Guys, What makes a guy stop having sex for a couple of seconds in the middle of us having sex?

So we were obviously having sex and literally just randomly he stops moving and like takes it out. and I’m like you good? And he just says yep and just like stands there not doing anything staring into like nothingness. we wait there for like 10 more seconds and then he continues on Like nothing happened?
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  • If he is going down on you or you start to come he may be edging you. A technique to make your orgasm more intense. If you aren't mid- orgasm, I don' t know. Not sure if you meant he stops completely or pauses.

  • Just did. Doesn't mean anything. Don't overthink it.

  • He's trying not to cum straight away or for awhile so he can enjoy you longer

  • In 65 years never had that happen so I can't answer. However, there are times when maybe you lose it for a minute... maybe something happens that turns you off for a short moment and you aren't turned on... although I am not sure that ever actually happened to me during intercourse.

    Don't forget, all a woman really needs to do is spread her legs. A guy needs to have an erection. That takes a certain combination of magic to make it happen and stay there. If something happens to break the magic it could stop it from happening or interrupt it. A guy has to be in the zone for intercourse to work.

  • Because we want the pleasure of thrusting in again.

  • He is trying to get control of himself so he can last longer.

  • He likely wants to last longer... or, he needs a break

    Sex, is a very strenuous thing on the human body

  • Guessing he didn't want to cum too soon.

  • trying not to cum to fast probably

  • Did you ask him what happened

    • I ask if he’s good and he goes yep then he stays there for a couple more seconds and I ask if he’s okay and he just makes a grunting noise? And then goes back in lol

    • And I also asked him if anything’s wrong and he goes “no, no”

    • So you asked two questions but neither of those inquired as to what was happening

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