What makes a woman “sexy”?

A woman can look beautiful, but have no sex appeal. What makes a woman physically sexy and sexy all together as a person?
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  • Ideal partner - Fun to be around. Decent looking (does not have to be a model or anything crazy like that. Unless she wants to be then I will support best I can), kind, smart, likes to be both a girly girl and tomboy type (a good blend), enjoys being around me (quality time helps), does not go over board with accessories, mostly healthy life style, natural look to her (does not go over the top with makeup or a least not in her normal look. maybe once in a while for special events), sweet, dresses in a modest (elegant) manner, occasions where’s flirty clothes (nothing to overly reveling in public), proud of her body (no matter her shape / size / weight or height). any skin color or race is fine (not picky). ability to cook from time to time (either by herself or with my help. does not have to be anything upscale. but basic cooking skills are a plus). has her own job is a plus (so she has her own spending money and can help with bills when need be).

  • These question are very hard to answer as you say a woman may not be the most beautiful but there is something very sexy about her and often she only appeals to a certain group of people. I find it a purely instinctive decision, you might see, probably more interact with women on the same level or maybe some more "Beautiful" but for some reasons a few standout. It is often shocking to some that the most beautiful don't stand out. I find it purely instinctive on my part and while probably not intended by the woman , it is like they found something that works and they work it.
    Sometimes they can be a bit different when you get to know them but they are subconciously aware of their appeal and will probably go, if it is not broken , don't fix it. It sounds manipulative but we all do it, if everyone seem to like me when I waved my left hand around , you can be sure I will keep waving my left hand around

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  • Physically
    1) make up and attire: wicked, like dark lipsticks, curly hair, skin tight clothes and pants / skirt.

    2) This implies her breasts and butt have to be on the bigger and fuller side.

    Personality and attributes
    3) confident but not arrogant; vulnerable but dare to seduce.

    A seductive girl is a sexy girl.

    One who knows how to lead a guy on, to let him "feel" her body when she touches herself from a distance. One whose eyes can turn him on and whose voice puts him on high.

    4) intelligent yet jovial, fun yet keep a distance for chase.

    Ya, my kind of sexy girl is a combination of Charlotte and Miranda, with the "freeness" of Samantha in Sex and the City.

  • I challenge your premise. I don't see how a woman can be objectively beautiful and not be sexy if presented correctly.

  • That is a very good question. I wish I had an answer. I'll try to think of one, but until then, I just wanted to say that this is a very good question.

  • Her looks and her personality , way she dresses and present la herself

  • sexiness and confidence go together like peanut butter and jelly

  • Her selfconvidence.

  • Charming personality, smile😍💓

    • capable of light seduction with confidence.

  • Because she is sexy... And..

  • Intelligent. Nothing is more attractive than a lady who can spar with my brain
    😈😈🖤😈😈✌🏼

  • Sexy is not the way you look it the way you carry yourself the way she walks and talks it's the want she moves. a lot of women are beautiful but not all are sexy

  • Confidence and personality without arrogance are ultimately what makes a woman sexy

  • This is absolutely in the eye of the beholder. Some men think curves are sexy while some men are into barbie and that's only one example. Me, I tend to think the sweet girl next door appeal is incredibly sexy.

  • To start. A good head on her shoulders. Like smart in school. Having a future ahead of her self wear she can support herself financially weather it be now or in the future when she's done school and gets a job in her field. With that tho. Just wearing cute pantys helps. Sometimes the t bar sticks out or if she's in a skirt sometime she accidently gives guys a peak of her pantys. Not on purpose but even if she did on purpose it gets guys heads turning. Just dont “accidently” open your legs for to long. Just a quick open close. Make it like u dont no there looking so dont be obviouse doing it. Dont go over the top with make up. Dont ever try be the center of attention. Dont be a slut. Jus be the cute quite smart girl that has a future. This way you can choose whos gunna be in it with you

    • And never be destperate or show your emotions publicly. Always follow your instinct.

  • How I read the question and several times before finishing it, I think "Your profile picture! It's your picture, Hannah!" 🤣

  • being as feminine as possible but without faking any feature of her

  • The way she carries herself and don't act all prim and proper but definitely a lady. Also one who is not afraid of her sexuality.

  • The way she acts...

  • well cared ahnds... feet.. and clean groin

  • I find sexy is attitude take charge attitude that’s sexy

  • We all knows that size boob and hips are important criteria to be sexy. But why?
    Scientifically , this criteria have very old history in human evolution.
    Big hips shows the male that female have strong hips to carry her baby and big chest to feed her baby.
    Because in the end sex made for continuations of human race.

    And what makes her face attractive is completely different story.
    In short, attractive face have different criteria from person to another. Because it depends on their backgrounds culture and previous experience.

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