What typically happens to you when you are on the verge of orgasm but then stop receiving physical stimulation?

What typically happens to you when you are on the verge of orgasm but then stop receiving physical stimulation?
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Vote A
I typically have the orgasm anyway, and it is still just as pleasurable
Vote B
I typically have the orgasm anyway, but it is less pleasurable
Vote C
I typically don't have the orgasm, and I have to start all over
Vote D
I typically don't have the orgasm, but it doesn't take long to get there again
Vote E
I typically don't have the orgasm, and I stop the session
Vote F
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  • I love edging so this is extremely common for me.
    Depending on when i / she stops it will have different outcomes.
    Stopping before hitting the very edge will result in the pleasure fading a little, i will stay relatively close and can get there again quickly. The longer it is not being stimulated the further back the pleasure will go and the longer it will take me. Repeating this will make the edges a bit more intense every time and ideally its done a few times before i cum to enhance the experience.

    What happens if she stops right over? Then i will cum, it can be extremely pleasurable but will not be satisfying at all and i will usually remain horny afterwards or become horny again quickly.

    What happens if she stops right on the spot?
    That one causes the best orgasms of my life, i only managed to do it twice. But i will get stuck on the peak of the orgasm and that can last up to a minute before i eventually tip over.

    What happens if she doesn't touch me after stopping before the edge?
    Then depending on how many times i have been edged i will either go back soft or end up with uncomfortable blueballs.

Most Helpful Guy

  • There’s kind of a key point that you’re either past or you aren’t, and it’s about the thinnest line I can think of. If you stop just short of it, the feeling of build-up subsides. Like imagine a rollercoaster with a really sharp point at the peak (that probably wouldn’t work for a functional rollercoaster, but bear with me). If you don’t get past that peak, you’d just roll backwards down the rollercoaster. I’m sure that’s similar for women, and from what I understand, it sets women back closer to square one than us. Guys can probably get back there in a minute or less, or at least I can. But if we DO hit that peak, even if we stop, it’s still happening, you’re going down the right side of the rollercoaster. The only thing you can do is try to squeeze it off at the end, lmao, and the feeling of orgasm eventually subsided in the usual time, but when you let go... just have a towel or something handy😂 I think there’s a fancy scientific word for that breaking point, but I can’t think of it. Relative to your poll answers, I think it can often intensify the orgasm for men, i’m pretty sure that’s what “edging” is, but I’m not down with all of kids’ lingo these days lmfao.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's a situation most girls have been in. You feel the pressure building and just before the release he orgasms and stops. At this point there's usually a bit crying and begging but I ignore him and keep going until I cum too.

    • 😟 [stares at her answer]

  • If I pick up again I can still cum. But if there is no further contact snd or further context quickly enough, its over and I’m very uncomfortable. Sometimes it hurts. Full pain not like scathing or anything but still sucks 😐

    • Stopping and starring can potentially make more powerful but Also runs the risk of a annoyingly weak one or nothing at all.

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  • It depends upon whether you are "past the point of no return" or not - if you are, then you will still have an orgasm but it will be less intense. If you are not past that point, then you will not have an orgasm (unless you can will it to happen); however, if you repeat the process & get to the edge again, stop again & repeat - this qualifies as edging, and should you choose to ultimately have an orgasm, theoretically it will last longer & be more intense.

  • Sometimes if you want a job done right you have to do it/finish it yourself.

  • I explode into 1000 pieces and start to sparkle

  • It's totally frustrating!

  • Sad times

  • I generally stop and end up losing the feeling

  • Just dont stop it or make your partner feels you're not satisfied just remember the things that make you super horny and do it like some girls tell boy to rub his dick between their thighs while he's kissing so that makes them reach the orgasm

  • For a girl I can see how this would be annoying cuz they can just have a bunch of orgasms but for me as a guy i only get one shot so I love it the more times and the longer you can keep it going the better as long as I do finally get off in the end.

  • that is a ruined orgasm in a very bad way for me and i would be sexually frustrated

    • And I will never put you in such position my lady 💋

  • It's a rough experience..

  • It depends, sometimes I’ll let myself cum but other times I can stop myself even when I’m right on the verge

  • Sometimes I don't reach to my orgasm sometimes I do but that kind of orgasm is not pleasurable at all.

  • As usual, I like to look behind a question, especially one like this. What on earth would cause someone to come up with this? It doesn’t seem like a normal thing to ponder, unless the Asker has experienced this enough to have it on their mind. And you, the queen of many possible answers, splitting the already split hairs, always offering three to four times the number of practical answers. I’ve come to welcome these posts, I have a new found interest in analyzing people I don’t even know. It’s sort of an offshoot of people watching. Since I can’t convince you to provide your own post analysis of your queries, I am forced to come to my own conclusions based on the tally of the final answers. That is how I came to want to look behind the questions and how each was born.

  • I panic!

  • My hips buck

    • 👅👅

  • Orgasm is not simply physical stimulation. You could have sex, and one or neither of you finish, simply as your moods didn't allow orgasm or other reasons.

    But if you're referring to "wrecking it" for the other, then it's dependent on what the reasons are. For example, One of my girlfriends younger brothers walked in on us, another time, I had to go pee.. etc etc.

    Sometimes the reasons are legit and you just have to be mentally strong to get yourself back to carry on. Or call it a night.

  • sounds like edging. which is you go up to the point of release. but then stop before you finish. often leads to either a bigger and better finish or harmful pain afterwards.

  • I’ve hated when this happens! Because I’ll usually just lose it completely and it’s super frustrating!

  • Say I waa interupted or my partner stopped? I may become violent.

    • Why?

  • There is a very definite point of no return for men If you pass it you have a “ruined orgasm” ie a really weak and unsatisfying orgasm, barely an orgasm but ejaculate.
    if you’re before it, you can keep going.
    if you hit right on that line I sometimes partial ejaculate - a drop or two comes out, no orgasm. Can keep stimulating as long as stimulation does not stop there and in fact picks up after the drops (otherwise erection vanishes).

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