Nope, too early, I need to get to know someone first before taking that step. If they are too eager to do it I be weary.
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KezzzXper 7
+1 y
If it happens then it means we're really into each other and it gonna be an amazing relationship
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maniaclaughterXper 2
+1 y
If ur partner is not mentally prepared for it thn it may ruin everything. But if u both want thn it's a gud start
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TheDevilYouKnowXper 2
+1 y
Sometimes it's a great idea, I mean you're just waiting for it. A lot of times I'd say hell no, or "never" with them. Other times I think I have to respect her, so I last as long as I can.
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crazy8000Yoda
+1 y
Does it get right it will happen.
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jersos1Xper 7
+1 y
I like sex, so I'd be happy to have sex if the girl is okay with it.
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glutendanXper 5
+1 y
No, after marriage is ideal. But at the absolute minimum wait some months so you can actually know the person.
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quietman4875Xper 4
+1 y
I believe the third date is customary, but I have had sex on the second date. I wouldn't turn down sex on the first date but it's probably better to wait.
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Pric_NickXper 2
+1 y
Do women want sex as much as men
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GedariaMaster
+1 y
I never go after it on the first date. I find it something to work up to if you do on the first you will expect it on the second, only problem with that is the sex gets in the way of romance...
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lovedejj_xoYoda
+1 y
Done it relationship was long and fine... you can wait to give it up all you want I’ve seen guys still leave or end it shortly after. Up to your preference...
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COMMODOREIIMaster
+1 y
I think it's ok if you both are already wanting go for it. But more like the 2nd or 3rd date would be better because you are still learning from each other. You can not know someone very much in only one date unless it really was a time you both clicked and truly opened up.
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ShamalienGuru
+1 y
If a girl has sex on the first date, she has just communicated something to me. She has said:
"I can know someone for a few hours and sleep with them"
To which I would say (assuming I even went through with it, I'd have to be pretty cold hearted to use her like that) I don't want to date a girl who is capable of having sex with someone having known them for only a few hours. I want someone that moves a little slower than that if I'm going to invest in them.
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VIVANT
+1 y
After you had sex after a free hours yourself 😂😂 It isn’t the issue of You using her~ that’s her problem ( and maybe she won’t care bc Maybe she just wanted sex or maybe she’s not interested, really who wants such a blatant hypocrite and someone willing to conduct yourself beneath your own morals..) _Your_ problem is that you do exactly what you judge someone else for. I doubt that judgement can escape your own conscience. That must take a toll. Directly or subconsciously.
LuWe22Guru
+1 y
Nope. I'm not attracted to someone that fast
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DiscomfortZoneExplorer
+1 y
While I understand and respect those who's rather "take it slow" - it becomes a bit of an issue the older one gets. After 30, time's running short for those looking to settle down, and there's no time to waste on a relationship that has no future. That means you need to verify basic sexual chemistry and compatibility as soon as possible, including. on the first date. Moreover, if both sides aren't as young as they used to be anymore, both might want to speed things up a little. In my case, my wife and I met around three years ago, made love at the end of our first "date", became official after a month, got married after a year and a half and are now the proud and happy parents of six month old princess. Not all first date sex is "taking advantage" or "being too easy".
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navyPXper 7
+1 y
Why wait I never could understand why people think they have to wait if both people are ok go for it
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padreflintXper 6
+1 y
If the chemistry is there and she's up for it, sure.
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legalboxersEditor
+1 y
I did it before. we lasted 4 years
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alance99Guru
+1 y
I am fine with it if both we feel comfortable
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TienShenhanXper 6
+1 y
It means nothing. The sluttiest skank I ever slept with made me wait weeks for it. It didn't change who she is
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57 84Nope, too early, I need to get to know someone first before taking that step. If they are too eager to do it I be weary.
If it happens then it means we're really into each other and it gonna be an amazing relationship
If ur partner is not mentally prepared for it thn it may ruin everything. But if u both want thn it's a gud start
Sometimes it's a great idea, I mean you're just waiting for it. A lot of times I'd say hell no, or "never" with them. Other times I think I have to respect her, so I last as long as I can.
Does it get right it will happen.
I like sex, so I'd be happy to have sex if the girl is okay with it.
No, after marriage is ideal. But at the absolute minimum wait some months so you can actually know the person.
I believe the third date is customary, but I have had sex on the second date. I wouldn't turn down sex on the first date but it's probably better to wait.
Do women want sex as much as men
I never go after it on the first date. I find it something to work up to if you do on the first you will expect it on the second, only problem with that is the sex gets in the way of romance...
Done it relationship was long and fine... you can wait to give it up all you want I’ve seen guys still leave or end it shortly after. Up to your preference...
I think it's ok if you both are already wanting go for it. But more like the 2nd or 3rd date would be better because you are still learning from each other. You can not know someone very much in only one date unless it really was a time you both clicked and truly opened up.
If a girl has sex on the first date, she has just communicated something to me. She has said:
"I can know someone for a few hours and sleep with them"
To which I would say (assuming I even went through with it, I'd have to be pretty cold hearted to use her like that) I don't want to date a girl who is capable of having sex with someone having known them for only a few hours. I want someone that moves a little slower than that if I'm going to invest in them.
After you had sex after a free hours yourself 😂😂 It isn’t the issue of You using her~ that’s her problem ( and maybe she won’t care bc Maybe she just wanted sex or maybe she’s not interested, really who wants such a blatant hypocrite and someone willing to conduct yourself beneath your own morals..) _Your_ problem is that you do exactly what you judge someone else for. I doubt that judgement can escape your own conscience. That must take a toll. Directly or subconsciously.
Nope. I'm not attracted to someone that fast
While I understand and respect those who's rather "take it slow" - it becomes a bit of an issue the older one gets. After 30, time's running short for those looking to settle down, and there's no time to waste on a relationship that has no future. That means you need to verify basic sexual chemistry and compatibility as soon as possible, including. on the first date. Moreover, if both sides aren't as young as they used to be anymore, both might want to speed things up a little. In my case, my wife and I met around three years ago, made love at the end of our first "date", became official after a month, got married after a year and a half and are now the proud and happy parents of six month old princess. Not all first date sex is "taking advantage" or "being too easy".
Why wait I never could understand why people think they have to wait if both people are ok go for it
If the chemistry is there and she's up for it, sure.
I did it before. we lasted 4 years
I am fine with it if both we feel comfortable
It means nothing. The sluttiest skank I ever slept with made me wait weeks for it. It didn't change who she is