Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Even though i enjoyed the sex when partaking in it, sex has never truly been a need in my book. At 15, i was pressured into it so i did it for his pleasure. At 23, i did it out of love/commitment but also honestly out of hope for reproduction. Sounds horrible but its true. Maybe when i marry, it’ll be out of a combination of self-pleasure and pleasing one another.
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What has sex been to you?
DizzyDesii Editor
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I’m probably the only one who did it out of rebellion. I hated having to hear my mom have sex as a kid. So when i started having sex, i’d do it in public places hoping she’d catch me. Sadly she never did but lots of family, friends and classmates did. They’d tell her and she’d shun them and call them liars. She stayed in denial until i turned 23. Thats when she thought i lost my virginity, but i wasn't even having sex during the month she assumed 🤣
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25 59All of that and to help sleep.
Definitely to help with sleep
I have a vote A
What about your partners pleasure lol
Commitment/self pleasure
Nice
whats this sex you speak of? I haven't had any in over a year
Well what did it mean to you back then
@dizzydesii heaven.. like Im sleeping on a cloud
I do it before marriage, but I love the person and am committed to making the relationship work.
Sounds good :)
A way to please each other and an act of love 💘
Thats nice :)
It has been rape at one time but for most of my life it's been non-existent.
Im sorry that happened to you
A necessity in life for pleasure and bonding
Yea i dont see it as a necessity but its def a bonus
Well it is kinda a basic need
For reproduction. But even then he can cum ij a cup
No, aside from production
I guess kinda like Maslow's hierarchy of needs
It's always been with my wife so it's been an act of love.
Sounds lovely
Thank you 😊❤️
Mutual pleasure, intimacy, a way to reproduce, physical activity, and a way to reproduce
Lmao
Oh,... shit... didn't realize i said "a way to reproduce" twice
I do it for all of those. Except, for reproduction, and marriage. Since I, am never getting married again. And I, can't have kids.
I think you’ll have a miracle baby
Lol. Nope!!! Especially since I, don't like kids. Lol
Never been to it
Well what do you think it’ll mean to you
It did it to see the girls reaction when I made her finish. I guess that’s why I let my girlfriend finish before me now
Thats sweet
Its been fun
Yea i forgot that option
Its not as important if its just for fun anyway
You both have to want to have sex to enjoy it.
I agre
The first time I had sex u was 16 and I was pressured into it. I don't think I was any good or pleased her with my size.
I was 15 and pressured into it as well. He was too big and kept trying to force himself deeper. But he couldnt hardly get the tip in. It was painful
Wow I feel sorry for you having to take that size. He could have at least used lub or got you super wet. Back when I was 16 I was only about 5inches so I doubt I even came close to pleasing her. Now I'm a bit older I'm 11inches long and find it hard to find a sexual partner.
I was wet. But he had a big mushroom tip. I was a virgin so its not easy to get that inside no matter how wet. He was 7 soft and 8-9 inches hard and we were only 15
I have quite a big mushroom head to 6inches but I would never force it in. I'm sure you couldn't wait to he was finished.
He didn't get to becquse i pushed him off me
Wouldn't blame you. 15 years old and taking 9 inches that's to big.
Even now at 26, i dont want something more than 7 something inches hard
That's me out of the question then lol. I'm used to being rejected over my penis size.
Porn stars will like it 🤣 but honestly i would never dumo a guy for his size. I just prefer he be 5-7.5 inches hard. If its more or less, i’d try it out. If im not with it, then there's always breaking up. But i dont just have sex with anyone.
Not many porn stars about that I can pick from lol. It's nice you belive me about my size, most say I'm lying. I changed my profile pic earlier just to prove a point 🤣🤣
11 sounds like a stretch but i dont want proof if im not dating the person. Just dont sell yourself short
11 is a little hard to belive but it's true. Don't worry I wouldn't show you something you don't wana see.
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Ahh i see
I just wanna know how it feels lol
Like falling from the sky and never landing
😂😂ok
Don't we land after Cumming lol
A way to reproduce. I don't even want kids, but as an only child and male, I'll HAVE to
Dont create one if you're not gonna love em like you wanted em
Doesn't matter I'm a man, I HAVE TO
Why didn't I get mho
lol, that mean you need sex to know what it means! Let's me out ha, ha ha!
Well back when wife and I did that it was love now it is scheduled in on her side she lost urge for that maybe hormones or change of life...
Or maybe has a new one she's getting!! Such is life.
for me it's really about love it can be for reproduction as well i think ya should do it for love and reproduction not marriage and find someone who wants the same i want that and at least 1 more kid myself personally