I like both but but definitely the first. I just got out of a very rough crush with a guy it’s a long story. I really really liked him and he didn’t feel the same but instead of being honest he flirted with me and led me on for six months. Anyways the point is it hurt like hell and has taken me at least six months to get over it. After that I have felt discouraged and hopeless to date because I was afraid I would get hurt or be played. I feel A would help to built some a close bond and would really be getting to know the person (looking b4 you fall). But of course B comes later but I honestly think that mentally and emotionally I could only handle A right now because honestly I’m scared to give my heart to another man for fear of getting it broken again. Sorry for the long answer :|:)
1 0 0 0Depends on my mood, but if I had to pick just one I’d pick A. I’d miss the deep thrusting sex though 😊.
In all seriousness, though, a combination of an intimate evening picnic on the beach, lots of kissing, some deep romantic or even intellectual convo, followed by some sort of sexual release (not necessarily intercourse and not necessarily right on the beach) is ideal. I think once you get your first serious boyfriend you’ll probably agree with me.
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Lustful night of sex is great and all, but option A is really close to one of my ideal dates where we’d drive to the coast early in the morning in a ‘57 Bel-Air, and then sit on the hood and eat In-N-Out while watching the sunrise while the Beach Boys are playing on the radio.
3 0 0 0That sounds wonderful. I have a similar fantasy but it's a 1956 Cadillac coup de ville and we have milkshakes :) oh and no beach boys, hotel California
That sounds really cool too
Sex is a bit easier to come by than deep conversation
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6 33Definitely A. I don''t even need to think about it.
0 0 0 0I want lust and love. Can I have both?
1 1 0 0Can't you have both 😂😂😂
But yes I agree with the first one. Only if I can have cuddles too 😠1 0 0 0why not a blend of the two ;) :P
1 0 0 0A ending in B would be ideal. I'm down for A though.
1 0 0 0if it ends with B then A sounds fine. why not both?
0 0 1 0Because, it's a test of ones character...
i've never had a picnic go right on the beach. too sandy
I'll go (A) but a raw sex. 😉
1 0 0 0All about that lustful night of sex but I'd love to have that deep connection before I get that deep penetration. 🤣
1 1 0 0voted B
1 0 0 0B, not much of a beach fan
1 0 0 0Yes, I would love to cuddle on a blanket with a girl, hold her closely tight to me, kiss every inch of her body, tell her how much I love her, spend the whole night to wee hours of the morning, have snacks, and drinks
2 0 0 0Simply lovely!
@lanadelrey25 Yes I Agree
B B B did I mention B
0 0 0 0I picked A. Though I would want both often
1 0 0 0at this point either one, I just want to feel wanted
1 0 0 0totally can relate
I would definitely pick A.
1 0 0 0I hate typical things though. That beach shit is nice but fuck that. I say night on the highest roof yoj can find. We play and make our own music. And we have inspired sex as rain pours
1 0 0 0The dirtier the better
1 0 0 0There is more to life than just sex, but having sex may produce a life... we must procreate in hopes that future generations will understand that our differences is what should bring us together rather than push us apart and cause issues in the world. Thats my intelligent rant for the month. Stupidity will get back to it's regularly scheduled programming.✌🏾
Well duh we need sex, but in general, I prefer romantic tenderness on a date
I know what you mean... duh... you keep sassing me and there will be a problem! 🦶🐴 How you like those apples?
A all the way. Haha.
1 0 0 0A mix of both
1 0 1 0A for me. Yeah. Sex is good but its not the defining moment of life just icing the cake. And too much icing can get sickening. Lol
1 0 0 0Great analogy!
If you have no meat and potatoes in life then you can get tired of life. Lol i think im hungry. Lol
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