, then it as all good.
AlexanderAnttila
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People aren't happy in polygamous relationships. It's a cesspit of jealousy, neglect and bitterness, we aren't meant for messing around with multiple people.
Dreamy2020
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Thats the thing. Science says otherwise. Scientists say humans are not made for monogamy, and monogamy is created by the society. That polyamory is more natural.
And no, there are well documented flaws and cons with polygamy.
AFellowWeeb
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''As long as everyone involved is happy'' a man killed ''his'' child, bc it was the child of one of the other guys, i dont record if he actually killed or raped a newborn baby out of jelously, either way, no, the ones that are sharing, are never actually happy, unless they are all bi and fuck each other
AFellowWeeb
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''Male primates may have become monogamous to protect their offspring from being killed by rival males, a new study finds'' - google search ''why some animals are monogomous'', that apeared, didn't dove too much into it tho
AFellowWeeb
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and yes, some animals are actually monogamous
Dreamy2020
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You mean pros and cons with polygamy? The pros and cons are well documented yes. Like you said there is a lot of works which doesn't support polygamy and a lot of work which does support it.
Dreamy2020
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@AFellowWeeb Yes only 5 percent are monogamous among animals.
Yeah, and bc of one article u found, dismisses everything we know, yeah, its so natural, thats why when u get cheated on, u feel bad, hell, even cheaters feel bad when they get cheated on, why? bc we are rational animals, i know, we may not look like it, but we are. If it was THAT much natural, no one would feel betrayed neither experience trust issues, animals, do not experience this, they act as instinc, WE DON'T, this is why people feel bad when they get betrayed, or jealous, even people that partake in polygamous relationships, always feel jealous deep down. Cuckolding, for exemple, its degrading, if u are willing to humiliate the ones u love, what would u do to the ones u dont even like? we are monogamous for nature now, bc there is no need for polygamy, no animal in the animal kingdom needs humans to survive ( as food ) and we are over 7 billion around all world, we are the ones who put other animals into extinction, not them to us, so no, we are not polygamous anymore
Dreamy2020
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I am so tired of this " you found just one article, science is complicated"-nonsense. You asked me for a source, I gave you one. Do you want me to give everything done In this field? People wanna believe in the science that benefits their believe system as it seems. If you don't believe that polygamy is natural. fine your opinion. Anyone is entitled to their opinion, freedom of speech. But to say that it is wrong for everyone, because you personally wouldn't be in a polyamorous relationship, is ridiculous and ignorant! Just because you are not gay og trans, doesn't mean there are no gay or trans in this world.
AFellowWeeb
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ho, so no arguments about what i said? guess i won, if your only argument is ''mind your own business'', yeah, doesn't count
Dreamy2020
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@AFellowWeeb Won? Are you a child? I don't believe us humans are polyamorous either. You just writing an essay for no reason. I just don't believe that polyamorous is wrong like you do. As long as everyone involved is happy in that relationship, who are you to say that it is wrong? You don't get to decide how other people should live.
AFellowWeeb
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'' As long as everyone involved is happy in that relationship'' never happens
TwinrovaExplorer
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Anything we do is natural because if humans do something it is human nature by definition.
I don't think you can form deep emotional connections with multiple people. The relationships aren't as meaningful because you are no longer foregoing something to maintain a polyamorous relationship like you would in the case of a monogamous one; after all, you relinquish your freedom to date/have sex with other people when you commit to a relationship of the latter kind. In other words, you are paying a price for love that shows your partner you value them over other people, because implicit in the monogomous relationship is that you have chosen your partner over other people. This same meaning is non-existent in polyamorous relationships due to how they are comprised.
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sheikalanaMaster
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Not for me.
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DavidFoxYoda
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Monogamy is natural
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DrunkenMonkey1423Xper 4
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I personally think it's natural
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magiusX26Guru
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its more based in nature than monogamy
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lokeshdh00Xper 5
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I think it's not acceptable at this age. And I think that a man will not able to love them both equally which would create complications in future.
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MassagemanEditor
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I don't like it and I won't do it for many reasons.
And yes, I've read numerous pieces in Psychology Today that is it normal, but they've said a LOT of things in that rag that just don't wash.
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OlderAndWiser
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Psychology Today is just a liberal rag with an agenda.
Massageman
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@OlderAndWiser Yup!
SCDivinitySoulXper 5
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I think all types of love are natural, some get influenced by our surroundings. If someone find that they can love multiple people then that shows they are more caring in my opinion, they can invest their time and emotions for multiple people.
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FeelicksExplorer
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I think it's more in line with actual human nature. But if it's not for you not a problem.
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justin287
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All for it
Iron_ManMaster
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What exactly is that detailed cheating on a married couple?
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Dreamy2020
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No, more than two people involved in a relationship. Not cheating.
Iron_Man
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It’s not for me and I dont do threesomes thats lesbianism is that what you’re into?
Dreamy2020
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I wouldn't. I was just curious about polyamory, since scientists say that monogamy is not natural for us humans.
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Iron_Man
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I’m glad you’re not. You’re a good girl come private message me
loveslongnailsMaster
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Monogamy when it comes to "sex" does not seem to be natural... for most males anyway. History has proven that. The only "evidence" I have is anecdotal - I know of three different polyamorous relationships, and all of them have last over 20 years. Compared to the average length of a traditional hetero marriage, that's quite a difference. I don't know the stats on same sex marriages yet.
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AmeerXGuru
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It is natural actually
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EssenceOfLightExplorer
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Polyamorous means "loving" multiple partners, it's temporary feeling of people who don't love anybody in long run. The best way in open relationships is to keep your true you for yourself and having sex with a partner who fucks with half of the city you're living in, is like eating your dinner from public toilet floor.
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17 87Not for me.
I think either or can be natural for some people. It depends on what works for you, wether it's monogamy or multiple partner's. Doesn't matter to me.
Never, ever.
I don't think it's a "normal" concept personally. It's too complicated keeping track of one romantic partner's needs, hopes and dreams. More than one and my head will explode!
Don’t like it fir myself but don’t care if other people do it
But it would solve the problem of what to do if you love two or even three people at once though
Unnatural and immoral. Just an excuse to have more bed partners.
I wouldn't say that. As long as everyone involved is happy, then it as all good.
People aren't happy in polygamous relationships. It's a cesspit of jealousy, neglect and bitterness, we aren't meant for messing around with multiple people.
Thats the thing. Science says otherwise. Scientists say humans are not made for monogamy, and monogamy is created by the society. That polyamory is more natural.
To say that science says otherwise is misleading. Like in many subjects science doesn't have a uniform consensus on this matter.
www.irishtimes.com/.../...-or-polygamous-1.3643373
And no, there are well documented flaws and cons with polygamy.
''As long as everyone involved is happy'' a man killed ''his'' child, bc it was the child of one of the other guys, i dont record if he actually killed or raped a newborn baby out of jelously, either way, no, the ones that are sharing, are never actually happy, unless they are all bi and fuck each other
''Male primates may have become monogamous to protect their offspring from being killed by rival males, a new study finds'' - google search ''why some animals are monogomous'', that apeared, didn't dove too much into it tho
and yes, some animals are actually monogamous
You mean pros and cons with polygamy? The pros and cons are well documented yes. Like you said there is a lot of works which doesn't support polygamy and a lot of work which does support it.
@AFellowWeeb Yes only 5 percent are monogamous among animals.
@dreamy2020 sources?
@AFellowWeeb
www.scientificamerican.com/.../
Yeah, and bc of one article u found, dismisses everything we know, yeah, its so natural, thats why when u get cheated on, u feel bad, hell, even cheaters feel bad when they get cheated on, why? bc we are rational animals, i know, we may not look like it, but we are. If it was THAT much natural, no one would feel betrayed neither experience trust issues, animals, do not experience this, they act as instinc, WE DON'T, this is why people feel bad when they get betrayed, or jealous, even people that partake in polygamous relationships, always feel jealous deep down. Cuckolding, for exemple, its degrading, if u are willing to humiliate the ones u love, what would u do to the ones u dont even like? we are monogamous for nature now, bc there is no need for polygamy, no animal in the animal kingdom needs humans to survive ( as food ) and we are over 7 billion around all world, we are the ones who put other animals into extinction, not them to us, so no, we are not polygamous anymore
I am so tired of this " you found just one article, science is complicated"-nonsense. You asked me for a source, I gave you one. Do you want me to give everything done In this field? People wanna believe in the science that benefits their believe system as it seems. If you don't believe that polygamy is natural. fine your opinion. Anyone is entitled to their opinion, freedom of speech. But to say that it is wrong for everyone, because you personally wouldn't be in a polyamorous relationship, is ridiculous and ignorant! Just because you are not gay og trans, doesn't mean there are no gay or trans in this world.
ho, so no arguments about what i said? guess i won, if your only argument is ''mind your own business'', yeah, doesn't count
@AFellowWeeb Won? Are you a child? I don't believe us humans are polyamorous either. You just writing an essay for no reason. I just don't believe that polyamorous is wrong like you do. As long as everyone involved is happy in that relationship, who are you to say that it is wrong? You don't get to decide how other people should live.
'' As long as everyone involved is happy in that relationship'' never happens
Anything we do is natural because if humans do something it is human nature by definition.
I don't think you can form deep emotional connections with multiple people. The relationships aren't as meaningful because you are no longer foregoing something to maintain a polyamorous relationship like you would in the case of a monogamous one; after all, you relinquish your freedom to date/have sex with other people when you commit to a relationship of the latter kind. In other words, you are paying a price for love that shows your partner you value them over other people, because implicit in the monogomous relationship is that you have chosen your partner over other people. This same meaning is non-existent in polyamorous relationships due to how they are comprised.
Not for me.
Monogamy is natural
I personally think it's natural
its more based in nature than monogamy
I think it's not acceptable at this age. And I think that a man will not able to love them both equally which would create complications in future.
I don't like it and I won't do it for many reasons.
And yes, I've read numerous pieces in Psychology Today that is it normal, but they've said a LOT of things in that rag that just don't wash.
Psychology Today is just a liberal rag with an agenda.
@OlderAndWiser Yup!
I think all types of love are natural, some get influenced by our surroundings. If someone find that they can love multiple people then that shows they are more caring in my opinion, they can invest their time and emotions for multiple people.
I think it's more in line with actual human nature. But if it's not for you not a problem.
All for it
What exactly is that detailed cheating on a married couple?
No, more than two people involved in a relationship. Not cheating.
It’s not for me and I dont do threesomes thats lesbianism is that what you’re into?
I wouldn't. I was just curious about polyamory, since scientists say that monogamy is not natural for us humans.
I’m glad you’re not. You’re a good girl come private message me
Monogamy when it comes to "sex" does not seem to be natural... for most males anyway. History has proven that. The only "evidence" I have is anecdotal - I know of three different polyamorous relationships, and all of them have last over 20 years. Compared to the average length of a traditional hetero marriage, that's quite a difference. I don't know the stats on same sex marriages yet.
It is natural actually
Polyamorous means "loving" multiple partners, it's temporary feeling of people who don't love anybody in long run.
The best way in open relationships is to keep your true you for yourself and having sex with a partner who fucks with half of the city you're living in, is like eating your dinner from public toilet floor.
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It's natural to be monogamous.