What is your ideal "body count"?

When looking for a potential partner man or woman how many is too many? Obviously talking about sexual intercourse and in your opinion does it really matter?
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  • I don't understand why people ask things they dont want to know the answers to. I don't ask a guy his number and I don't tell a guy mine.
    I've been with enough guys to have a pretty good idea what I like and don't like but not enough to have tried everything I want to try. How many people a person has been with isn't relivent. They're either a good person or they're not. They either treat you well or they dont. Thats really what matters. Well that and if they have been smart and responsible in the past and clean now. Beyond that I couldn't care less if they have had sex with a million people.

  • Past doesn't matter to me. I'm not sure I would even want to know how many people they've slept with. It's maybe a bit alarming if there are four figures but who am I to make judgments on that. Their attitude towards sex might have changed drastically.

  • I wouldn't want anyone that has double digits rn, but if they were safe each and every time and with every person that means something I just wouldn't want to be a short fling but rather a relationship

  • It doesn't matter.

    I only care if he carries any diseases or children.

    What's too much? 7.5 billion

    • I agree ^ ^

    • You're disgusting

    • @girk

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  • I actually wrote a whole MyTake on this.

    My number is anything higher than mine. Mine being 9. If a girl has 10 or 11 I don't mind. But if their number is like 14-20 I lose all interest.

  • 550 is too many

    It doesn't matter to me as long as she had fun

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  • I honestly don't care at all. As long as there's no diseases, her body count could be 100 and I wouldn't give a shit. If the sex is good, and we're both happy, that's all I need

  • well, maybe if it reaches 10... lol

    • round numbers? cause 1 is too little, and 100 is too much xD

  • No and I just wouldn't talk about it.

  • Yes, it matters, and the "too many" depends on age

  • Too many is when your diagnosed with AiDs.

    Too little is when you're still a virgin..

    There is no number, only quality and the imagination of ever finding, the one.

  • I don't have an 'ideal'.

  • I won't have any problems if it's equal or less to mine.

    • What if its something like Your count (X2)=Her count

    • @xBreezy you mean mine's two times bigger?

    • Yes.

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  • I don't know but mines too high for most girls to consider me relationship material. Luckily don't have to worry about that anymore lol.

  • Ideal.. 0
    Realistic.. more than 0
    Maximum number.. hard to say, would depend on things and stuff.

    Unfortunately the number pf sexual partners matters, objectively, and the higher the worse it gets, especially quickly for women as at 6 they are about 16% chance of making a LTR work in the long run.

  • Doesn't matter at all. Her past is her past. A few of the dirty details would be a bonus :-)

  • doesn't matter to me

  • I'd prefer it if they hadn't killed anyone.

  • The actual number isn't important. The more, the worse. I don't mind my girlfriend not being virgin but I surely won't settle for a used up body, however harsh that may sound.

  • if I was extremely happy with her I wouldn't care but the higher her number (atleast around my age) the more likely in going to not have sex until marriage.

  • Anymore than a couple is no bueno. I don't like chicks that have slummed their way around the block.

  • I guess up to 15.

  • Number doesn't matter, the circumstances is what matters.
    I would not date anyone who took part in any sexual activity outside of committed, exclusive relationships and possibly a friends with benefits situation.

  • Ideal is 0 - 4, but it's not a big deal if he's still faithful to me.

  • I prefer virgin girls in their twenties

  • It doesn't matter to me, she's her own person and who or what she's done before me is none of my business, as long. As she's cleans and doesn't have an sti it doesn't matter how many people she's been with.

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