What would you do if you met a 26 year old virgin male like this?

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You meet a 26 year old who just recently graduated from an Ivy league school. They have a degree in computer engineering, smart, funny and creative.
 
However, when topic of sexual past comes up they reveal to you that they have never had sex, had a girlfriend, or even kissed a girl. (No they did not abstain for religious reason)

How would you react/judge them based on that?

Michonne551 · Accepted Answer

Personally I've always liked it. My ex boyfriend was 25 and exactly like that, he was in a good job as an engineer and had been to uni for 4 years, really successful. I think some girls find it sweet and like the thought that it would be so new to them, and that he'll always remember you as his first.

These days, though, I've realised that sometimes guys like that might feel years down the track like they missed out on getting to have more experiences, and may not be ready to commit very much. That's what happened to me by the time he was 29, sadly. And the same thing happened with a guy who was 22 and a virgin, so now I'm more likely to not take a chance, just because I'm getting older as well and looking for my last relationship. I guess it all depends on what you're looking for, and possibly younger women would see no issue at all with being your first.

overthinkingmind · Accepted Answer

I'd think that he's probably a shy guy. Since he's physically attractive, I wouldn't see other reasons to why he has never had a girlfriend. Or maybe it could be that he is waiting for the right one and still didn't found her.
The fact that he is a virgin doesn't matter at all. It would be more of a plus to most girls, actually.

Tellmemore96 · Accepted Answer

It would be like hitting a gold mine! Hot and super intelligent plus so well educated, no past experience is a plus in my opinion. I wouldn't have to deal with the insecurity of him having exes or being mentally compared to other girls when we are in bed!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Dude. Trust me, me and my mates are on the same boat as you. We literally get told every-time that we are good-looking , but at 26 we have never got intimate with a girl. (even with a simple kiss). Basically like , you can look but not touch.

It doesn't bother us to be honest. As long as you are proud of who you are, it should be fine. Other opinion should not matter. It's your life, you follow your conscious.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Sorry but the girls answers are making me laugh, it's cuz he's hawt obviously😂😂

TiredGirl123 · Answer

I would think he's lying and just saying that to try to get laid.

nfigure · Answer

I would ask him about his Harry Potter poster and why that was his favorite movie out of the series. xD

electrikrainb0w · Answer

As long as they are attractive... they are unlikely to meet issues.

Afro-dite9 · Answer

Well I'm in the same boat sooooo yeahhh😨 I wouldn't judge him cause I just don't judge people like that period. But if I ever met this dude I'd lock him away in my basement😍That way he is mine*Cardi B spin* FOREVERRRR😈☺ he could be restraining from sex for any legit reason, maybe he's shy I don't know or doesn't feel the need to give away his baby gravy to just anyone. *hunches shoulders* who am I to judge yolo.

DarkIndividual · Answer

That's fine. Virginity isn't everything. He sounds like a good catch. Being a virgin doesn't matter.

loves2learn · Answer

I’d be like what the hell? Are they blind? Any girl would be lucky to have you. You are a catch!  . If you are still around on gag I’d love an inspirational update.

menina · Answer

I would be surprised. And I would like to know why he's a virgin. Why he doesn't have or why he never had a girlfriend. I would be curious.
But I wouldn't judge him, since there's nothing wrong with that.

Mistnigqa808 · Answer

"How would you react/judge them based on that?" I wouldn't judge them since it isn't my dick that has been dry for that long BUT at the same time I'm going to wonder HOW IN THE FUCK IS THAT POSSIBLE? >_<

ashbert87 · Answer

Well it's not a bad thing in my opinion. It's a lot better than a man-whore.

somebodysaycheese · Answer

Even if it'd was for religious reasons so what? Honeslty, I think people who choose to remain virgins are very strong willed. It's a good thing, that I haven't practiced. But it's good

Smileyface93 · Answer

I'd be kinda surprised, but I wouldn't think any differently of him because of it. He's attractive and seems like a cool guy from the description.

thatboye · Answer

I wouldn't judge at all. I am one too, so who am I to judge come on now lol.

Sexualchrist · Answer

The first question that came to my mind would be why

Bigclit · Answer

I wouldn't judge him.. regardless of how he looks I'd be proud of him actually. Virgins are a rare species... nothing wrong with being a virgin.

Jessabella · Answer

I wouldn't judge but I'd ask if they were interested in doing those things now

Chaza23 · Answer

I'd have a lot questions..

pooper89 · Answer

I would think he was probably really awkward with girls.

Kuraj · Answer

I would think guy just be smart.

CougarBoss · Answer

Hot and smart. I will ask myself why he didn't have sex before

bcromartie · Answer

I'm 26. I do not care at this point. He just needs to bend over quietly and I will take the lead. Blindfolding him is optional but I hear it makes it easier.

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