What’s so bad with being a hoe?

I’m 23 and I lost my virginity when I was 16, I have a high sex drive and I slept with a dozen of men and a dozen of women, had MMF, FFF and FFM threesomes, but I’m careful to not get pregnant or catch an STD, and I also have a sugar daddy, but I don’t get why are girls like me demonized so much for loving sex and enjoying it with different people as long as I and the person I am having sex with is a single consenting adult.

I go to college and I’m planning to become a nurse and to marry a guy when I’ll be in my mid to late twenties, I never cheated when I’m in a relationship, yet I notice that many guys seems to hate girls like me while they would fuck even more women if they could get sex as easily as I do.

Plus this whole thing about promiscuous women not being desirable is a cope, I have two cousins that were total sluts when they were my age and they are now married with desirable wealthy men that cherish them, and they seem to have a healthy relationship.
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  • Lol so your cousins were total sluts and married wealthy guys so now you want to do the same?

    I don't know your cousins but I hope they sure told their husbands that they were sluts. Or who knows maybe the husband's only married them because they only like them for the sex. Or maybe your cousins married them only for the money.

    If you like being a ho that's fine. But let me tell you why I and probably a lot of other guys don't find it desirable.

    It makes it harder to trust you. When you're ok with sleeping around with that many guys how do I know you won't cheat?

    After all it seems like once you're bored or you got what you want you could move on to someone else. Or who knows maybe you find someone else that's better looking or has more money.

    Being a ho is desirable only because they're easy. They're not as desribale in the long term.

  • Nothing. These men you're speaking of that don't like you because of your promiscuity are just insecure man children. Don't waste your time on them

  • Lost ur virginity at 16 and calling yourself a hoe? 😂😂😂 good joke. My friend lost her virginity at 12 and even she isn't qualified to be a hoe

  • Being usedPregnancyStdsLow self esteemBecoming the talk of friends and or strangers

  • It's more likely he's a total nerd and couldn't get anyone else. Or he just settled on the first piece of ass that would bang him on a regular.

  • There is nothing bad with it as long as you make sure that everyone is aware of the situation. If it's just casual sex, you tell them up front. If it's a relationship, you stay faithful.
    My first girlfriend had a very high body count when we got together and she was always loyal to me. My second girlfriend was a virgin and she ended up cheating on me.
    Do I believe that statistically speaking, "hoes" are more likely to cheat on their future partners? Maybe. As in, I can see why that would be the case. But I also have good experiences with promiscuous girls so it does not apply to everyone.
    Maybe just... try to avoid bringing up your past as much as possible when you're actually in a relationship with someone. Tell the truth if they ask but it's a good idea not to remind them of how much experience you have and how many guys you can compare them to.

  • Some people take sexual relationships very seriously. They see it as something special, only to be shared with someone they have a deep connection with.

    And people like this don't usually have a lot of respect for people who treat it like a game of tennis.

    If you don't share these sentiments, and you don't give a damn about what these people think, more power to yah.

    But I think that's the main reason why people don't respect douchebags and thots.

  • As Shakespeare says "Nothing is good or bad it's just thinking which makes it so.."

  • I wouldn't give a damn if a girl is a hoe or not, everyone has the right to chose whatever they want to be, it's their own life. So would I have a friend like that? Sure! A close friend? Yes! However, would I have a girlfriend or a wife who happens to be that "adventurous"? Definitely not!

  • I don't have a problem with it at all, in fact, would be my first choice, she said she took precautions to not get STDs or get pregnant so she is responsible, what more could you ask for.

  • What ever makes you happy.
    When people start name calling is only out of jealousy.
    The most annoying part if it was a guy doing it , they would be cheering him on...

    • Yep. When men do it they’re named studs, womanizers and playboys which is actually a compliment lmao

    • Be honest, I'm quite jealous of you...

    • Aww don’t be daddy.

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  • It's dangerous.

    • How is it dangerous?

    • @cat_frank Check my post and that of ragequeen and you'll have your answer

  • Cuz its hard to find a guy who doesn't just want you for anything but sex toy

  • You are honest person according to me and its normal to have high drive at this age and you are using protection when you get intimate with somebody which is good and no girl should be called hoe ever

  • Hos dont make men feel special so they dont treat them special.

    Hos statistically are much more likely to break up or divorce for "boredom" or just to try something new. They are also statistically more likely to cheat. you're 23 and thats great you didn't cheat in a short term relationship. Ill be curious to see if you do in a long term relationship.

    In my experience all hos who get married eventually cheat or leave... eventually. So like i said. Its great you didn't cheat in a one or two year relationship but lets see what happens in 15 years.

    Good luck to you and the beta you marry! Lol

    • And where exactly are you getting these "statistical" opinions?

    • @Daedelus try google. In addition, unless your like 15, just look at people in real life.

    • I'm not asking where I can get these statistics, I'm asking where you got them. If you have actual evidence supporting your claims, I will happily check it out and admit that you are right, but it is incredibly disingenuous to say something is "statistically" true without providing anything to support it.

  • everythings wrong with being a ho

    people can't take you seriously

  • Nothing, as long as you're not deceiving anyone.

  • Honestly nothing really bad about a women being a hoe. I would argue that without hoes, the world would be a much dangerous place.

    Women tend to dislike hoes because hoes are their main competitors for men's attention

  • Absolutely nothing, you do you girl.
    Some peoples gotta hoe it up, bless your soul for giving pleasures to so many guys.

  • I myself am a hoe so... nothing.

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