What do you think of a 30 yearold virgin?

Question

The title is self explanatory, I'm 30 and still a virgin (it just never happened, it's not out of religiousbeliefs). I've had several people telling me they wouldn't date a virgin this age as "there must be something wrong with them if they didn't have sex yet."

What are your thoughts on this?

ohshee · Accepted Answer

Well first of all don't believe your friends because that's just totally wrong. And I totally respect that your 30 year old virgin because that's something that is hard to do there's no way in this world that I could ever do it I think I was 12 or 13 the first time I started masturbating and I haven't stopped LOL. For me I find it very very sexy that you're a virgin as a matter fact if I knew you and we were friends when we talked about it and I would be curious if you wanted to stay a virgin or if you wanted to try it and if you weren't sure then I would suggest let's go halfway and that would be make-out have foreplay and do everything as if we were going to have sex but no penetration and what that means is I would throw you over on top of me place your hips on mine grab ahold of your hips and slide you forwarded the slide you bet in slow slow motion slide you forward slide you back until your pussy with straddling each side of my cock we would do it very very slow motion but no penetration and there's a lot of other different ways but that way you would feel the sensation and you'll also stay a virgin

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It’s kind of unusual to be a virgin at that age, most guys feel that you probably would not be interested in sex if you waited that long because any woman can get sex whenever they want it

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

I feel sad for them missing out on their better years for sex. Also missing out on that love and connection too. Even tho that stuff can come at a later age, life is still very short and in my opinion everyone should be living everyday to their full potential of being happy.

Aurora1010 · Accepted Answer

I don't see anything weird with a 30 year old or any age virgin. Those guys are free to date or not whoever.  I personally don't see anything strange with your case, honestly

loves2learn · Answer

I think she has just not found the right guy yet. I think it is stupid if someone would not date you for that reason.

Mango-man · Answer

It makes me sad that we live in a world where someone could feel ashamed of being virgin.

I would be totally fine with it (even delighted) but I can imagine that for some guys who view dating only as a way to get "free" sex it would be deal-breaker.

For me sex is something that should strength already existing relationship (like a cherry on top of a cake) instead of being the main reason for getting together or being some kind of "achievement" to list the bodycount.

summiter · Answer

I respect her opinion to wait for the right guy at the right time in her life. Of course I'd date a 30 yr old virgin... no big deal.

Tamera952 · Answer

By 30 it's a little suspect. Although a few niche opportunities might present themselves by those that would get off on deflowering such a late bloomer.

DonkeyDan · Answer

No issue here.

ret04 · Answer

My thoughts are why do people place such a significance on whether someone has stuck their genitals into someone else's before or not? What other first time experiences with others are we concerned that much about? People are dumb, but especially when it comes to anything about sex. There's almost not logic involved with sex, it's just a primal drive.

haphazard · Answer

I don't think guys would think much of it. It's usually girls that say they wouldn't date a 30 year old virgin.

buddysboy16 · Answer

Nothing wrong at all. You're perfectly normal and if I was older I'd be more than willing to go out with you (obviously depending on other things though)

t-8900 · Answer

I would date a virgin. If we got serious and marriage was on the table I'd hope the marriage itself wasn't going to be dry and without a lot of sex tbh. But that's me. Some guys with lower sex drives might be okay with that.

TurningGraves · Answer

There often is something mentally wrong with them… us.

PoliteSpeaker · Answer

They have a strong chief aim in life that lets nothing get in the way or they lack conscious awareness of how to build meaningful relationships.

Sam_The_Savage · Answer

I always prefer older woman for date & sex. Feel free to pm me if you wanna chat private.

geoffy23 · Answer

Perfect ok. I’d prefer a 30year old virgin above a 30 year old who had 15 sexpartners.. It’s your body, you decide what you do :)

AmeerX · Answer

Nothing wrong with it

Yourfriend2021 · Answer

That would be fine, it's good you're not a typical whore who has been with a bunch of men since they were a teenager.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I don't think there's anything wrong with you.

I_am_a_smart_human · Answer

There’s absolutely nothing wrong in being virgin at 30. Maybe someone special is waiting for you

TheFlak38 · Answer

just another entitled bitch with astronomical standards. start buying cat food.

joeldalton · Answer

I would think there's something going on.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Absolutely nothing is wrong with this. Im a virgin just like you and I respect you. Confound the ignoramuses and their silliness.

blondfrog · Answer

Your a female so men will think that's hot.

moviedude714 · Answer

Have you had any suitors or guys express interest in you over the years?

Yaharro · Answer

It's actually batter I hate those girls who f with multiple guys if have to choose I rather choose decent looking virgin girl then beautiful hoe

Den1971 · Answer

Respectable

FreeOhSeven · Answer

I think when the time is right it’ll happen, I’d dare a virgin and ideally I’d trained up the way I like when she was ready to be through with that lousy virgin title.

Twalli · Answer

I wouldn't have a problem with it. Obviously people think it's religious if you wait that long. My girlfriend was a virgin until 33 and just like yuh ou it wasn't religious

IHateBeingaMan · Answer

more shocking to hear for a woman than for a guy because women don't have to do the pursuing or make the first move like guys are, plus, the way hollywood and the media potrays each sex differently if they are a virgin

In_Trance · Answer

What exactly are you waiting for?

Clarke498 · Answer

If everything else about her was worth it, i wouldn't care.

KeithLane · Answer

Not a big deal, it will happen when it happens. I was 25 before I decided to enter the sex game.

scooogy · Answer

I know that there is something wrong with me, as I seem too nice to be left, but not sensitive enough for closeness.

anylolone · Answer

Nothing, you are just a virgin.

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

It doesn’t concern me, lose it when you want it’s really not that big of a deal

Grubhub · Answer

I think it’s beautiful, you’re waiting for the right guy

Z1pTD · Answer

Sister was a virgin until 32 and didn't even date until 29. So pretty much either way is great lol

Seppel · Answer

I think it's unusual but I would date a 30 years old Virgin when I was same age

B4852 · Answer

Nothing wrong with it.

Zygum · Answer

It is not bad to be virgin at 30, there is no problem having sex with you. You can produce children at this age, you are a pure woman, I respect, lucky person will take your virginty

dpy87 · Answer

If by choose no issue. If constant rejection he needs to work on it.

MasterKS · Answer

fun to break her old virginity.

Julious0202 · Answer

No problem

Sampan2017 · Answer

It's totally normal

hakangirer · Answer

yes yes yes yes 😘

Anonymous · Answer

As a female... thats a very special thing and rare. If you were a male... it would be sad and pathetic because NO male is a virgin by choice. There is something wrong with him.

Anonymous · Answer

It's reassuring to know I'm not the only one. You haven't had any sexual experiences at all? Most people have at least been touched.

Anonymous · Answer

nothing wrong with that. i never went all the way it's no big deal

Anonymous · Answer

I think you would find it’s not so uncommon as you think. They’re going to be the quieter ones who don’t admit it openly. It’s Hollywood and the boisterous that make it a big deal.