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Sexual Health What should I do if he's too big and rough for me and the sex is painful?
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I've been seeing this guy for a while.. we had sex for the first time last night and it was SUPER painful. He had the biggest penis I've ever seen and I happen to be very tight as well- so I felt this sharp pain in my vagina throughout the night. We have tried lots of lube and lots of foreplay but still it hurts like hell. He is also super rough that he would bite my nipples extremely hard even though I already told him not to. Lastly, when I give him blowjobs, I always gag like crazy and vomited a lot after he pushed my head hard to deepthroat. I found him too rough and big for me, as I want sex to be a lot more gentile and slow... but I really, really like him and we are a perfect match in terms of personality and lifestyle. I have asked him constantly during sex to be gentler and slower, but he always ends up getting rough and fast again once he got too into it. .. What should I do? :(
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What Girls & Guys Said
7 25Sound like you not ready for that kind of life
Deal with it... At start u will feel pain but after some time u will enjoy it.
Discuss ur problem and try to solve it.
You sound young and delicate. Let your body mature and find a more gentile man until you are ready for a tiger.
Sex like together both opinion same then sex the beautiful to both & enjoy
Talk to him about it
Bite off a chunk. Toss it. Don't let'em sew it back on. That should fix it.
Words of wisdom, it's not about how big it is. It's about how you use it.