What's the key to a good blow job?

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Lliam · Accepted Answer

I'd say the key is to make love to his cock and balls. By that, I mean don't just suck and bob your head repetitiously.
Start slow. Be gentle at first. Consider the way you gradually tease your clit when you start to masturbate. You don't just attack it.
Vary what you do. You can kiss his tip and give it small licks. Take it between your lips and roll your tongue around as if it's a Tootsie Roll Pop. Tease and tickle him by barely touching the skin of his cock with the moist tip of your tongue. Use your lips and the flat of your tongue to savor his shaft. You can get his shaft slippery with saliva and jack it with your hand. Lift his shaft and bury your nose in his scrotum to lick his balls all over and get them wet. While you're at it, tickle his perineum with the tip of your tongue. Know that moisture cools on the skin and makes the warmth of your mouth feel even better. Cool-warm, cool-warm. Take him as deep as you can on occasion. Alternate these things in between sucking and bobbing hungrily on his cock. Be sure to pull at the back of his head with your tightly closed lips as you bob up and down. Even let it pull free on occasion.

As he gets more aroused, focus more on head bobbing/mouth fucking. Make it increasingly rapid and urgent. Be hungry for it. Don't forget to pull at the back of his hood. At the same time, use your hand to grip his shaft and jack it, or twist your hand. Gently caress his balls with your fingers.

When he approaches the end, mouth fuck the shit out of him. Make humming sounds like "Mm! Mm! Mmmm!" for encouragement. Lock your lips tightly around the back of his head when he cums. Feel it throb. Brush the backs of your fingernails very lightly along the underside of his shaft from tip to base as it pulses. Cup his balls. Roll your tongue around the tip as he squirts. Take it all. Hum as if in a combination of eating delicious food and alarm at the force and volume of his emissions.

abc3643 · Accepted Answer

A big reason that the male orgasm happens (best) from head is when there is a very steady rhythm stimulating the tip. "Deep throating" is not such a big deal because all that does is simulate the experience of being in the warm wet snug vagina. During intercourse, it is the tip being touched and stimulated that causes excitement and orgasm.

Keep in mind, all the best BJs are also a bit of a hand job as well so don't be afraid to give your mouth a break.

And don't forget the balls! They get lonely and are STARVING for female attention. So, sometimes use your fingers or hand such as cupping or teasing testicles or the penis.

Google "Fellucia Blow" and STUDY those videos. Those women are experts at fellatio and genuinely love it. The sensuous BJ really is best both for the guy and for the woman. Watch and notice how easily they do it yet aren't choking or getting sick. And watch how they switch between mouth and fingers.

Also, look into videos for:

A) lingam massage (tantric massage for the male genitalia)
B) yoni massage (tantric massage for the female genitalia - he should return the favor).

That said, consider studying good hand-job videos. All you then have to do is imagine doing what the woman is doing with her hands and fingers, but instead replace with lips, tongue, and mouth.
I'd upload a video, but it is not safe for G@G. PM if you want the links to two such videos.

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

Attitude and technique.
Not to say that you need pornstar technique or anything, since every guy has his own personal hotspots and not every guy will find it hot when a girl attacks his dick.

So... just be enthusiastic (let him see that you’re giving him head because you actually want to, vs. because he expects you to) and ask him what he wants more/less of next time. Additionally, feel free to ‘research’ various techniques and whatnot, give them a try and then make necessary adjustments afterwards.

SydneySentinel · Accepted Answer

I think...

MrOracle · Answer

- ENTHUSIASM - Eye contact - No teeth - Ending either with a facial or swallowing.

katiesmuff · Answer

Don't blow! Suck LOL I'd like to know how it ever got the name blow job when there is no blowing involved it's all sucking, licking and stroking his penis and balls.

Warmapplecrumble · Answer

No teeth 😣

silasw · Answer

Dont use your teeth

SarahsSummer · Answer

I think it’s about a steady rhythm

summiter · Answer

She has to want to do it not just do it because she thinks it is the right thing to do.
I like it when she starts out with a handjob and then finishes me off with oral... way hot and some fantastic orgasms. I always return the favor.

SweetTea90 · Answer

Slow and lots of tongue 😈 😉
Don't be too good you gotta give a brotha a min to uhh get it back. Lol it's so embarrassing and when a girl goes to suck you off a bit before you fuck you in it's just that one time that it either feels so good or she's just so damn good at it that you just come too quick and well that's a big spoiler for everybody LOL

ThisDudeHere · Answer

Looking in the eyes Id guess

ecfresh · Answer

Wetness. Had a few bj that were too dry and didn’t feel great. Keep lots of saliva and focus on the tip to keep it wet.

cicchis0 · Answer

Enthusiasm. It's thrilling if you are enjoying it and a turn off if it seems like you are performing an unpleasant chore. Technique is secondary, so do what you feel like doing. Taking it slowly and teasing (building up anticipation) can build up some incredible excitement.

R4vedave · Answer

Enthusiasm. That's more important than anything

Bongem · Answer

The way you show him you enjoy giving it. The tenderness, sometimes fast, slow, sometimes only the tip, other times completely in there...

Agape93 · Answer

Cheese graters.

Dargil · Answer

You won't get another response like this one..
*The penis-head is compatible with sucking, licking and bobbing. Vigorous stroking overwhelms it. *The penis shaft is compatible with vigorous stroking. Sucking licking and (mouth) bobbing have minimal effect.
*Once you start, never stop, pause or slow down. It is critical to gradually build intensity toward the finish. If you want to make him last a little longer, its OK to "level off" here and there so long as you don't lose ground. If you listen to this (3:25) you will get an idea of the rhythm, progress and how long it should take.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/Lj2GAv3sMhM

When he actually ejaculates, continue stroking more slowly but cease all head and mouth motions and only suck.

reptocarl · Answer

Listen to your partner

0112358 · Answer

Enthusiasm.

haleysalvigione2 · Answer

Twist lotta spit lotta mess

mineorypurs · Answer

I think the guy has a lot to do with how good you are. If he makes you hungry for his cock, then you're going to bring your best. I had a girl tell me if she gave the best head ever, And I responded by saying if you get me head it would be the best that you've given anybody..
She didn't understand what I meant until 3 days later of making her hungry for my cock, I finally let her see what she could do. I was giving her pointers on what feels best for me as far as timing and technique. And when I was finally ready to come I told her to squeeze it like she was hanging on for her life over the edge of a cliff and stroke it like she was trying to kill a demon. After cumming she looked up at me and said "goddamn, that us the most cum I've ever seen in my life" and I said "I told you I was going to be your best blowjob, lol"

TCredo · Answer

As many have noted, if the giver enjoys doing it, chances are very high it's going to be a great bj :)

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