I'd honestly not know how to respond... I guess I would move towards the idea of it being an affair for starters. Then checking in to see if they are still in the relationship together. To try to process the age thing would be another layer. I'm not exactly sure how to process or move forward with that... To simply understand their version of ethics...
I think at this point, is the act so disgusting and distasteful that, even just hearing that it's time to divorce or dump... Or is their faithfulness and loyalty to you, their love for you, enough to forgive them... I'm personally in a place where id need to start with the affair and if the affair is still happening and why did it happen. If they say I would rather be with them I'd her go, if she said, I honestly don't know what to do, I'm attacted to younger boys and I don't know how to stop, can you help me or I want both you and him because I still love you. It could be all across the board. I think it would depend on her response and view of the situation. Because as a best case scenario, she has stopped the affair, confessed it before God and our church, and has committed to never doing it again, with that type of a response, it could be worth taking them back but it's not an easy thing at all to consider it deal with, that's for sure
I'd cut ties with them.
Understanding
Isn’t that for the best? I’m not sure a dad wants to know much about his daughters sex life.
I disagree
The llaws just dont do enough. Criminals pay about 15 % of what they owe.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I would feel that I had been horribly disrespected.
If I understand the question right. My daughter would be 20 or so when I found out she was getting her grind on at 15. And my wife kept it a secret. I would be pissed, when I found out. Then calm down and recognize that it was a smart choice. Depending on the guy she was with and several factors. He may not want to bump into me out somewhere.
Go and literally kill the guy who was having sex with my daughter, I'd be extremely pissed and feel like I failed in parenting.
Your wife would fail
how would she be the failure?
Because she allowed it and kept it a secret
The question is not clear. Is the daughter having sex with her own friend or is she having sex with the wife/girlfriend's friend? If the daughter is having sex with someone close to her own age, it shouldn't be a big issue as long as it is consentual.
I would assume that they kept it a secret to protect her and figured that you would probably go ballistic at the time. Besides, at 15 most kids are trying to have sex anyway.
What were you doing at 15?
Would you go ballistic?
I don't know if I would do anything, but I would be angry and feel somewhat betrayed.
I would realize that my partner doesn't trust me. Presumably they didn't tell me because they feared that my reaction would be inappropriate. This should be a signal that I need to be less rigid and more understanding.
It may lead to divorce.
Damn understandable
I would do nothing
You should, this is a serious matter
Unless she'd lied to me about it when I specifically asked, I'd be fine with it. It's none of my business.
You're her father it is
Not if she's happy, that's what's important.
I'd be mad at my wife for not being honest. #1 I'd feel like she was protecting some other man and disregarding me so that would eat me up and then I'd have to ask myself what else she's hiding about our daughter? #2 I'd wanna know what secrets my daughter has on her.
I'd be livid not only that I'd feel horribly disrespected and I wouldn't be able to trust her. How could I after that? And I'd be wondering what other secrets she keeping about my daughter or what other things she's hid from me.
A marriage is a partnership your supposed to be a team a good partner wouldn't stab you in the back like that and lie to you.
Also the legal age of consent is not 15 and even if it was no person that young needs to be having sex that's way to young that's barely even a teenager they're still a kid.
And I'm talking as someone who has had to deal with 2 pregnancy scares, on top of dealing with issues with drugs and alcohol because of young people being dumbasses thinking they they're adults.
Why lie to me for 5 years
Fuck what the lie was
You lied to me for this fucking long
I would be hurt
thats simple, first i would tell the partner first thing is we are a couple we dont keep things from each other tgen ask your partner why they did then give your partner a warning if you keep hiding thinks from me is going to make me think what else are tou hiding you must have trust in your partner if you cantbtrust your partner it's never going to work
That's messed up
Be pissed off with the wife
By "her friend" do you mean she was having sex with another girl friend, or with a guy friend? And were they the same age?
Divorce
I would be upset at my daughter.
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