What is the longest time you go without sex?

[Trutention]

I must have sex daily.

[Finchie40]

I don’t want to go without it , I prefer to be with a girl that loves sex as much as I do , that wants me like I want her , that considers my feelings the same way she wants me to consider her feelings. Sadly I haven’t found the right girl yet. With my experiences with girls’ sex was never an issue in the beginning , her and I will fuck like rabbits , but sadly after some time , it can start to fade , mainly because of her deciding she no longer wants it as much as I do , and sadly that’s when the relationship takes a turn for the worst , because we both don’t agree on things. When a girl starts lacking in the sex department with me? I will pretty much have one foot out the door , I will talk with her and try to find out , why she no longer wants sex. If she gives me lame excuses as to why she no longer isn’t in the mood , I will dump her and move on , if she gives me valid reasons as to why? , than I will stay by her side and try to fix what is broken. But if she uses sex as a weapon with me? , to get her way with me? and doesn’t consider my feelings like I consider hers , I will end it with her and go find someone else that isn’t selfish. I feel bad for people that are in marriages and relationships that are one sided. Sadly they are wasting their time staying with someone that really doesn’t love them the same way. Life is too short to be with someone that doesn’t consider your feelings and wants and needs. I am not saying you have to have sex every day , but sex should not be an issue between the both of you , if it becomes an issue and it becomes one sided , That relationship more
Than likely won’t last the long haul , and It’s best for that partner to move on and find someone that matches their sexual preferences. Sadly most people stay in relationships where they aren’t satisfied and than they end up cheating and having affairs and lying to your face that they actually love you. They love using you and taking advantage of you , you are
A convenience to them , but they don’t actually love you, they only love themselves. Love comes from choosing each other , standing by each other , removing selfishness for each other , making each other your top priority , Not the other way around. When a partner treats you like a convenience? It’s best for you to end that relationship and find yourself someone that makes you a priority. Never settle for less unless they give you a valid reason as to why they are no longer in the mood for sex , it better be a medical reason that they are trying to get help with , if they aren’t getting help? They are lying to you and you are best to end that relationship with them , you will only be hurting yourself by staying with someone that doesn’t consider your wants and needs. Trust me I been there before and I will not be there again. I want a girl that brings happiness into my life , Not misery

[itsclearlynicholas]

I was like this in my earlier to late 20s
Now even if I had had a girlfriend or wife or even a friends with benefits or two, I for one now at 30 have thankfully started to decline and feel less inclined ironically even to do anything more than once a few days.
Old man Nicholas at only 30 lol 😂😆 is aging

[itsclearlynicholas]

Hormones, genes. The aging process lol 20 year old me would've been appalled ahahahaha how I the mighty have fallen hahaha 🗝️

[SueShe]

The longest period would be 22 years and a little over 2 months. And guess what?

I am not missing a single second I did not fornicate. Why? Because I have set other priorities in my life that are not compatible with copulation. You see, I have a goal in life and that goal is to get my degree. I will not allow anyone or anything to interfere with my goal. Fornicating will invariably divert my attention from my goal and one cannot give full attention to both activities. If you want 100% attention on one thing, then you discard the unimportant ones.

I can think of copulating once I have my degree in my pocket and have worked for a number of years. Thus, I will give a thought about fornicating in about 20 years from now.

[Goahead76]

I hope if you ever decide you want children you haven't sold off your most valuable gift and given those years to some corporation.

[SueShe]

@Goahead76 Thanks for your concern. I actually like the way you phrased your reply. I personally find it is a crime to put a child out in this world. These poor children have absolutely no future at the rate we destroy this planet.

[Siri137]

Twenty years from now you'll be 42. No one will want to fornicate, copulate, have coitus, screw, root or bang you, because you'll be too old, over the hill, past the wall. You do realise that it's possible to have the goals in life you have, AND have sex as well. The two aren't mutually exclusive.

[SueShe]

@Siri137 And is that bad?

[Siri137]

Yes.

[SueShe]

@Siri137 why would it be bad? What are your arguments?

[Siri137]

It's been established that long periods without sex can, and often does, lead to psychological and health issues. People become paranoid, grumpy, judgmental, and stressed out. High blood pressure is one of the physical side-effects, and having high blood pressure increases the risk of heart attacks and stroke. Sex is the best stress-reliever there is, and it's fun, and there are no good reasons not to do it. People who have sex often are much happier than those who don't.

[SueShe]

@Siri137 Have you ever noticed on how important sex is to everyone and how it rules and commands all those people's lives, perhaps even yours? Think of it. Assuming that people aged 16+ have sex once a day for a period of 15 minutes (I know that is above average), but for the sake of math simplification, let's take that time. They have sex for 15 minutes, 5 times a week for a period of 60 years (I know that I am unrealistic and that it is substantially less). The vast majority of people don't have sex 5 x a week when they are 70 or older. They get wiser and have it perhaps for 10 minutes twice a month. The math: A day has 18 hours (let's not count the time you sleep), that is 1,080 minutes/day x 7 days = 7,560 minutes = 100% of the awake time per week. Now 15 minutes of sex x 5 days = 75 minutes. Therefore, 75 minutes represent 0.99% of the total time you are awake. It's an activity that takes less than 1% of the time of your entire life but it rules 99% of it. That makes absolutely no sense. You would think people are stupid, crazy or out of their minds if that kind of situation would happen in other situations of life., no? So, why should it be different with fornication? The vast majority of those that fornicate don't want children and the prime reason why copulation exists in nature is to procreate. Where is the logic here?

[Siri137]

You could say the same about so many other things as well, like listening to music, watching TV, going to the beach, or just sitting in the sun and enjoying the solitude. These are the things that make life worthwhile. This morning I just went to a local park, the weather was perfect, and I just sat there in the shade doing absolutely nothing. I didn't care if I was "wasting time" or "being unproductive". I don't care about that. I want to enjoy my life while I can, before it all comes to an end and then nothing will matter anymore anyway.

[SueShe]

@Siri137 One could indeed say the same except for those activities you mention, people are less likely to murder, rape or in any other way coerce force others to "participate". I love to go for walks as well in the woods, to listen to music or to enjoy the solitude. Those activities bring the very same benefits as the ones you mention above and probably even more. I don't have to force others to participate if they don't want to. I have the feeling that you have targeted me because I think differently. I love a good argument and I believe that you are a clever and intelligent person. Each is allowed to have their own views on topics but I have the feeling you singled me out. I am fine with it because having different opinions is what gives the spice to life.

[Goahead76]

I've been hanging back in this discussion and thank you Siri for making some excellent points, and much more effective coming from you vs me. I think with sex we constantly hear the ugly abuses and excesses but the truth is, it really is a beautiful thing. I had a religion teacher once say that it's the closest to God we'll get in this life. As in, it's an act involved in the creation of life and nothing else we do really comes close. I'm not even religious but that always stuck with me. But to continue that thought, you could also think of like this, basically it's the adults in the world who bear all the responsibility, who keep things going, who work and have all the stress. Sex is a gift from God you might say to the adults that carry that burden. This is also why it's wrong for children. Children shouldn't have stress, and therefore don't need it. This why it's considered such an absolutely heinous thing. But for adults, obviously it should be used as intended, having children is a beautiful thing, and having an amazing orgasm after a stressful week is too, feeling closer to your partner, and it also releases all kinds of anti-inflammatory hormones that wash through your entire body especially your heart. So depriving yourself of that I can't quite understand.

[Siri137]

Yes, it's true I often come across your comments and almost always disagree with them, but if that can be called "singling out" I'm not sure. Maybe it's because your responses are always so "entertaining", let's say :) And unusual too I have to admit.

[Siri137]

@Goahead76 Hey, someone else has joined the chat. Yes, your teacher was correct. I mean, why else do people cry "Oh God!" when they climax? The orgasm is a divine experience. "Children shouldn't have stress, and therefore don't need it" - Well, in theory childhood should be a stressfree time, but unfortunately it's not. It certainly wasn't for me, so much so that I couldn't wait to be able to decide to leave school permanently. I hated being a child. I'm far more stress-free now.

[Goahead76]

@SueShe. I have to say though you are going to have me thinking about your replies, you have some really interesting opinions on things I've never run into.

[Siri137]

@Goahead76 Thank you <3

[Goahead76]

@Siri137. You've got me wondering what kind of outrageous comments I've made that had you always disagreeing now. 😄🤣

[Goahead76]

@Siri137 I hate hearing that though about your childhood, vit makes me sick. Childhood years should be full of fun, play & innocence and adults should carry heavy rocks all day and use sandpaper for toilet paper if that's what it takes to give children that life. So yeah I'm sorry hear that. I'm hoping you are able to make up for it a lifetime in adulthood somehow. 😌

[Siri137]

@Goahead76 No, not you. SueShe. I often disagree with her comments.

[SueShe]

@Siri137 are there any comments you ever agreed with?

[SueShe]

Thanks for the MHO

[Nikki1989]

2 months was my longest stretch between sex partners. It was hell.

[Mr_twoface]

@trutention Did you get a stallion for boyfriend? ;) My sex life has been a roller coaster, longest was just less than 3 years.

[Siri137]

About 20 minutes.

[Lowiu]

Like since I started I think it was something between 3 and 4 weeks

[BadApple69]

Where do I find a girl like you?
I was married to a very fried girl… I went 5 years without sex. I was young, stupid, frustrated and loyal. I had several girls offer me sex and I turned it down. We divorced eventually, but those years of rejection continue to effect me to this day.

[RebelinSteel]

13 years

since then it’s been about 3 months

[BCRanger10]

I waited until I got married to have sex. I was 31. After that though? About two and a half months. My wife was in the hospital because of pregnancy complications. There was that and then her recovery afterwards.

[Dargil]

2.5 years internal exile in a bad marriage.

[Hellur991]

A month

[exitseven]

a month.

[Kreneman]

Over 12 years

[DrPepper12]

Months when I was hospitalized. Closest I got were showers from nurses since I was semi paralyzed. Don't recommend. 0/10

[kellytheman]

I have done the no nut November challenge ( not my decision) and I succeeded. I also probably have gone a couple months at times.

[Goahead76]

I'm not wired that way to where I need it daily, more like once a month. But I've always had the ability to kind of turn it on or off. So I mean it's nice but just not a huge priority. I love long sessions though, like hours or half the night which is not really every woman's thing.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

20 years

[In_Trance]

no you mustn't... stop

[Luckycharms12]

We can all go years without it we just don't

[mayurr]

30 years.

[RedInnocent69]

Don’t think it’s ever been more than two months since I was 18.

[CubaPirate]

About 5 days

[Rohaan2020]

I need it daily too…. But i’ve gone avout 1 week max without having sex