What do you think when a girl fingers herself during sex?

I think it weirded my boyfriend out a little bit when I did it.
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Just so people no I mean rubbing my clit.
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  • Even though you are a Troll and are Trolling here, you should at least think your question out before adding it. It would be totally unusual for a girl to have a finger inside her vagina when the partner has his dick in there which is how one would take your question. Do girls flick their clits when getting fucked, absolutely they do! I would be pathetic to think a guys penis to be so small that a finger easily fits inside as well.

    • Lol, I would rather be a troll than a catfish. Do you even know how a girl fingers herself? Hint, its normally not inside. I guess guys dont know that.

    • rubbing your clit is rubbing your clit; fingering is penetrating With finger. I think both of you are likely women just using differnt terminology. and I know no one asked me 🤷‍♀️

    • @VIVANT you are right. I'm sorry. There are so many people that come here to argue. I think fingering is anything down there. I didn't know other people called it different things

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  • Totally fine. I do it often. My guy encourages it. Your guy may just be insecure and worried he isn't pleasuring you.

Most Helpful Guys

  • The uneducated with be upset that there dick isn't enough to get you off and you have to assist.

    The educated will know its only a small percentage of women that can orgasm from penetration alone and will see your trying to help get to orgasm so you can enjoy it at the same time.

  • It may have been a first for him and it poked at his ego explain to him if you haven't already that he was doing perfectly fine and that you were showing him a neat little trick start training him on this trick so he can perform it without feeling inadequate

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  • She's just helping things along.

  • It’s very very common Shame if it made him feel weird.. I’m not sure what to advise on that. I mean he should be happy you know your body and see into it all 🤷‍♀️😊

  • It means " hey your dicks so small there's still room for my fingers"

    • I always wonder how girls who hate small dick would act they were a with a small dick

  • I have no problem with it at all. It's hot when a woman maximizes her pleasure. She's got a strong libido. And if being full of cock combined with clit stimulation gets her off, I'm totally for it. There's nothing better than fucking an orgasming woman.

  • It’s pretty common for girls to do this during sex or foreplay. Honestly I do it all the time.

  • I would think she is doing what she enjoys to maximize the experience. And I would be glad to help in any way I can.

    • Thank you for MHGuy. :-)

  • Did he feel insulted?

  • I think that's hot. Sometimes it means you're not doing such s great job but I don't let thst mske me nervous, just try to switch things up s bit and have a good time

    • No it isn’t personal it’s how most women cum.

  • I get so turned on if i`m having sex with a girl and she starts fingering herself

  • Normal

  • I love it, my last girlfriend used to do this during and i found it hot

  • At leas she knows how to make herself happy. That’s good.

  • It's fine because it allows the girl to have clitoral stimulation since most girls don't orgasm from penetration alone.

  • I think it's positive. A sign that she is enjoying the sex and wants to add a little extra. I don't see it as something negative, or bad performance from my side. I think it's hot.

  • She is helping ensure we have a good session.
    Having said that and I'm not trolling you, what position were you in?
    Most compatible with Cowgirl and its reverse and doggy.

  • Seems pretty normal to me. I may even help her with some lube.

  • I would think that she was having fun.

  • The more unashamed the better :P

  • It's fine. I don't see a problem.

  • you mean you penetrated youself with fingers in addition to being penetrated with his dick?

    • just rubbing your clit is completely normal in my opinion.

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