What makes a good handjob?

Question

I'm not ready for anything more than that for now, so here we are.

bowenw · Accepted Answer

If you've watched him masturbate try to copy what he does. If not, try the following. Gently touch and finger his frenulum to get his dick hard if it isn't already. When he's good and hard, hold the shaft at the base so the skin is tight and to slowly stroke his dick just below the glans using your thumb and forefinger in a ring shape. Do this for a few minutes. Then start making longer strokes up and down the shaft. Use enough pressure so there is good friction, but not enough for it to be uncomfortable. If you can't stroke smoothly, try some lube or spit to make it easier. Keep stroking like this and occasionally move back to just below the glans. You may also want to play with his balls. Ask him what feels best or do what makes him moan the loudest. Don't stop stroking. Tell him to not hold back and cum whenever he's ready. When the cum starts oozing or squirting keep stroking until he's done which could be 5-10 squirts. Some guy's dicks may get very sensitive at this point so you may need to stop for a minute to let him desensitize. Then squeeze out the last drops of cum by pulling from the base of the shaft to the tip. You may need to do this several times to get it all out and a few more times after he goes soft depending on the viscosity. Have tissue ready for clean up. If you've never given him a blowjob you can try a few things while giving him the hand job such as licking his balls or licking the shaft to lubricate it. You may also want to practice tasting/swallowing by licking up some of the cum from his dick or off your hands.

Bricealan · Accepted Answer

First thing to find out is how he jacks off ! If you know that, you know what to do to his penis. A past girlfriend and I masturbated together, so she knew I "worked the head" of my penis more than the shaft, so she jacked me off the same way

When we broke up, she called me months later and said her current boy friend's penis head was "like a boil" (meaning tender to the touch) and she could not jack him off the same way. She should have known him better than to start off jacking him off without know his technique.

Afterward, she told him " I know you jack off, now show me how you do it"
That's easier said than done, but he had been fucking her for a while and she should have known more than that about him.

Hope that answers your question?

Bruce

slatyb · Answer

Use lube. Watch some videos. Every person is different, let your partner tell you what they like best. Keep in mind that the penis is not delicate, the testicles are. You can use a firm hand. Just be sure to lubricate to prevent chafing. Many men can masturbate with a dry hand but it's very hard for someone else to do that.

TadCurious · Answer

Make it slow and sensual and use lube. Change things up from time to time how you use your fingers/hand. Let him see your breasts while you're doing it. Pay attention to his balls and his breathing and moans because those things (along with his pre-cum) will tell you when he's getting close. Then you can stroke faster unless you're trying to edge him for a more powerful orgasm.

* If you don't already know, his balls will draw up tight to his body when he gets close to cumming.

josephinelcajon · Answer

Taking your time and frequently changing the stroke

LegendOfTheHairSniff · Answer

Make it slow and gentle, talk to him and tell him naughty things. If you've got small hands then he's in luck because you can use both hands and have him feel like extacy if you know how 😜

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I like the head of my penis to be squeezed and go down to the shaft or pleasure myself through my underwear

chriscdi · Answer

up down, its simple

Makeushiver · Answer

I can only tell you what I think makes a good hand job. If I cum, it was a good hand job

1amcurious · Answer

I think its best to know how it likes but I believe the slow seductive caressing will work for the start.

Glasgow55 · Answer

Lots of lube, and don't forget the balls.

yazerr · Answer

A soft hands  A naked girl or with underwear  A quiet place

Valnac · Answer

O. k.

nudeNhorny · Answer

For me, if she is kissing me while giving me a handjob or saying naughty things, that's a good handjob

Lovecoffemate · Answer

Ok when ypur ready to give the habd job wear a spandex leggins or a short skirt and a crop top. next step sit besides him , grab his dic+k whith your hand kinda firmly then stroke it with slow deep strokes , thenn tell him to keep grabbing your butt cheeks , thighs , or boobs. Then when he starts grunting speed up the pace. Last stop for 5 minutes , then repeat the process but now instead of jerking him fast you have to shake it in your hand then if theirs lots of precum on dick grab the end of it and massage it with your palm softly.