What kind of things do guys like the girl to do during sex?

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Serious question I am trying to get better at sex and want to please men!

RavVid · Accepted Answer

Well I don't think there is a single list of things to do aside from enjoying it. While guys will compliment girls, it is relatively rare that girls compliment guys but we like compliments just as much. Keeping to complementing...

I've felt complimented when a girl has said "Good job" after I have ejaculated and also when she complains that I have messed her up and starts to repair her appearance. Commenting that she "can feel me inside her" is always welcome. I don't like dirty talk per se but I do like feminine graphic turns of phrase - anything with "in me" or "inside me" is going to do more for me than "fuck me" though I wouldn't mind being called her fucker.

In terms of the more physical, an early girlfriend liked to rub her legs on mine in missionary and I still have a liking for legs down rather than legs up missionary. It just emphasises I'm between her legs - where I should be, more than anything else. One girl wrapped her legs around my waist and tried to spear herself on my cock. Not highly successful but quite a good game.

I do like girls squeezing my cock with her vagina - you can google pompoir and humping her pussy at me - feels good. One thing I have made every girl do since the first is to tap my penis with her fingers - sort of like she was playing piano. A stroking hand job is good but I do like an inventive sense of touch. A few girls have known more about my penis than I did when I met them - very impressive.

Which brings me to a final point. It is really good if a girl knows how to stop a man ejaculating. As we thrust we build up to ejaculating and it can get to the point where we can't do anything but ejaculate. A guy can stop thrusting and settle down a bit then carry on. But it is more effective if the girl presses on the underside of the tip. It takes away the need to ejaculate but doesn't diminish our hardness. A variation is to flick the underside with your finger. It is a premature ejaculation technique (which you can google) but highly useful in edging.

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

Be an active participant, take the initiative to do things to pleasure the guy, and don't be afraid to be vocal. Tell him what he's doing right, tell him what you want to do to him, and feel free to moan; talking dirty (if he's into that) is also good.

LivDev · Accepted Answer

In my experience the specifics varies guy to guy. So I'll let them speak to that.

This will be more concepts than the minutiae;

Enthusiam in the act, in being with them. They must be pretty special to be getting between your legs so make them feel that way.
You're not masturbating at your parent's house anymore so make whatever noises come naturally, they're usually well received.
Try to communicate general likes and interests in bed beforehand. Stealthily and playfully or directly. Whatever is more comfortable. During sex it can get clunky to be talking things through.
Stay "active" as much as you can without compromising what you want and what you're comfortable with (i. e. you're not comfy riding yet)
Be open to new things, but not too open.
Be ok with the fact that the first few times may not be perfect and he may have some pointers for you. You may have some for him as well.
Unless you plan on dating down, you can usually, safely treat sex like dancing. And like dancing, the man leads. Following/subbing doesn't mean lesser and don't let any internet virgin tell you otherwise. It also doesn't mean passive in the slightest, it can absolutely be done zealously. Depending on the act it can also be the more active role.
If you want to be dominant remember that's a bad way to look at it. It's really more of he's letting you do whatever you want/doing whatever you want, than it is you dominating. It's his call, not yours. Be emotionally ready and receptive for him to shut you down if you cross a line.
Have fun! Being nervous helps no one. Shrug off the bad and embrace the good :D

EmmaMary · Accepted Answer

Ask them, talk to them, communicate with them, find out what they like and dislike. The same of course goes for them asking you.

NamerOfStars · Answer

As others have said, it varies from guy to guy- communication is the key! Talk to him; ask what he likes. I think the one thing that's universal among guys is enthusiasm; nothing, and I mean NOTHING, will kill the moment faster than feeling like your partner doesn't  want  to be there, and is only going along with you out of a sense of obligation. Trying something that doesn't work out may slow things down, but making him feel like you'd rather be somewhere else, doing something else, will stop them in their tracks.

Lliam · Answer

Urgently move her legs and hips as if she is trying suck and swallow my dick with her pussy with her wet lips spread around my balls.

weysally · Answer

tease them with caresses,

MrCommodore · Answer

There are so many things, but it depends on you and your partners preferences. Different people like different things, my preferences might differ from others.

SnowedIn · Answer

Ride me. Take charge once in a while. Have fun.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Most of us like it when you blow us during foreplay. Having enthusiasm to try different positions and having matching energy and enthusiasm when having sex in general.

No one wants a dead fuck or a mood killer. Bottom line, communicating is key during sex it is critical for both parties to say what they like and don't like in order to ensure a good experience is had. Positions, pace, touch, dirty talk, etc. All of that builds into each other for an experience and both people need to know what they like and don't to make sure it is enjoyable and that they get off properly.

MuskratLove · Answer

Woody Allen said it best:

Summeroflove · Answer

Marry me first

AMS700CX4u2 · Answer

Be mobile

chicosuave · Answer

for me its doggy style and good Sucking D skills. also learn how to kiss cuz i feel like women suck at kissing

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Grind your hips into ours, genuinely moan, I like having my balls squeezed. Eye contact is nice. When you ride your guy, bounce up and down instead of grind back and forth.

megabamse · Answer

That is not a universal question. Every man is different and prefer different things

Gibbons44 · Answer

To be a virgin and boyfriendless to begin with

convo_king89 · Answer

Each guy is different for his turn ons.. some like a tease before fucking or perhaps a roleplay. Some just like submissive slut..

me personally I like inneocent accidentally tease roleplay.. the inneocent schoolgirl in her uniform has her skirt “accidentally” caught on the back of the chair. Of course since she going to school and nothing else she is not wearing sexy panties just basic ones…

AydenHazor · Answer

It's different for every man. Communicate with a partner about what he likes, and about what you like, and you'll both be satisfied better because of it

kellytheman · Answer

Try to be interactive, maybe tell if it feels good or what you like, try to ease in dirty talk, try to be creative, be the dominant one or on top at times, and communicate. Also foreplay is important too some maybe give him a good stroke or blowjob and make sure he returns the favor.

Stevefiveo · Answer

Every guy is different. I like a girl who gets herself dolled up in lingerie and makeup. I like kissing, oral, will to try new positions and things. I like to see what things she is in to and try those.

Surely · Answer

Explore each other’s bodies. Take your time as if you were going to be quizzed on your observations. Watch for any responses.
Listen for and ask questions. Tease him. Manually and orally. Then move in for the joy ride! You

Backwood1988 · Answer

I love it when I finger her and eat her out at the same time she jack me off and deap throat my penis then after a little while she will randomly jump on my hard cock and then she will start to ride it and she will pound it the hole time riding me

strlb · Answer

Talk dirty, moan, squirm, cum

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