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What kind of things do guys like the girl to do during sex?

Serious question I am trying to get better at sex and want to please men!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well I don't think there is a single list of things to do aside from enjoying it. While guys will compliment girls, it is relatively rare that girls compliment guys but we like compliments just as much. Keeping to complementing...

    I've felt complimented when a girl has said "Good job" after I have ejaculated and also when she complains that I have messed her up and starts to repair her appearance. Commenting that she "can feel me inside her" is always welcome. I don't like dirty talk per se but I do like feminine graphic turns of phrase - anything with "in me" or "inside me" is going to do more for me than "fuck me" though I wouldn't mind being called her fucker.

    In terms of the more physical, an early girlfriend liked to rub her legs on mine in missionary and I still have a liking for legs down rather than legs up missionary. It just emphasises I'm between her legs - where I should be, more than anything else. One girl wrapped her legs around my waist and tried to spear herself on my cock. Not highly successful but quite a good game.

    I do like girls squeezing my cock with her vagina - you can google pompoir and humping her pussy at me - feels good. One thing I have made every girl do since the first is to tap my penis with her fingers - sort of like she was playing piano. A stroking hand job is good but I do like an inventive sense of touch. A few girls have known more about my penis than I did when I met them - very impressive.

    Which brings me to a final point. It is really good if a girl knows how to stop a man ejaculating. As we thrust we build up to ejaculating and it can get to the point where we can't do anything but ejaculate. A guy can stop thrusting and settle down a bit then carry on. But it is more effective if the girl presses on the underside of the tip. It takes away the need to ejaculate but doesn't diminish our hardness. A variation is to flick the underside with your finger. It is a premature ejaculation technique (which you can google) but highly useful in edging.

    • "Good job"? Really? That sounds kinda patronizing to me :T Wouldn't "You are/that was amazing!" or something like that be better?

    • @LivDev Amazing is so over used now that everything is amazing :)

    • And "good" or "good job" isn't...🤨 I'd say replace "amazing" with any other positive word you find novel since it was about the feel, not the word buuut... I stopped caring hours ago.

  • Be an active participant, take the initiative to do things to pleasure the guy, and don't be afraid to be vocal. Tell him what he's doing right, tell him what you want to do to him, and feel free to moan; talking dirty (if he's into that) is also good.

    • Question. I have had pretty positive experiences with men and have always held that if I have to tell them what to do then it ruins it. I've never come across that as a problem. I understand like verbal/non-verbal cues to show he's going the right direction but coaching a guy through fucking me just sounds wildly unattractive to me. How would you reconcile that with your advice?

Most Helpful Girls

  • In my experience the specifics varies guy to guy. So I'll let them speak to that.

    This will be more concepts than the minutiae;

    • Enthusiam in the act, in being with them. They must be pretty special to be getting between your legs so make them feel that way.
    • You're not masturbating at your parent's house anymore so make whatever noises come naturally, they're usually well received.
    • Try to communicate general likes and interests in bed beforehand. Stealthily and playfully or directly. Whatever is more comfortable. During sex it can get clunky to be talking things through.
    • Stay "active" as much as you can without compromising what you want and what you're comfortable with (i. e. you're not comfy riding yet)
    • Be open to new things, but not too open.
    • Be ok with the fact that the first few times may not be perfect and he may have some pointers for you. You may have some for him as well.
    • Unless you plan on dating down, you can usually, safely treat sex like dancing. And like dancing, the man leads. Following/subbing doesn't mean lesser and don't let any internet virgin tell you otherwise. It also doesn't mean passive in the slightest, it can absolutely be done zealously. Depending on the act it can also be the more active role.
    • If you want to be dominant remember that's a bad way to look at it. It's really more of he's letting you do whatever you want/doing whatever you want, than it is you dominating. It's his call, not yours. Be emotionally ready and receptive for him to shut you down if you cross a line.
    • Have fun! Being nervous helps no one. Shrug off the bad and embrace the good :D

  • Ask them, talk to them, communicate with them, find out what they like and dislike.

    The same of course goes for them asking you.

    • Thank you for the MHO.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • As others have said, it varies from guy to guy- communication is the key! Talk to him; ask what he likes. I think the one thing that's universal among guys is enthusiasm; nothing, and I mean NOTHING, will kill the moment faster than feeling like your partner doesn't want to be there, and is only going along with you out of a sense of obligation. Trying something that doesn't work out may slow things down, but making him feel like you'd rather be somewhere else, doing something else, will stop them in their tracks.

  • Urgently move her legs and hips as if she is trying suck and swallow my dick with her pussy with her wet lips spread around my balls.

  • tease them with caresses,

  • There are so many things, but it depends on you and your partners preferences. Different people like different things, my preferences might differ from others.

  • Ride me.

    Take charge once in a while.

    Have fun.

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