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What would you do If you were in the middle of a passionate foreplay session and your partner suddenly stops and says they just are not in the mood?

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  • I can understand someone not being in the mood, but I have expectations too.

    I primarily expect if someone's not looking to drive the car, to not bother turning the ignition key.

    I would go find me someone else who's 'less confused' about what she wants.

  • Possibly time for a few gentle questions a bit later. Understanding and compassion are important parts of love.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I would stop. Doesn't matter if we had started. You can consent to something and change your mind. That means you stop in that case.

    • Would you be angry? sad? suspicious?

    • @exitseven I would most likely be worried. Like perhaps they didn't feel well all of a sudden. The reason I say that is if I were intimate with my SO and he stopped all of a sudden, it would be because something was the matter. Even if that meant he changed his mood and mind, I wouldn't be angry or upset, more worried what was bothering him (mentally or physically).

    • good answer 😀😀😀😀

  • other man

    • Do you usually keep a spare on hand just in case of emergencies. ?

    • ofcouse

    • That is awesome. Be Prepared. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Been there done that. Heck I was the one who did it before. We just move on and realize it isn't happening that night. It can be frustrating but it happens. No big deal.

  • I’d be worried. That’s very unlike him.

  • LOL you should have put a option F Remind them that you paid for it

  • That's cold AF. I'd do all the above and not quietly either. Unless there's a dam good reason, like she's dieing, I'm dieing, house is on fire, somebody is breaking in, kids or grandkids are coming in, yeah that's prob all the acceptable reasons maybe.

  • I’d need to know why... not giving up just yet!

  • 'Payback's a bitch!
    Once foreplayed a companion edging her repeatedly
    and then went to shower promising to 'finish' her when I came back;
    just to let HER know how much she aroused me, routinely!

    An 'education' to be used VERY sparingly, because I TOO can be replaced!

  • Other, I would be concerned as to why.

    discuss it, find out reasons, basically talk to each other as to why.

    it’s important to communicate before, during snd after sex.

  • I would say "ok, we'll do it next time"

  • With every grown man does breakdown start to cry LMAO

  • i would at least let him cum

  • It would be a little weird that they even let foreplay happen if they weren't in the mood but we'd probably just stop and do something else like snuggle and watch TV.

  • Oh hohohohommmgrgmmm 😡
    I’ll leave that relationship

  • I just stop...

    then I ask if she's alright, if things are alright...

    if she wants to talk about it, we do that... and if she doesn't well, we just cuddle up

    that stuff happens sometimes

  • I'd have to ask what happened at least a few times, then give up, head somewhere else in the house and take care of business, then go to bed.

    Don't grovel or beg, that's pathetic.

  • Look bitch… you wanted this and it’s happening so finish what you started…


    Sorry but you lose interest in the middle isn’t an option. I’ve lost interest many times and I’ve always seen to her before calling it I expect the same courtesy.

  • I’d stop. Ask if they want to talk about it. Seems odd to be in passionate foreplay and something changes so quickly.

  • I'd ask:
    "What just happened here?"
    "How did you just go from so worked up and excited to stopping cold?"
    "Something's up... spill it."

  • Accept that she's not in the mood. Go somewhere private and take care of myself. Just don't make a big deal out of it.

  • Stop. Talk about it. Cuddle. Go to sleep (if at night).
    Have had this happen, it's not a big deal

  • Snuggle, and try again later.

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