What sex acts do you think is acceptable to perform at a hen party?

unsurprisingly more people supported anal than vaginal sex
unsurprisingly more people supported anal than vaginal sex
In many western countries a party for the bride to be is often held before the wedding. Traditionally only the "Hen" and her female friends and family attend.
In the UK these are known as hen nights and in the USA as bachelorette parties. It is common for these parties to include various sex based events such as watching a stripper or participation in sex acts.

Researchers presented thousands of married couples with a list of common sex acts and asked.
Women "which of these acts would you be happy to at a hen party?"
Men "which of these acts would you be happy for your partner to perform at a hen party?"

Needless to say woman were far more happy to participate than men would like.
So looking at the chart above would you be happy to do those acts/be happy for your partner to?
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  • I'm totally fine with girls having wild parties. But I would be very, very upset a girlfriend engaged in sex with someone else while we were in a relationship. And I would call off the wedding if my fiance engaged in sex with a guy before our marriage. I'm not cool with cheating. I don't share my women.

    I would have no problem at all if all she did was party like crazy, watch sex acts and get turned on. I would be totally fine if she masturbated or even got masturbated or orally pleasured by another girl while she watched sex acts. But if she sucked or fucked a guy, I'd be done.

    Call me old fashioned.

Most Helpful Guy

  • This is pretty interesting at least now we know why the chicken cross the road but we don't know if it was a hin or a rooster

    Of course be being single I'm going to choose acceptable because I want to get laid

    Know if I was the groom of course I would say no it's not acceptable but we've all been to Bachelor and bachelorette parties before and what happens there stays there LOL just like what happens in Las Vegas stays in Las Vegas I guess it really depends on who you are in life and who you want to be I mean you basically treat people the way you want to be treated so if you look at it at that point of view everybody has a choice

Most Helpful Girls

  • I am going to have to agree with this... except the anal part. But men would be surprised how often sex of some kind happens at bachelorette parties. The latest trend is oral being performed on the women by the stripper (usually in private of course). But women are better at keeping secrets than guys so the real truth does not come out..."Oh darling the party was really boring and the stripper was ugly" lol

    • My hairdresser, bit a stripper's penis at her bachelorette party

    • @Bricealan @northerngal @purplepoppy Had this happen a few times, and it can really hurt.

  • I can’t imagine doing any kinds of sexual acts to any men other than my partner.

    I meam, if I am getting married to this person it means I really do love him, why would I want to have sex with anyone else right before our wedding?

    Not my thing.

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  • Basically those majority of women shouldn't get married, they disrespect what marriage stands for and disrespect their partner, no wonder we have such high divorce rates.

    Aslo just another reason why i dont suggest getting married in first place.

  • Hen parties are scary, really scary at times.

    the worst are not the brides n bridesmaid lot, it’s the older married ones.

    Even worse if it’s two hen groups trying to out do each other,

    You don’t have to say ‘my mate likes you’, you just say ‘my mates got a pulse’

  • "A hen party." That sounds like some porn sh*t.

    Yeah I don't think you're allowed to cheat at bachelorette parties unless your name is "Jada." I wonder how much BBC gets seen at a UK "hen party?"

    BBC (and I ain't talking about British television!)
    BBC (and I ain't talking about British television!)
  • Think a good bit of Oral , followed up by some solid virginal sex would be whats required at most hens parties , overall women do go pretty dam crazy.

  • This is disgusting human behavior, no.
    Anyone doing this, should not be married and frankly, should spend a lot of time at a hog farm on the other side of the fence... but that's an insult to hogs who really are decent animals.

  • Whatever she does the week leading up to the wedding is up to her, I just don't want to find out about it until many years later. I feel like sex right before the wedding is kinda a thing. You're about to be loyal to this person for a long time, I can understand the desire to have one last run.

    I don't think too many people who get laid often expect to marry every person they date from the beginning.

  • Anyone who feels the need to get their guts rearranged by a stranger should not be getting married.

    What that hell kind of logic makes this even remotely ok?

  • If it's being recorded and I get to see the video, she can blow the biggest guy there if she feels like it.

  • I would do it all.

    I would like to see the results if the tables were turned and they were talking about Bachelor parties.

    • @sarahp080102 You would have to be in an open relationship or it would be considered cheating if you were the bride

    • Duh!

    • Glad to hear it.

  • I'm not married (and never plan to be) but I have been to a couple of my friends Bachelorette parties and I have seen others and done the first 3 myself. I've never seen anyone do anal but I'm pretty sure it's happened.

    • Soo u have done first 3 many times? In front of all ur friends?

  • This is a made up chart...

  • I'm with the women. Do whatever you want at the hen party, get it out of your system. Because after the wedding it's going to be just you and your husband.

  • Well, "purple' any and all probably if SHE was agreeable to doing them. I'm very liberal and if my partner is agreeable, I would like to see her do any or all of them!

  • I wouldn't mind if my bride did any of these. It's kinky.

  • I wouldn't want my bride to do anal but anything else would be fine with me

  • I thought a hen party would include copious amounts of KFC.

  • I'm not tattle tailing but damn I've seen crazy things before peeps get married it puts the question in my mind why bother getting married at all if they have to go out with a bang lol

  • I'm fine with all of them.

  • All of the bits in graph

  • She shouldn't even want to do any of it if she's getting married. That's wrong on so many levels.

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