What's your opinion on one night stands?

[Lucy68]

[Paul_in_Indy]

The downside of a one night stand is that it is a whole lot of work. However, if you are in the habit of constantly working on leads and you are willing to be constantly attentive and vigilant for the opportunity, that you can sometimes be surprised by them.

The upside is that there is so much excitement and suspense! The unknown makes it a grand adventure.

You do need to be open to whatever you get. Sometimes it is amazing. Sometimes it is weird. Sometimes you just have to be able to laugh. But as long as you go in looking for adventure, rather than perfection, it’s awesome.

Do, please, be safe; in every regard.

[Paul_in_Indy]

So, what do you think about them? Tell us about your experiences?

[Lucy68]

I actually never did or had a one stand. I'm not a fan but if other people want to do them, that's fine. I actually asked the question cause I've noticed that a lot of television series as well as movies have people involved in one night stands and was actually curious on what the general population thought of them

[hornyvirgin]

hell no

[Cubus]

Meaningless

[Cubus]

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[Lucy68]

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[ShiftingMonke]

As long as you're safe about it, and respect consent, they can be quite enjoyable and educational.

They can also give you a very skewed view of your sexuality and self worth, as well as cause long term trauma within yourself and your partners.

[Adventurer23]

I prefer two nightstands. 😜

[Adventurer23]

But seriously. lol I'm highly monogamous and demisexual, so one night stands have never really appealed to me. I want a relationship and someone to love, not just sex. For me, sex without love is pretty empty. Sex is way better when it actually means something, but that's just me.

[DaveJord]

It is all good as long as you make it clear to the other person what it was for you and that you move on from it pretty quick. Do not prolong the situation. If that is what you are looking for and want then to go out there and do that, just make sure the other person understands what it is as well.

[weysally]

if sexual desire is there, a one-night stand can happen to anyone, it doesn't take much,
1/ if at the same time, sex enters your brain that is desire,
2/ at that time, if your sexual attracted to that person,
3/ the opportunity arises,
4/ sex could easily happen,
5/ why debign yourself

[xColinx]

Risk-reward.

Not a good idea, generally speaking, due to a variety of reasons and typical circumstances.

A one night gambling binge in Vegas.

Jumping off a bridge with friends into water.

Lots of other stuff...

I've done plenty of stuff like that, don't recommend any of it, but this is life. Embrace our mistakes, try to do it with grace, then learn from it.

[whirled_up_girl]

It's not something I care to do.

[Gummy_Cluster]

Waaaaaaaay too much work for the reward. Find a special friend. Someone you can trust.

1. Limit kissing, because that's a recipe for disaster.

2. He can't spend the night. That's a recipe for disaster.

3. Don't go on dates, because that's a recipe for disaster.

4. Chuck a pizza in the oven.

5. Que up a scary movie, but make sure you have a blanket. Anyone with a brain knows that monsters can jump out of the TV, but if you have a blanket over your head, they can't do shit. (monsters aren't all that smartly)

6. Just know going in, that this arrangement won't last for long. One of you will break the rules and catch feelings.

[TheBigWhistle]

That's a lot of knowledge about recipes. I bet you're a real good cook.

[Gummy_Cluster]

@TheBigWhistle

All good things come to an end. But sex is like a bowl of potato chips.

Have you ever only wanted one?

[PatriceONeal]

I find that the after-care is essential for women to not feel slighted. Throw her a towel, offer her a water bottle and a pack of flaming hot cheetos. Goes a long way.

[Gummy_Cluster]

@PatriceONeal You sound way smarter than the average bear. I'd ask you to share your wisdom with the other guys on this site, but they wouldn't get it. They're still worrying about dick size.

[PatriceONeal]

Tbf girls think avg is 7inch because of porn. But Most girls don't have rulers with them and can't eyeball measurements for shit. Half the time they forget what your dick even looks like. Girls get the same insecurity with their boobies. And vagina flaps. Neither really care and are just happy to be included most of the time.

[Gummy_Cluster]

@patriceoneal Pat, play the hand you were dealt, and play to win. Only a moron thinks 7 inches is average. This site is proof that there's no shortage of morons.

[PatriceONeal]

Thanks gum

[weysally]

nice answer

[Gummy_Cluster]

@weysally

Thank you. One night stands sometimes happen by accident. I had one in a grassy park next to the lake. The lake was next to a bar. I was with my cousin. Two hot guys asked to sit at our table. I can't remember what we were drinking, but it was orangish. The guys were very funny and charming.

There are three lakes in Idaho, known as the "gems of Idaho." This lake was one of the gems.
It was bad, it was wrong, but it was so dang much fun. We pitched our pup tents on the lawn of this public park. Apparently, you're not allowed to do that, and we got in trouble in the morning.
But sex was not in anyway our goal. It just happened. But I would never set out for a goal like that, because it's too much work and it's hit and miss. The next day we rode our bicycles into Canada. No sex there, but I think a black bear wanted to. Thank God we were traveling downhill. lol
We were Eastbound and down! Nothing wakes you up more in the morning than a black bear chasing you down the highway. I think he wanted our hot dogs!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IOgUaFkpS3Y
Screw that! We were dirt poor, and no bear was going to rob us. I believe our next stop was Trail BC Canada.
upload.wikimedia.org/.../...C_British_Columbia.jpg The bear gave up.

[Anemone978]

Not a wise decision...

[desidoll]

Not interested, but I won’t judge others who are into it. I need at least a little connection with the guys to sleep with him.

[Lowiu]

It can be pretty fun but like its a surprise what you get in the end

[PatriceONeal]

It's never a surprise for me I arrive everytime

[weysally]

yes, like one of mine, it was hardly worth taking my knickers off, he was so quick to cum

[tinydiva1991]

I’ve had a few in my life time. They are pretty exciting. Guys love a spontaneous moment. I have an iud so I don’t really worry about getting pregnant

[BarryLiverstone]

Girls don’t like a spontaneous moment?

[SnowedIn]

Not for me personally, but if the people are of legal age and consenting then go for it.

[electromagnetic]

They aren’t my personal go tos but I can see the appeal for others.

[melanieeeB]

If you wanna do it, go do it but definitely use a condom! Stay safe and healthy.

Personally it's not my cup of tea but who knows what the future may bring lol

[NathanDavis]

not for me

[Kaneki05]

It can go either way I would imagine. Awful, somewhat good or can't remember lol. And I personally would rather it be with someone I know I don't think a ONS with a random would be on the good side most of the time.
I mean there is a reason why ONS with a random is often associated with alcohol and drugs because it's normally bad so better to forget or think it was good in that moment compared to reality.

I would probably do it either way if convinced enough and I'm a virgin without anyone lining up so not as if I've got much to lose but eh still got personal standards somewhere. And did basically reject someone recently because of many reasons so yeah still to me depends on the person.

[Miristheiss]

That society praises it and teaches to live it up, do what you want, all is good. No consequences.

I believe it leaves people damaged and that there are consequences. Maybe down the road a bit but I believe that the majority of people do want and plan to one day have a long term partner and a healthy relationship and doing these leaves people damaged and there is some trauma to it and that having future long term stable, healthy relationships will be much harder or out right ruined based on the one night stand lifestyle.

[Agape93]

Have fun and be safe. I don't judge

[Dargil]

They drain particularly women of their capacity to bond with and love a man and children. So go ahead girls. Keeeeep on fukkin!

[MikeTheBartender]

It's 90 percent of the sex I've had. I'm a fan.