What do you think of Oral Sex, on you?

[Olsonnpaz]

[AlphaMale1]

If she is good at it she just may be a keeper. If not or if she just is not into it then I am gone. I have known women who liked it when I licked their little button but was not interested in me. I left them after learning this.
I was engaged to a multi-millionaire back in the 90s that told me one time while she was sucking my cock. She said if you want to keep a man you have to suck his cock. Often. Or he will find a woman who will. I completely agree.

[Lliam]

It's super hot. A girl who knows what she's going can do things that feel amazing. She looks really pretty doing it. It's a very sweet thing for her to do. And the fact that it seems like a submissive act is really erotic, especially if she sucks and tongues while I cum and then swallows like a big girl.

[Knoxmandz19]

Females give it to you best as they know what they like and can give it to you, guys not as good but I still enjoy it from them but definitely from females the most.

[Bklynbadboy12]

That's cap

[Emilyis]

I love it, I had an innocent affair with my college roommate and learned from that what to teach my husband what I wanted from him/

[chrissykerdock]

it's kind of boring i guess i like they make an effort sometimes but i prefer giving blowjob much more than receiving... actually i look forward to giving blowjobs.

[caring__1]

What do you see as the differences between giving and receiving? Generally, true of most aspects of a relationship, if the giver enjoys what he/she is doing, there is more value to the action. When people do it out of obligation or have ulterior motives, the energy doesn't feed the partner. If your partner feels the objective is to give you an orgasm, it becomes a chore, as you're obligated to perform for that person. If your partner feels the objective is to make a special connection, that will fuel the fire within the relationship. Any orgasm is seen as the icing on the cake, not the primary focus. When the connection ends when the orgasm starts, that's telling you it's more about proving him/herself than caring about the partner.

[chrissykerdock]

@caring__1 i've been in more than one relationship where i didn't get any oral sex and i gave oral sex to them everynight pretty much... often 2-3 times a night as well... and i enjoyed myself and i know they enjoyed themselves as well... and they never complained about not getting to eat my pussy... which one of them said stunk and the other one said it was always slimy.

[caring__1]

I can understand how it would be hard to enjoy something the other found displeasurable. As long as you focus on basic hygiene, their issues were probably based on their own personal hangups and revulsion, not your body. Anyone who can only enjoy being on the receiving end will never be much of a partner... no matter what aspect of a relationship we're talking about. Hopefully, you can find a partner who values and enjoys you as you are. We all deserve to be appreciated for what we bring to a relationship. As you discovered when you started giving oral sex, oral sex is an acquired taste. If you want to appreciate it, you will appreciate it. You could say the same about tobacco, beer or tomatoes and many other things people choose to enjoy. It's unfortunate people convince us we're disgusting rather than learning to savor the pleasures we have to offer. I can relate to your experiences. That's the reason I prefer giving over receiving. The last thing I want is for someone to do what they don't actually enjoy, and it has been rare to find partners who do more than their obligation or their attempt to prove something.

[chrissykerdock]

@caring__1 it's really quite enjoyable to give someone a blowjob... at least we get something to really suck and it cums when it's over... plus often i feel satisfied giving a blowjob and don't mind the not returnable aspect of oral sex

[caring__1]

What you get from giving is exactly what guys get from giving, when their head is in the right place, as it is for you. There is nothing that would make giving oral sex more positive for any gender. We both savor giving, yet we have little motivation to receive, due to the words and actions of others. If you found a partner who savored you the way you savor him, in all areas, both of you would be happier. Unfortunately, there are just too many people, of all genders, whose primary focus is "what's in it for me." The more we give, the more we receive... the more we take, the quicker the well runs dry. People tend to be too selfish to be healthy partners. Choose wisely... never assume anyone will change for you.

[chrissykerdock]

@caring__1 thing is i'm happy to give blowjobs and i'm willing to give it often as they'd like which isn't issue... and i'm not hoping they want to suddenly eat my pussy... there's a lot of things they can do to make me happy other doing something they don't really want to do... your not a girl so you don't know what it's like to get on your knees for a man who has a hard penis and who would like it sucked until he cums one way or another

[caring__1]

There's nothing wrong with enjoying what you find enjoyable. I just don't want you to feel there is anything wrong with your body... which is what guys have attempted to make you believe. It's not about everything being totally equal... it's about feeling good about whatever you do bring to the relationship.

[chrissykerdock]

@caring__1 i never felt bad i can understand them not wanting to do it and i definitely didn't want to push it because i thought maybe they wouldn't want blowjobs as much if i did... they were both very good to me i never had any problems along those lines and felt good about fellating them so often.

[chrissykerdock]

@caring__1 you make a good point about it being perceived as disgusting but i'm realizing if you like to do something than do it... they felt good about it i know and they knew i enjoyed it and liked it... i wore a lot of mini dresses so i dressed for the part as well... i just love to suck

[caring__1]

As long as you feel good about yourself, all is fine.

[chrissykerdock]

@caring__1 i got past that and can be honest about it... i love to suck and will suck someone if he wants that from me

[ohsheeT]

I like it but I'm more into making it all about her and giving it to her that's what turns me on is just making everything about her

[Guy13]

Not a problem for me...

[katiesmuff]

Yes yes yes yes and oh more please!

[BLP11520]

I love eating pussy

[DannyUk2017]

Never had that Luck!

[Katie1964]

Hubby is performing it? All for it. Anytime he wants.

[ushagomez]

A great pleasure as part of sharing wonderful sex with a partner

[mandyfire98]

I love it

[Ill_made_Knight]

It's fine as an appetizer, Vaginal intercourse is the main course for my pleasure.
I dearly LOVE giving my lady oral. I've been a lifelong student of technique, but even at that each partner is new in terms of which touches where, intensity and building it up... It's the sexual activity that gives me the most precise input to her immediate pleasure. IF she's into it. Everyone's different.

[20yearsolder]

I love it. What do you think of oral sex on you?

[BlondeGoneWild]

I don’t dislike it but I’m not crazy about it

[Chazmatazz269]

Very ‘meh’.

[crossdressingrihno]

One of the reasons I avoid sex is because I’m afraid of oral XD

[Ezra_lila]

A lollipop...

[Ms_Facesitter]

Love it.

[BLP11520]

I love eating my wife

[Sarahplus2]

I can take it down my throat and it's about taking your time.

[Wraven]

95% of the time its done incorrectly feels slightly painful and super sensitive leaving me flaccid and a bit irritated.
Even when i say its ok, i am ok not getting it, they still want to try, and after telling them what not to do do, they do it anyway. 😖
For future reference many thick and uncircumcised guys, don't pull that foreskin back, then proceed to glide teeth and suck on it. When you feel good dick shrivel that's a great sign you are failing and either listen to him or give up.

[Labelleame]

I enjoy it very much.

[Bklynbadboy12]

But that's just foreplay you need more than that right

[FunkyMonkee]

I've never had it. Don't really care if I ever do. What's an old broad like you asking about it for?

[exitseven]

I sometimes really like it.