What do you think of a 30 yearold virgin?

The title is self explanatory, I'm 30 and still a virgin (it just never happened, it's not out of religiousbeliefs). I've had several people telling me they wouldn't date a virgin this age as "there must be something wrong with them if they didn't have sex yet."

What are your thoughts on this?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well first of all don't believe your friends because that's just totally wrong. And I totally respect that your 30 year old virgin because that's something that is hard to do there's no way in this world that I could ever do it I think I was 12 or 13 the first time I started masturbating and I haven't stopped LOL. For me I find it very very sexy that you're a virgin as a matter fact if I knew you and we were friends when we talked about it and I would be curious if you wanted to stay a virgin or if you wanted to try it and if you weren't sure then I would suggest let's go halfway and that would be make-out have foreplay and do everything as if we were going to have sex but no penetration and what that means is I would throw you over on top of me place your hips on mine grab ahold of your hips and slide you forwarded the slide you bet in slow slow motion slide you forward slide you back until your pussy with straddling each side of my cock we would do it very very slow motion but no penetration and there's a lot of other different ways but that way you would feel the sensation and you'll also stay a virgin

  • It’s kind of unusual to be a virgin at that age, most guys feel that you probably would not be interested in sex if you waited that long because any woman can get sex whenever they want it

Most Helpful Girls

  • I feel sad for them missing out on their better years for sex. Also missing out on that love and connection too. Even tho that stuff can come at a later age, life is still very short and in my opinion everyone should be living everyday to their full potential of being happy.

    • That's what many people say

  • I don't see anything weird with a 30 year old or any age virgin. Those guys are free to date or not whoever.
    I personally don't see anything strange with your case, honestly

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  • I think she has just not found the right guy yet. I think it is stupid if someone would not date you for that reason.

  • It makes me sad that we live in a world where someone could feel ashamed of being virgin.

    I would be totally fine with it (even delighted) but I can imagine that for some guys who view dating only as a way to get "free" sex it would be deal-breaker.

    For me sex is something that should strength already existing relationship (like a cherry on top of a cake) instead of being the main reason for getting together or being some kind of "achievement" to list the bodycount.

  • I respect her opinion to wait for the right guy at the right time in her life. Of course I'd date a 30 yr old virgin... no big deal.

  • By 30 it's a little suspect. Although a few niche opportunities might present themselves by those that would get off on deflowering such a late bloomer.

  • No issue here.

  • My thoughts are why do people place such a significance on whether someone has stuck their genitals into someone else's before or not? What other first time experiences with others are we concerned that much about? People are dumb, but especially when it comes to anything about sex. There's almost not logic involved with sex, it's just a primal drive.

  • I don't think guys would think much of it. It's usually girls that say they wouldn't date a 30 year old virgin.

  • Nothing wrong at all. You're perfectly normal and if I was older I'd be more than willing to go out with you (obviously depending on other things though)

  • I would date a virgin. If we got serious and marriage was on the table I'd hope the marriage itself wasn't going to be dry and without a lot of sex tbh. But that's me. Some guys with lower sex drives might be okay with that.

  • There often is something mentally wrong with them… us.

  • They have a strong chief aim in life that lets nothing get in the way or they lack conscious awareness of how to build meaningful relationships.

  • I always prefer older woman for date & sex.
    Feel free to pm me if you wanna chat private.

  • Perfect ok.
    I’d prefer a 30year old virgin above a 30 year old who had 15 sexpartners..

    It’s your body, you decide what you do :)

  • Nothing wrong with it

  • That would be fine, it's good you're not a typical whore who has been with a bunch of men since they were a teenager.

  • I don't think there's anything wrong with you.

  • There’s absolutely nothing wrong in being virgin at 30. Maybe someone special is waiting for you

  • just another entitled bitch with astronomical standards. start buying cat food.

  • I would think there's something going on.

  • Absolutely nothing is wrong with this. Im a virgin just like you and I respect you. Confound the ignoramuses and their silliness.

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