What is the primary reason you want to engage in casual sex?

What is the primary reason you want to engage in casual sex?
I don't want to engage in casual sex
Vote A
I just want the pleasure
Vote B
I engage in casual sex primarily for emotional reasons (I want to feel desired, I want a relationship, etc)
Vote C
I engage in casual sex primarily for practical reasons (the company, dinners, etc)
Vote D
I engage in casual sex for both emotional and practical reasons
Vote E
I just want to look cool
Vote F
Other
Vote G
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Most Helpful Girls

  • It's mainly because of the fact that it feels good. I always had a different reason for each different guy, though. Back when I was younger and came out of my first relationship, I wanted to do it because I felt terrible. The main reason was to see how far I could get a guy, though. It was kind of a manipulative and stupid game which I felt proud of. When I look back on it, my main emotion is disgust. This is directed towards the guy though.

    Other instances I just wanted to have some fun and feel good with a friend of mine. We were fuckbuddies for a while and hung out a lot too. It was like a relationship but without the stress of cheating or anything. That really drew me in.
    I guess overal it's just the fact that it feels amazing as well as having fun with someone else.

    • Can I ask you a question

    • @ghawks1213 Go ahead.

  • I'm sure they like to engage in casual sex because they like playing Russian Roulette with only one chamber empty, so they can test fate as to whether they can get pregnant or a STD/HIV, or all of the above. They would be better off playing Spin the Bottle.

    • You know, there are ways of preventing pregnancy and STD transmission.

    • Actually, I put in all hoping one is a dud. Not going to live forever and I certainly don't intend to live in a bubble.

    • @Steve37 If there is there are millions who must have missed the instruction video.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I try not to, but most times that I've had casual sex was for company. I was damaged goods, and not ready to give my all to anyone, so emotional and practical. Honestly most of the time it wasn't planned that way, to be a one night stand, NSA, hmm, except one time with a married woman now that I think about it. I got tired of that and cut it off, great sex, but too much BS.

    Anywho, I don't think it's so easy to categorize, I don't think many people live in that state. It's just something you do... like a relationship purgatory.

  • I don't usually have casual sex but when I do so I want to make her feel as much pleasure as possible and generally just really like to see how the stimulation causes her body to shake and appreciate how I can tease and excite her until such desire builds that every little touch of lips or brush of the fingers makes her shake, at that point I like to end foreplay and just focus entirely on what gives her the most pleasure. I want to give my lovers an experience that makes up for every disappointing sexual experience they've had.

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  • casual sex, in my opinion, is disgusting.

  • For me, it is for the pleasure and enjoyment. If a fun evening also leads to an enjoyable sexual encounter, then that is just extra fun. It isn't necessary, but it also doesn't need to be shyed away from either.

  • When I was younger it seemed exciting.. over time I realized that it was something I did to distract from how lonely/bad I felt inside. So its not really worth it.

  • There isn't a real reason, most the time it's just something to do. Other times it's just social bonding.

  • I don't relaly like the idea of casual sex, but I can't make up my mind what kind of Asian woman I like best.

    I better not dissapoint Snow,, because she's literally the perfect woman for me, but you know, I really love other Chinese women, and I really love Japanese and Korean women too. Now they are all noticeably different sub-races, and they are all freaking gorgeous, and they are all smarter and more moral than western women.

    • Why did u respond then

  • I don't, but somehow ended up finding myself in that. Ugh!

  • I have the perfectly natural feeling of wanting to loose my virginity. I’ve never been intimate in any way with a girl other than a rare hug. I definitely have a small desire for a relationship, but the sexual desire is much larger for me at the moment.

  • I have no issue with anyone who does but it is not for me - To me sex and a relationship are totally linked, I don't want one without the other.

  • Its not that I "don't want to engage in casual sex" sometimes I want to, but I just don't. I'm notorious for over contemplating all sorts of things... Especially sex.

    I actually joined a swingers club, with the plan of just giving foot massages... Because... Like... Foot massages are so underrated. But I never actually went

  • To feel loved and enjoy the pleasure

  • Well self pleasure is the main cause I suppose. Plus I'm a person who also takes pleasure in pleasing the woman I'm with so it's a mutually beneficial deal.
    The socialization is a good enough reason too.

  • I don’t have casual sex. My guess is most of the people who do have casual sex do it because sex is fun and it feels good.

  • I voted “practical” cause for me it’s more care-free and I can’t be straightforward about what I like.

  • I don`t engage in casual sex particularly because i want to. I`ve been single for a really long time, and if i wasn`t having casual sex i wouldn`t be having any sex of any sort. I would absolutely love to be in a relationship and actually making love instead of just having sex, but for me that just isn`t happening.

  • Sex is important for psychological and physical health. It relieves tension and increases contentment. Plus the pleasure of climax is unbeatable.

  • Pleasure and mental fulfillment

  • When I used to do it, the answer was B

  • I never had or have the urge to have casual sex.

  • Liking sex and never having a partner doesn't help with a relationship.

  • Right now, I only want sex for pleasure and to feel desired. I'm not ready for a relationship right now.

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