What's something you learned about the opposite sex, when you became sexually active, that really surprised you?

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I was surprised by the incredible variety in penis sizes and shapes. Also, the cum shoots out in lots of individual spurts.
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  • The main thing I learned about the opposite sex once I became sexually active as a young man was how complex female genitalia is. I was clueless about the inner and outer labia.. the clitoris.. the clitoral hood.. the ovaries.. etc. I remember being surprised to learn that girls pee out of a hole that is just for peeing! I honestly thought they peed out of their clitoris! lol Thankfully, sexual experiences with many lovely women over the years has mostly (but not entirely!) demystified female genitalia for me, which has made me a far better lover. I feel sorry for the girls who had sexual experiences with me in my youth. I didn’t have a clue! 🙃

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  • I was lucky to have a very uninhibited first sexual partner. She surprised me with how eager she was for sex and how damn horny and dirty women can be.

    The first orgasm was a surprise. She flooded the bed sheets and just kept telling me to keep fucking her. The more I did the more she kept coming. I wasn't expecting it but I did enjoy it.

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  • Probably the power you can have over men making them feel good. They are completely helpless in those moments.

    • @dustybiker I never really thought about that, but you are so right!

    • @StrongMale 😎

    • @dustybiker If a gal is giving me sexual pleasure, she holds a lot of power over me, and I really am quite helpless and at her mercy. Funny, because I consider myself sexually dominant.. but the truth is that, by allowing me that kind of sexual expression, the woman is actually the one with the power! ☺️

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  • That men have many of the same fears about sex that women do...

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  • The one thing that surprised me the most is that girls get aroused much easier and faster than I thought. Before I lost my virginity, I always thought that guys were the only one that could get aroused and hard that quickly. I was wrong. I didn’t know girls can get aroused and soaking wet in seconds. Well what a shocker.

  • I was surprised by where the vagina turned out to be. I always assumed it would be in front of her, like where the public bone is. But it's more "underneath" her.

  • Asked me to do her "back door"...😈😈

  • That a lot of women are really bad at sex. It's like, we're the ones with the penis, doing all the work. I didn't even think it was possible for girls to be bad at sex when all they have to do is lie there and take it.

  • That a girls hole is smaller than I was expecting, the first time I put my penis inside I realised it was tighter than I thought

  • After divorcing in my thirties, I was surprised to learn that after three dates most women were DTF.

  • That women are as horny as men, maybe even hornier

  • That we are all just people doing our best to make it through the day and that putting women on a pedestal is doing a disservice to both them and me.

  • How many girls love to give rimjobs still surprises me.

  • They really do smell like tuna.

    • I love that. More of a lobster

    • @Andres77 😂😂😂😂😂

  • Women absolutely love feeling "filled." Almost more than any other aspect of physical intimacy.

  • How quickly is over and done with some guys. ☹️

  • The lies. I guess, that and the great variety of types of females that are in these societies.
    I've had my share of experience that goes something like "88 Lines About 44 Women." - good song.

  • They wanted it as much as I did

  • Just how powerful orgasms are to girls. I know that the clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings but wow - when a girl has an orgasm, it’s interesting and slightly scary and intriguing to see them orgasm. 👍🙂

  • How some women just lay there and don’t move and get into it and how others are animals and get down and dirty.

  • The first time with a guy that he was a virgin and he had an orgasm in 30 seconds lol

    • @jengeorge26 he probably went really crazy that he couldn't control

    • @dalisay409 It shot right away into my vagina, I said, “YOU ARE FINISHED”? lol

    • @Mart10 I know right?

  • Going slow and feeling her pussy around my cock and her lips move around it feels better than going fast, like really good I thought faster better but feeling every little bit just is amazing

  • That some girls struggle orgasming even if you put the effort in and listen to their needs. Some orgasm very easily and can multiple times. I didn't know that when I was 19-20ish.. That said for girls that struggled, I learned to be a better listener and that helped me be better.

    All in all I learned that women are wonderful.

  • That cumming and orgasms are two completely different things

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