What's wrong if a widowed man wants to have sex? Does a widow man not have physical needs?

One of my college friend lost his wife who happened to be my best friend.
It's been a year she died.
I often visit him to know about his well being.
Last month i went to meet him.
His parents went at some relatives place.
It was his sister and me at his home.
At night i thought to speak to him about how he's doing &all.
I saw him jerking off. He saw me& with embarrassment he stopped.
We sat & he talked about how hard life was after my bestie died. He apologized for what I saw.

I asked him if he is lonely and wants to embrace woman body. He denied but I removed my top to let him see my naked breasts.
I offered him to fuck me as if he does do it somewhere else it might cause him problem morally. I offered him to forget all his pain for that night & embrace my body.
He fucked me wildly like he's been hungry for years and years.
After that we have been fucking almost daily twice.
Few days back we were caught by his parents and his mother kept cursing me that I am spoiling him & his image will tarnish if someone knows he is fucking a woman after his wife's death

Can a man not have needs?
Does he need to have sex less life after his beloved death
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  • There's nothing "wrong" with a widow having sex. The reason a lot of people believe it might be wrong, is biblical. The bible says you're only supposed to ever have sex with the one you've married. That it would be "cheating" if you have sex with anyone else before or after marriage/death. I'm not religious, I'm just telling you that those people who say it's wrong, likely are

  • His mom is overreacting. We still want intimacy, even if our spouse was to die. Plus you can help him more than someone who didn't know his wife.

  • yes absolutely man needs sex all the life

  • About your question (widowed man) yes he needs sexual help. I was surprised about your actions, but glad you did it. Did you have feelings for him for a long time?

    Thank you

  • Man can have need. Are you in India?

  • The parents are wrong

  • this made me giggle

  • As a widowed man, yes we do. And I got it in very many taboo ways.

  • Widowed guys don’t just stop existing. Many aspects of life continue

  • He can get married to you.

  • I don't know did he have kids? if so sex-only relationship is a bad idea

  • neither do us older men i guess

  • Ur story sounds too good to be real

  • you did well

  • So good.. you are having fun

  • He might feel like he's cheating on her, even though she's gone.

  • Can't blame him. I would bang you as well

    • Jk you ugly

    • So sayith the anonymous coward.

    • @Juxtapose ok simp

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  • In your backwards hole of a country it's a big deal