What do you think if your girlfriend likes to fantasizes about porn?

[Valenn999x]

If she really likes to watch porn and fantasizes about this. What do you think about it? Do you like it or not?

I like to watch porn and fantasizes. Usually they are a situations that cannot happen in real life.

like... stepdad, family, boyfriend's friends, teachers strangers etc.

My boyfriend has known about it but one day he felt insecure what I'm doing and said something like...

"I know you like cock so much and you wanna have sex like porn you watched"

I was like... noooo it's just porn. Not reality

I watch dad fuck daughter doesn't mean I wanna get fuck by my dad, Porn just a movie. It's fake

Then he asked why would I watch it and fantasizes about it

He doesn't understand me and feel insecure because of that

[DaveJord]

Well as long as my girlfriend and I have a healthy sex life I would feel fine about it, but if she not putting out the effort in the bedroom for me, then I may start to have feelings about it. As long she understands that a lot of the porn stuff is staged, and edited later because like you said some things are just not realistic.

Like guys can't rail away for 45 minutes at a high velocity straight through with out taking a break, or losing it at some point and then editing out the fact that he orgasmed 10 minutes in then came back and hour later and started filming again and making it look like the guy held on to it for an hour just to save it all until the end. And yes some of the positions they use in porn look awesome but are awkward as hell to get into or transition to in real life without completely stopping and repositioning themselves to get that perfect camera angle. And that there are not suck off girls on set to keep him hard while they reposition everything.

But as long as she is realistic about the fact that she can't believe everything she sees in movies then I would be 100% all for her watching porn.

[Mahmoud_Madyan]

Listen... it's complicated, but what is now just porn fantasies, then it will be step by step real behavior... I don't talking about incests, but something like have sex with strangers, gangbang, cheating... the idea of that you are interested to the concept of cheating or do a sluty behavior itself is insecure and believe me don't say to yourself it just a movies, because even the normal cinematic movies affect our behalf... but the effect of porn is stronger so much than the normal cinematic movies... so you have to stop watching porn if you really love your boyfriend and want to save your relationship

[KarinMcDonald]

Everyone has a sexual menu that turns them on. My husband and I started watching porn together. Then it sort of morphed into watching mostly interracial porn. Then it sort of morphed into him eating me out while I watched the interracial type of porn. Then one day pornhub threw in a cuckold video in the mix. We both came so hard while watching that one, that we started a conversation. Anyway, have somewhat of an alternative lifestyle now.

[juliammm]

It is important to be able to do what you like. It's all about being yourself, being free, and of course, being understood.
No relationship is more important than this. Because you won't be able to hide from your true self very long anyway.

[Mikeybear]

@juliammm @karinmcdonald @valenn999x it should give more education and ideas.

[Lliam]

It wouldn't bother me at all as long as it didn't interfere with her enjoying lots of sex with me. I'd even get off on watching her masturbate. I love women with strong libidos.

[ohshee]

Well right now I'm single but I'm sure that most women are going to fantasize probably about the same thing that you fantasize about and I would hope but I am with somebody if she does like watching porn that she can communicate to me about it so I can make those fantasies come true whatever they are that's one of the best parts about being in a relationship it's having that connection that you can communicate about anything and try everything and not be afraid or embarrassed to do so

[DonkeyDan]

Doesn't he watch porn? All porn is a fantasy. Say he watches lesbian porn, doesn't mean he wants to be a lesbian, maybe you should tell him that.

[Luggit]

I don't have a girlfriend, nor a wife. But if I did, it wouldn't bother me. She could watch porn all day if she wanted too. Stuff like that doesn't bother me.

[Valenn999x]

Wow that's cool

[Luggit]

I don't see the harm in it, let her have fun, lol

[slatyb]

Hot!

[TheMajesticKing777]

I feel like the sex would become very boring irl and it can destroy the connection between the two, of course this is just one outcome out of several if not many different sets of outcomes

[bowenw]

I have no problem with her watching porn and like to watch it with her. We both know it's all just make believe, but it is a turn on.

[Massageman]

no problem with me - - - - -

[Andres77]

I encourage it.
She doesn't do it often.
When she just wants to get really raunchy really quick she'll find the dirtiest stuff, cum real hard... hoop... turn that shyt off.
After her orgasm, if there are chores to do, she jumps out of bed and starts doing stuff.

[genericname85]

she can fantasize all. she wants XD i like being with a sexually assertive and proactive girl, cause i don't wanna feel like i gotta beg for sex all the time :D

[Friendlybro79]

I think it's totally normal, healthy and being honest with him about it is good. Keep communicating with him, try to involve him, and if he doesn't like it, try to figure out what can make you both happy. Sometimes compromise is good with things like this.

[Jamie05rhs]

I can't judge you for that. I've done it myself.

You're in a relationship now, though. So try to respect his wishes if he prefers for you not not watch that stuff. You have to remember, the end goal is actually having sex, not sitting back and watching other people do it. If you have someone to do it with, why do you have to watch videos of other people?

[Rizwan_khan]

For me it's okh as far as it only likes it as fantasizes and their is nothing wrong in that. But the thing is we have to one thing keep in our mind that porn are all fake and it's just a video or movie of sex there is nothing like real shit even sex is also fake in porn they are fake moan and cum and all that. so yes you are not wrong at all at least for me. If i were you boy friend i don't have any problem even i enjoyed your fantasies ❣️😊

[kellytheman]

I don't mind if she watches porn most of the time we watch it together like a Saturday night movie. We like if from the comedic poor acting in it but some of the plots are not bad. We mostly like to watch parody of TV shows like Two and a half men, the brady bunch and even a Family Guy parody. Lately we been watching hentai porn for something new like Dragon ball or Pokemon.

[Baylay]

Girl stop fantasising those things. Those are wrong.

[Valenn999x]

Why?

[Pete671]

My girlfriend loves to watch cumshots,,, I think it's cool,

[cookiecrusher]

Well, things that turn you on are actually things you want to do.

Your guy is a bit of a softy. It's his job to fulfill your needs as it is yours for him, as much as you both can, roleplay, have threesomes etc. , whatever works for you.

People have kinks and it's normal.

In general it's hot if a woman finds porn/sexual activity hot and arousing.

[Twalli]

I do the same thing. I also like incest porn yet I don't want to fuck my mom nor my sister.

[Hanrej]

I would encourage it. 😉

[Valenn999x]

That's cool!!

[Hanrej]

Just out of curiousity, is there any scenario you WOULD try? Boyfriends friends doesn't seem impossible.

[Valenn999x]

I tried threesome with stranger but I didn't like it haha that's weird, it doesn't like porn at all

[Valenn999x]

That's dude sooo fucking nervous, he wasn't hard and it just awkward Lol but I've never tried with his friends

[Hanrej]

That's a shame. Threesomes are great if everyone is onboard.

[ND4SPD31]

Sounds kinda fun to me. 😎