Odd to think of a natural position for anal but doggy does seem to fit the description and it’s probably the most common. I’d still suggest missionary, legs back and feet up. It’s intimate and lends itself to communication, which as V said is important. Yep it will hurt at first and you will get loud but it’s nothing to worry about if you trust your boy. It will then feel uncomfortable and weird as he goes deeper. Have enough privacy to yell or moan because you will want to. I did and most other girls will tell you they did too their first time, it’s normal. It’s an incredibly intimate act and def worth it and gets way better after the first few times. Prep, lube, relax, vocalize, communicate. All important.
0 4 0 0Thank you so much I prefer the intimacy of missionary. I am concerned about being loud but think I can minimize that if I try. Otherwise I might be inclined to be face down like prone.
Vocalization isn’t a bad thing and serves as both a release mechanism and a way to communicate. You might surprise yourself, it’s not something you can always control. You’ll want privacy. Good luck!
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I personally like prone, but the position doesn't matter so much. What's important is relaxing, starting very slow, and using plenty of lube. If you tense up it'll hurt. So relax, get in a few practice rounds if you can, and when he's first entering you, gently press the head in and then wait and don't move for a good 20-30 seconds while you get used to it, then slowly continue until you're comfortable. It'll feel really weird at first, but if you relax it shouldn't hurt. And communicate. Communicate a lot. It's very important to trust your partner.
0 2 0 0Thank you. Is that 20-30 seconds the 😵 part?
Great suggestions esp about prone which I never thought about. I’ll do my best to relax tho it will be hard the first time. Thank you!
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(15)Not doggy! Not from behind at all!
0 0 0 2Thanks. That’s kinda how I feel. So mish?
You have the least control in that position. Lay on your back and pull your legs back towards your chest. Easy to do if you are at the edge of the bed and he is standing. Plenty of access in that position and more comfortable.
Ok that makes sense. Legs folded or feet up? How do I ask this gracefully……do you agree about potentially being loud?
So you are not even legal yet and you get porked on a regular basis - or are hoping to? Why do you sound more like an attention seeking troll?
0 0 0 1Love the image! No, I don’t get “porked” on a regular basis by random guys. Farthest from it. That’s something you’ve contrived to be hurtful. There are lots of us under 18 who have relationships and sex. Nothing wrong with asking questions, getting information, and learning from others. Please don’t attack others when you don’t even know them or their situations. I’m not a troll or promiscuous or stupid. Be nice and if you can contribute to answering my question, I’d still welcome a mature response. Thanks for the pumpkin!
Laying on side in cuddle position
0 1 0 0Thanks! That’s a position I never really considered for the first time but I do see how I might be super relaxed and it’s still pretty intimate. I’ll give that some serious thought. ❤️
i haven't tried it but i've always imagined laying flat on my stomach
0 2 0 0Thanks, I’m seriously thinking about that way too.
I was prone for my first time and its a little more comfortable than doggy
0 0 0 0Being as comfortable as possible the first time is important to me and to both of us. Thanks for the suggestion.
doggy. also, id put a towel or sheet that you don't like down. there will likely be shit.
0 1 0 0I realize that’s a risk but I’ll make sure I’m clean. Guess it’s also a matter of timing too. Not sure about doggy. Leaning toward missionary but it depends on who’s home (hopefully no one) and how loud I think I’ll be. We’re you loud your first time? Thanks for your help! 🙂
It's actually easier Missionary. Your rectum isn't bent in this position
0 2 0 0I am leaning toward missionary but never considered that aspect of it. Are you also suggesting that it would hurt less that way? Thanks for the post!
Doggy, use cream or lotion, use fingers first, massage it, push it slowly and take all the time for her to be comfortable with it
0 0 0 0Thanks for your input
Try to do more of a squatting or doggie style so the muscles relax back there
0 1 0 0Relaxing is important I know. Sigh. By squatting do you me more like cowgirl? I’m not sure I can do that…. I’d be even less relaxed! Thanks
Cowgirl will help. You can also get a numbing line for the outside to help the first few times
cowgirl facing him
0 1 0 0Thanks but I’d be too uptight to ever go through with it that way. Just me maybe. 🙂
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