What happened to normal conversations nowadays?
When a man starts talking like this upon meeting I'm OUT.
"Why is everything censored around nudes , sex , and talks about sex?"
This is a strong indication that the man you are talking to does not see you as "relationship material" - he has instead put you in the "recreational use only" category. And as such, he's only interested in you for sex, and with that in mind, there's no reason not to get straight to the point, because if you're going to turn him down, he'd rather know it sooner than later, so he can move on to the next girl.
I don't know you or anything about you, so the following is only information, not judgement.
If a woman gets this kind of interaction from one man once in a while, it's likely that she just stumbled across one bad guy. If this is happening often, the problem is not with the men, it's with the woman.
There are two common reasons this will happen to a woman:
1. She's going for guys quite a ways above her level. The dating market is like any other market: when there is a high volume of "transactions" (people meeting people), the overall market can determine the value of things. Just as you, as a woman, can look at a man and assign him a value as a potential relationship partner, men do the same with a woman. And just as women get to decide what attributes are valuable in a man, men get to decide what attributes are important in a woman. A woman might believe that she's a 9.5 out of 10, but her evaluation is irrelevant - the MARKET - the collective opinion of the men - is what sets her value, and if the market says she's a 4 out of 10 (remember: this example is hypothetical - it isn't about you), then the kind of men who are likely to take her seriously as a potential relationship partner are going to be men who are 4s out of 10 in the eyes of women, and MAYBE a few 5s.
It's important to understand that women can easily get ATTENTION from men who have a higher market value IF she's willing to give him casual, no-strings-attached sex in return, but this absolutely does NOT mean that these same men are going to take her seriously as a relationship partner. Men routinely sleep down, but they rarely commit down. Many women assume that if a man wants to sleep with her, that he would consider her for a relationship, but nothing could be further from the truth. For a commitment, men rarely give that to a woman he doesn't consider to be at his market value, so the higher his value, the higher hers must be.
2. She's - well, promiscuous. If a woman has a promiscuous past (much less a promiscuous present), plenty of men will still want to sleep with her, but she's going to be solidly in the "recreational use only" category.
You will get a few men who will disagree with these generalizations (and generalizations always have a FEW exceptions), but if you look closer, you'll find that most of these dissenters don't have a history of long-term, committed relationships, and often don't REALLY have much of an interest in being in one.
I don't think most women even know what most men *who are looking for a committed relationship* even want in a woman, much less are most women making any effort to be those things. And men, knowing they can't change her, simply shrug and put her in the "for recreational use only" category, and act accordingly.
Again - this isn't about you - I have no idea if any of this applies to you - but if any of this sounds familiar, then perhaps what I've said will give you some things to think about.
What would you rather talk about?
Hobbies
Movies?
Politics or religion?
Multiverse theory?
How death certificates are really expiration receipts for birth certificates?
How come certain hues don't look the same to ether sexes?
Random facts we know
Trains
Maybe a deep discussion on how the maximum normal measurements for an airliner carry-on is 22x14x9". :- )
@Massageman I was hopping for how airlines have developed a certain code phrase for when they are carrying human remains. But that's a cool fact! How about most awkward moment?
Normal things like how are you doing , favorite food, interests, hobbies, goals, etc
Yeah, it is rare to have a normal conversation with anyone on here.
Or in general period
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Hookup culture has messed a lot up.
Yep 💯
Crappy educations that give people nothing to talk about.
"What do you think about the Mesopotamian civilization?"
"Is that a TV show or some kind of pizza?"
"When was the Civil War?"
"What's a Civil War?"
Not all do but yeah
That's because the world is going down the toilet. People think they are entitled to Everything and they are better than Everyone else. It's time they got off their high horse and come back to reality. There are a lot more things to talk about besides sex
Indeed it's so boring 😴 to talk about that all day
I could not talk about sex all day long. That would drive me crazy. I don't care what other people do in bed
Same idc but upon meeting this is the first thing most people want to talk about is sex
When it’s online, you don’t have to worry about people’s reaction. So I can be my true self.
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