What should a married woman do to satisfy her kinky fantasies?

[Disha10]

especially if her husband can't do things she wants

[magiusX26]

honestly, if either spouse in a marriage has these types of issues, its either going to wind upbin a divorce or an unhappy marriage. this is one reason a marriage should not be rushed into and you both should be sure of sexual compatability. possible ways to resolve this issue, besides cheating, is try counseling and communicating into some sort of compromise, possibly open relationship/polyamoury, or divorce/annulment then seek an more compatible partner.

[Guardian45]

Marriage is a pact, both partners must agree to communicate and work together to solve their issues.

It would appear this couple have different sexual interests; therefore, they need to discuss this in detail and find their common ground and help each other to be more sexually comfortable with and attractive to each other.

There are many possibilities, but not until they discuss it and understand what the other person needs.

[Guardian45]

Thank you for MHO!

[weysally]

if you PM me I will say

[Jennz6]

@weysally I know what you’re going to tell her

[OlderAndWiser]

What does she want? A threesome? Swapping? Have husband watch her with another guy? Watch husband with another girl? Does she want to try lesbian sex? Group sex?

[molonski2]

Depends on the fantasies , What are they?

[MrCommodore]

Find someone who can satisfy them.

[connemara_crocodile]

I have the same problem. I use twitter for my kinks, talk with like-minded people and exchange photos and videos. It's not like the real deal, but it helps

[SnowedIn]

Masturbate and sext.

[OfMiceandMen]

Are they not something she can explore with her husband?

[OfMiceandMen]

Sorry, saw the bold print below it now that was hid by the banner when I answered. I guess it would depend on what kind of kinky fantasies they were. Is it something she could do herself with a toy? or does she need another person to fulfill these fantasies?

[Disha10]

Another person

[OfMiceandMen]

Okay, do you think it something you husband would consider, like an open marriage where he could explore things too? As long as both of you approve, of course.

[Disha10]

I am not married and I am not talking about myself

[OfMiceandMen]

Okay, thanks for the clarification, regarding it is not you. I still think she owes it to her husband to discuss the possibility of an open marriage, if that is what she wants. If she goes behind his back, then she would have to suffer the consequences, if he ever found out.

[4ngelic]

divorce, he deserves better than you

[AviatorTom]

After talking with her husband to get his okay, she can go online and satisfy her kinks there

[Dargil]

What things does she want?

[saffoler]

Erotic literature?

[TCredo]

what we've been doing lately is using toys more... like cock shaped dildos... making it like we are having a threesome... it's lots of erotic fun :)

[Eliiiiii]

maybe he likes being a cuck try that out

[Gibbons44]

Imagine a question 'what shoukd a married man do to satisfy his kinky fantasies'

[Oldschool1981]

In my relationships, I've learned not to expect 100 percent percent manogamy, so I allow a little leeway for this sort of thing. It's not the end of the world if my SO has a little fun every once in a while.

[loveslongnails]

Do you mean "can not", or "will not"?

[AmeerX]

Well, if the spouse isn't agreeable then you try to make them agreeable to the kinks. After all kinks are harmless.

[OlderAndWiser]

Engaging in sex with a third person or swapping sometimes leads to marriages ending with divorce. All kinks are not harmless.

[AmeerX]

She doesn't necessarily have to act on her kinks. If she or her husband likes a third person they can talk about it. They are not going to be special

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes, talking about kinks is probably okay, but there are some women and men who will immediately reject a partner if they suggest something such as anal sex or a threesome. Some kinks come with presumptions about having a dark or empty place in their character, and the mere mention of those things creates problems. I thnk you SHOULD be able to at least discuss those with a partner but your partner is not required to respond in a rational manner.

[AmeerX]

@OlderAndWiser I suppose but let's hear what her kink is that she is talking about

[OlderAndWiser]

Indeed. In her response to@OfMiceandMen below, she said "another person."

[AmeerX]

@OlderAndWiser well, I am conflicted. I don't know. I think if it will save them the marriage they should do it with consent. I do that you are old and wise so you know what is better than me. I am still new to married life

[OlderAndWiser]

It is better to talk to your partner about kinks before marriage, and even try them if your relationship includes sex at that point.

[Jennz6]

Spank him, just kidding what do you want to do?

[convo_king89]

Get a friends with benefits

[Jay3344]

Talk with him about it and take it step by step