What do you think of Bachelor Parties?

What do you think of Bachelor Parties?
Do you believe they should not be organized as it kinda of promotes infidelity and abuse from either part? Many people will say "well it is just one night, and it is for the groom or bride to be free and enjoy being single for one last time before entering the serious life of being married. How bad can it be some could say. Also some say that the bride should not be upset with her groom about it, cause it is "just one night and one time to be with his buddies" nothing will happen, really?

I will attach here an excerpt from a man who posted on some blog on the internet. It follows:

"Im a man and I dont attend night clubs or go to bachelor parties either where there are hookers and sexual explotaiton. My buddies call me "fag", gay, " your girl dont let you go... Men in bachelor parties with prostitutes (exploited women) move around like herds, they get turn on, touch, suck, abuse and pay for sex, they pay for private dances among several men. Yes, yes many of them are married, some have gf`s, many are "in love" and they pass the ladies like they were a "thing". It is like seeing a herd raping a girl. The friends pay the groom one or two private sessions so the groom "become a man", so he has to get laid before marrying, and they spend lots of money..

It is sexual exploitation, it is cheating, it is macho violence.
I dont want to see my friends behaving like rapists, I dont want to see my best friend behaving like a cheater to his wife as she is also my friend. I dont want to see the buddies I care, paying for a blowjob. Some will tell me: " They work on that beause they want to" and then I say to myself: I wish they really want that and enjoy that, but the majority of women suffer violence, women trafficking, abuse... it is exploitation!!! Im not gay or faggot, im brave, and conscious and I respect women, period."

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This is the opinion of a man but Ims sure at women bachelor parties something similar take place so it can also apply that the bride will cheat to her groom.
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  • Yeah they're probably a bad idea my wife she cheated on her bachelorette party

  • Bachelor parties are a billion times less gross than bachelorettes

  • Why you're not married?

    • why the curiosity?

    • You already got it. Good luck

  • I'm pretty sure the quote you posted was written by a woman, not a man.

    Some of what she wrote is true sometimes, but not at most bachelor parties. I've been to plenty and none of them were as she described.

    Stripping is exploitation of women? Huh? It is no more exploitation of women than being a sanitation worker at a waste treatment plant is exploitation of men. Both can be unpleasant, but both CHOOSE those professions because they pay well. I don't know why we as a society choose to see any challenges or adversity women face as "victimization" or "exploitation", but for men it's just life.

    • No, the quote I wrote was written by a guy not a woman

    • Sure it was

    • What is wrong if it was written by a guy? Not all guys are equal

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