What's the key to a good blow job?

Whats the key to a good blow job?
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  • I'd say the key is to make love to his cock and balls. By that, I mean don't just suck and bob your head repetitiously.
    Start slow. Be gentle at first. Consider the way you gradually tease your clit when you start to masturbate. You don't just attack it.
    Vary what you do. You can kiss his tip and give it small licks. Take it between your lips and roll your tongue around as if it's a Tootsie Roll Pop. Tease and tickle him by barely touching the skin of his cock with the moist tip of your tongue. Use your lips and the flat of your tongue to savor his shaft. You can get his shaft slippery with saliva and jack it with your hand. Lift his shaft and bury your nose in his scrotum to lick his balls all over and get them wet. While you're at it, tickle his perineum with the tip of your tongue. Know that moisture cools on the skin and makes the warmth of your mouth feel even better. Cool-warm, cool-warm. Take him as deep as you can on occasion. Alternate these things in between sucking and bobbing hungrily on his cock. Be sure to pull at the back of his head with your tightly closed lips as you bob up and down. Even let it pull free on occasion.

    As he gets more aroused, focus more on head bobbing/mouth fucking. Make it increasingly rapid and urgent. Be hungry for it. Don't forget to pull at the back of his hood. At the same time, use your hand to grip his shaft and jack it, or twist your hand. Gently caress his balls with your fingers.

    When he approaches the end, mouth fuck the shit out of him. Make humming sounds like "Mm! Mm! Mmmm!" for encouragement. Lock your lips tightly around the back of his head when he cums. Feel it throb. Brush the backs of your fingernails very lightly along the underside of his shaft from tip to base as it pulses. Cup his balls. Roll your tongue around the tip as he squirts. Take it all. Hum as if in a combination of eating delicious food and alarm at the force and volume of his emissions.

    • I’m sorry but this is waaay to advanced for average people. This is some porn level shit although I appreciate the effort man

    • Sorry, Blublub. I guess I wasn't sure what you were looking for. I was just trying to explain how to start out slow and mix things up. I wasn't saying "do this and then this and then this." There's no systematic instruction manual.

    • I didn’t ask the question but to help me out I need something more simple because when there’s so much different stuff you can do it gets overwhelming to me

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  • A big reason that the male orgasm happens (best) from head is when there is a very steady rhythm stimulating the tip. "Deep throating" is not such a big deal because all that does is simulate the experience of being in the warm wet snug vagina. During intercourse, it is the tip being touched and stimulated that causes excitement and orgasm.

    Keep in mind, all the best BJs are also a bit of a hand job as well so don't be afraid to give your mouth a break.

    And don't forget the balls! They get lonely and are STARVING for female attention. So, sometimes use your fingers or hand such as cupping or teasing testicles or the penis.

    Google "Fellucia Blow" and STUDY those videos. Those women are experts at fellatio and genuinely love it. The sensuous BJ really is best both for the guy and for the woman. Watch and notice how easily they do it yet aren't choking or getting sick. And watch how they switch between mouth and fingers.

    Also, look into videos for:

    A) lingam massage (tantric massage for the male genitalia)
    B) yoni massage (tantric massage for the female genitalia - he should return the favor).

    That said, consider studying good hand-job videos. All you then have to do is imagine doing what the woman is doing with her hands and fingers, but instead replace with lips, tongue, and mouth.
    I'd upload a video, but it is not safe for G@G. PM if you want the links to two such videos.

    • Thank you

    • That's what I am here for... Educating the younger generation, no matter what the topic.

    • RESPONSE TO UPDATE Attitude is 80% of attractiveness.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Attitude and technique.
    Not to say that you need pornstar technique or anything, since every guy has his own personal hotspots and not every guy will find it hot when a girl attacks his dick.

    So... just be enthusiastic (let him see that you’re giving him head because you actually want to, vs. because he expects you to) and ask him what he wants more/less of next time. Additionally, feel free to ‘research’ various techniques and whatnot, give them a try and then make necessary adjustments afterwards.

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  • - ENTHUSIASM
    - Eye contact
    - No teeth
    - Ending either with a facial or swallowing.

    • Thank you

    • Bad advice. Breathe through your nose and you can keep his dick in your mouth and throat for a week. Once it's all the way in, swallow every few seconds and he'll cum in 20 seconds or so. Repeat as necessary.

  • Don't blow! Suck LOL
    I'd like to know how it ever got the name blow job when there is no blowing involved it's all sucking, licking and stroking his penis and balls.

  • No teeth 😣

    • Woow really ☺️

  • Dont use your teeth

    • No shit

    • My ex did so when I saw this I think I panicked a little. My bad

  • I think it’s about a steady rhythm

  • She has to want to do it not just do it because she thinks it is the right thing to do.
    I like it when she starts out with a handjob and then finishes me off with oral... way hot and some fantastic orgasms. I always return the favor.

  • Slow and lots of tongue 😈 😉
    Don't be too good you gotta give a brotha a min to uhh get it back. Lol it's so embarrassing and when a girl goes to suck you off a bit before you fuck you in it's just that one time that it either feels so good or she's just so damn good at it that you just come too quick and well that's a big spoiler for everybody LOL

  • Looking in the eyes Id guess

    • Many guys ask that

    • @Thequeenofmars makes it more personal

    • Maybe

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  • Wetness. Had a few bj that were too dry and didn’t feel great. Keep lots of saliva and focus on the tip to keep it wet.

    • Thanking you

  • Enthusiasm. It's thrilling if you are enjoying it and a turn off if it seems like you are performing an unpleasant chore. Technique is secondary, so do what you feel like doing. Taking it slowly and teasing (building up anticipation) can build up some incredible excitement.

  • The way you show him you enjoy giving it. The tenderness, sometimes fast, slow, sometimes only the tip, other times completely in there...

  • Enthusiasm. That's more important than anything

    • That's a good tip

  • Cheese graters.

  • You won't get another response like this one..
    *The penis-head is compatible with sucking, licking and bobbing. Vigorous stroking overwhelms it. *The penis shaft is compatible with vigorous stroking. Sucking licking and (mouth) bobbing have minimal effect.
    *Once you start, never stop, pause or slow down. It is critical to gradually build intensity toward the finish. If you want to make him last a little longer, its OK to "level off" here and there so long as you don't lose ground. If you listen to this (3:25) you will get an idea of the rhythm, progress and how long it should take.

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/Lj2GAv3sMhM

    When he actually ejaculates, continue stroking more slowly but cease all head and mouth motions and only suck.

    • Nice answer

    • That’s funny... 🤔 that’s usually the music that goes through my head when I ride... 😂

  • Listen to your partner

  • Enthusiasm.

    • That's good advice

    • Aside from 'don't injure with your teeth' its way more important than anything else. Be hopefully turned on and into it, and if not, at least cheerful about it. If you act like 'there I sucked it 5 times am I done yet' is gonna be bad even if her technique is pretty good.

  • Twist lotta spit lotta mess

  • I think the guy has a lot to do with how good you are. If he makes you hungry for his cock, then you're going to bring your best. I had a girl tell me if she gave the best head ever, And I responded by saying if you get me head it would be the best that you've given anybody..
    She didn't understand what I meant until 3 days later of making her hungry for my cock, I finally let her see what she could do. I was giving her pointers on what feels best for me as far as timing and technique. And when I was finally ready to come I told her to squeeze it like she was hanging on for her life over the edge of a cliff and stroke it like she was trying to kill a demon. After cumming she looked up at me and said "goddamn, that us the most cum I've ever seen in my life" and I said "I told you I was going to be your best blowjob, lol"

  • As many have noted, if the giver enjoys doing it, chances are very high it's going to be a great bj :)

    • Hi @LexyIsSexy23 To your update, attitude is often most of what one is doing - with giving a bj or doing almost anything... the more you enjoy doing it the better it will be. Not saying technique doesn't matter - but if you enjoy doing it, you'll learn techniques - which might or likely will vary from person to person.

    • I'm learning 🙂

    • Always learning is a good thing - plus it fosters an appetite for variety for trying new or different things. With that attitude, you'll do great I am sure :) I love finding new techniques when giving oral pleasure... I think it is fascinating how much pleasure can bring her... I truly love doing it so finding the ways to really make her blown away in pleasure is fun :)

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