Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health What would you think of a virgin using dildos?
Anonymous
Im a virgin in my 20s and Im considering getting a dildo/penetrative vibrator because I can't find anyone in my life at the moment (and so far haven't). What do you think of that, should I do it? What would a potential future partner think of this? It's technically not sex with a person. (also I'm not the type who's waiting for marriage)
1 2
What Girls & Guys Said
10 49Oh just cam and you can find guys drooling over you
Its good for starters. Depends on the guy who finds out.
Many virgins use dildo etc, so I think it is normal. As regards thinking of your would-be partner, she must realize it. If you find comfortable talking to him, tell him you are still virgin, except using dildo to beat body heat.
First off, if you're not waiting for marriage, then it doesn't matter at all. Your body, you can please it in any way you want. If your future partner sees it differently, they ain't right for you
I think its normal, nothing wrong. Its natural to have the desire and you can experiment always 🙂
I think Its fine. :)
Better than experiencing premature ejaculation, Unwanted pregnancy, std`s, and the disappointment of perhaps never experiencing a real orgasm, so all in all a lot more pro`s there are con`s as there is to all such things! my personal experience when your good with the rod all toys are put away.
Why not it's a lot better way than getting involved with a guy just for sex. Plus losing your virginity in the process...
if you want to, do it !
Its your body a buy what you like an it will help you find what you like an teach you what you dont an if a guy has a problem with it he bd a fool most guys like girls who havd these so no problems
I don't think it should matter
That is very sexy, doing a virgin girl would be even sexier!
it seems fine to me
Do it but get a really good one and enjoy it/ yourself. I would say it is kinda a must for a girl to be my girlfriend to have pleasured herself at least once and toys are a perfect tool for that!
Do it
Sounds fun!
Yup, it's not sex. BUT, you doesn't lose your virginity ONLY by sexual intercourse. You lose it by ANY penetration at all. The means: by a dildo, a finger, a banana, a cucumber, a bottle, etc
How can't you find a man to fuck you? It's the most easiest thing in the world for girls. Just download Tinder. And pick the most attractive guy and enjoy.
Do what pleases you
I think it’s natural and important too look after yourself and your own needs it won’t make you any less of a person