What does it mean when someone says "You don't look like virgin"?
I've heard it said to girls before. What does it even mean, do virgin girls look different than non virgins?
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67 178It most likely means you come off as a “partier/ outgoing/ well spoken/ well adored by guys... kind of girl.
A guy can usually look at a female and tell if she's already had sex, or even with several men in her life. I know I can, and I'm almost never wrong. A woman with sexual experience has a certain body language and behavior, especially with men, that gives her away. And it doesn't even have to be sexual or flirty behavior, it's just a kind of body language you can read.
What body language
@hasrett It's just a kind of behavior and the way she carries herself that you can read and tell that she's been with men before, even if her behavior isn't sexual. A virgin female doesn't exactly act nerdy or naive like some people think, but she can act like it's either fun to interact with a guy, or she's nervous. A woman who's already slept with men has like a... kind of relaxed, I-know-what-it's-all-about behavior.
Hmm interesting.
Agreed. As bad as it sounds it is obvious.
totally ridiculous fabrication of your ego
@Sha84 lol I thought so too, but what do I know anyway.
@TheUsername27 Yeah, guys can see it.
only a gynecologist can determine this, manonfire is in love with himself and will say anything to help his low self esteem
@Sha84 What would my ego have to gain from knowing? It's simply a sense a guy can have about a woman, and that sense often IS correct.
I guess both of you @ManOnFire and @Sha84 are right in a way hahah You can definitely tell if a girl is pure hearted and innocent through her body language, but today you have a lot of "virgin" girls who have already engaged in a lot of sexual activities, and for those you really "need a gynecologist" to determine the difference :D
@zzzondarrr Even with those you can still tell though. You know which ones would give head or not.
You don't have to be non-virgin for that lol.
@zzzondarrr lol
Bullshig
The girls who dislike are sluts who hate to admit it and the men who've disliked are major cucks
@ManonFire: 100% agree. A woman's vibe and certain act gives her away that she done ride before lol.
Just out of curiosity, can you usually tell from photos too?
@Princess-alexandra: Not really. It's more of a in person interactions and vibes you get from her.
This is interesting. I've heard guys say this before too🤔
@Princess-alexandra Oh definitely. I know I can. But I have a weird knack for that anyway.
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy Exactly. And guys are the ones who can sense it so I have no idea how females can even say we're wrong.
Interesting, I agree on the body language thing, but I think it has some flaws. Guys usually don't guess right for me
@itwasmelaniasfault Of course we're not ALWAYS right, but I think more than not we are correct.
Maybe it’s a sort of confidence they have. But then again virgins can have this confidence too. 🤔
Berserk117 why are you trying to use “sluts” as an insult? what are you 12?😂
@manonfire. Thanks - this makes sense in a strange kind of way. And anyone suggesting that a gynaecologist can tell whether a girl/woman is virgin or not is actually an imbecile. Many things can break the hymen other than a penis (say, a tampon, riding a bike lots, masturbation...)
Agree on this and the body language aspect and I believe I can usually guess approximately how many partners she has had like guessing weight.
Haha well for me there has been more guys wrong then right, but maybe I am confusing
Lol so you are saying you are 25 year old virgin girl?
@jmcc17 You're the first female to see what I mean.
@ktdec It's not exactly confidence, but no, most virgins don't carry her same body language.
@Underduress Spot on. You got it. I'm actually gonna be posting a Take about this soon.
@manonfire Something like 7% of our communication is the words we use, the rest is tone and body language. The science on human pheromones is understudied, as we don't appear to have receptors in the expected places (from studying other animals), but they are still a possibility. I can't speak for all women, but I know that after my first time I definitely _felt_ different in an unexplainable way. Like I'd been let in on some dark secret, and life would never be the same again. Very much the same feeling I had entering puberty.
I've not previously considered whether pheromones may play a part, although I've suspected hormones have a role. However pheromones, and a genetic variation contributing to the effectiveness of one's pheromone receptors, could explain both my experiences of 'change', and the varying abilities, and belief in the ability, to somehow discern a woman's sexual history merely from being in a close enough proximity. I'm unsure, was the question regarding photographs answered?
@jmcc17 “I know that after my first time I definitely _felt_ different in an unexplainable way. Like I'd been let in on some dark secret” …same experience for this guy. I like the pheromone idea
Might be bs, of course! ;D
@jmcc17 Could be bs, but you could be on to something, I have tested them and they do work but I never thought of this.
OMG this is so true. I lied to a guy telling him I Was married and he said, "stop lying. You dont have the body of a married woman."
@Lovelynerdtoyou Lol! Yeah a guy can just tell.
Is it something gained with experience I am not able to tell at the moment
@Lonerguy1234 You don't necessarily need experience to see it, no. You mostly need to be observant and aware of a vibe they might carry. I'm working on a Take about this that I'm gonna post soon and it'll explain it more.
Girls once said that to me in high school. I always felt ugly in high school. To make a long story short. I think girls thought I was far cuter that I ever thought possible. It's probably the same for you.
They may act a different way, hence the statement "look" like as opposed to act like. There is a perception that virgins are quiet, introverted and not your center of attention. If a girl is flirtatious with many boyfriends and is still a Virgin a guy might say "you don't look virgin".
I've never said any girl doesn't look like a virgin, but I know girls who don't seem or act like virgins, even though they are.
Personally, I don't assume one way or the other. If I don't know them well, I don't care, and if I do, I'd rather keep my stupid mouth shut than say things like that that could ruin a friendship or whatever.
Where i come from. It means that you look innocent
It just means that they don't know what they're talking about. That's all.
"you look like a slut"
Too hot to be a virgin
You dont look innocent or together in your soul. Basically your eyes reveals a lot. That is why investigators do interrogations face to face.
Berserk117 why are you trying to use “sluts” as an insult? what are you 12?😂
Yes u could tell really easy
Yeah I've heard it a lot, people just assume things and associate stereotypes
I can't tell if girls are virgins, but I know from the first few minutes of a night out who wants sex with who.
I feel like the general consensus is that girls who have lost their virginity and have experience act more confident.
I don't know... I would love for someone to answer this question who do
Some guy in during summer school in hs said I didn't look like a virgin when I was. And I ended up losing my virginity to that same guy a few weeks later.
You were proving a point by getting deflowered?
It seems it was a plot to get you to sleep with him
You failed for the bait and all it took was a few weeks... you are the weakest link lol.
I'm A Whole Virgin And Everybody Say I Look Like I Be "Fucking" I Look Like A Freak I Look Like I'm Down For Anything I Look Like I Give Good Oral Sex.. And I'm Just Over Here Like "What Is Sex" ? 😭😭🤷
so when you asked the question stating that you wanted to fuck this guy so you needed to know everyones opinion on whether you should sneak him in or you should sneak out... i guess you never fucked him right... come one quit fronting everyone will like you either way.( I would screenshot where you asked this question but it won't let me)
Aren't you 16 years old? That's what you should be thinking if that's your real age.
@chase12986 Yea I Wanted Him To Take My Virginity I'm Glad Nun Of Those Plans Worked Out For My Dumb Ass... He Wouldve Took My Virginity And Left For College
I'm puzzled on why they think virgins have a "look" Lmfao should they be walking around with a huge posted note on their face? 😂😂😂
My thoughts exactly 😂
People these days. I swear 😂
I'm gonna give this a shot
@SuitAndTie oh hey there! Go ahead.
I say "How dare you! Now please excuse me as I angrily walk away with my 2 children".