You mean being submissive and being abused? The way i see those different is that the submissive is doing it because they like it and both parts know it's about mutual fun and exploring, while abuse is a shitty thing shitty people do that can't express themselves.
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simplelikemeXper 7
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The difference is Between Love and Hate. Do you love that person when you abused them? Or do you hate them and are just using them as you appease them? LOL
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DomTreddoXper 5
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Being abused is when you like to receive pain. Dominant is when you're forcing someone to their will.
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DanaeAdam5
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Um u mean the opposite right?
DomTreddo
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No I don't. Or unless I'm interpreting the question wrong.
DanaeAdam5
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Oh ok
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DomTreddo
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Do you want me to prove my point?
DanaeAdam5
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If you want/can then yes...
DomTreddo
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I'll pm you
Lunatic1Explorer
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The difference between being dominated and being abused is whether or not you enjoy it. There is a gray area of those who like being dominated may not like being dominated in certain ways, but that isn't abuse. You just need to inform your partner what you don't like.
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CubaPirateMaster
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Absolute trust and consent
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wannabe_cuckold_23Xper 5
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I think as long as both people are into it and have set limits that are not crossed then that's OK they both have to agree on what to do and not to do and know when to stop if necessary
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JaycroweXper 4
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Being dominated is me fucking u, flipping u, bending u, telling u how to lay n how to do it? Dats me I like to fuk n can switch flip turn upside down 69 all of tha above
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ajaykinkyXper 2
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Only few concepts differ dominance from abuse... That's is consent and respect...
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RomeocuckXper 6
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being dominated is being told when how where to do things which eventually suppose to be for your benefit if your Dom is a true caring Dom. being abused as appose of being dominated is making you do things even things that will hurt you physically and emotionally not for your sake but only to please the whim of the sadist who calls himself Dom
I suggest you watch this 6 episode in youtube the get a bit better understanding
Being dominated is something you willingly participate in. The things that are done to you when you're dominated are for your pleasure and are things you're enjoying rather than done against your will or to inflict pain.
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Anonymous
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Well if you slap someone and this person clearly doesn't want you to do so, it's abusive. If the person begs you to do so, not so much. One of my ex was into a lot of crazy things, I wasn't "abusing" him. He enjoyed all of these shits...
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5 34You mean being submissive and being abused?
The way i see those different is that the submissive is doing it because they like it and both parts know it's about mutual fun and exploring, while abuse is a shitty thing shitty people do that can't express themselves.
The difference is Between Love and Hate. Do you love that person when you abused them? Or do you hate them and are just using them as you appease them? LOL
Being abused is when you like to receive pain. Dominant is when you're forcing someone to their will.
Um u mean the opposite right?
No I don't. Or unless I'm interpreting the question wrong.
Oh ok
Do you want me to prove my point?
If you want/can then yes...
I'll pm you
The difference between being dominated and being abused is whether or not you enjoy it. There is a gray area of those who like being dominated may not like being dominated in certain ways, but that isn't abuse. You just need to inform your partner what you don't like.
Absolute trust and consent
I think as long as both people are into it and have set limits that are not crossed then that's OK they both have to agree on what to do and not to do and know when to stop if necessary
Being dominated is me fucking u, flipping u, bending u, telling u how to lay n how to do it? Dats me I like to fuk n can switch flip turn upside down 69 all of tha above
Only few concepts differ dominance from abuse... That's is consent and respect...
being dominated is being told when how where to do things which eventually suppose to be for your benefit if your Dom is a true caring Dom. being abused as appose of being dominated is making you do things even things that will hurt you physically and emotionally not for your sake but only to please the whim of the sadist who calls himself Dom
https://www.youtube.com/embed/jWrN7ldL15YI suggest you watch this 6 episode in youtube the get a bit better understanding
Consent is the only real difference.
I love abusing girls
Being dominated is something you willingly participate in. The things that are done to you when you're dominated are for your pleasure and are things you're enjoying rather than done against your will or to inflict pain.
Well if you slap someone and this person clearly doesn't want you to do so, it's abusive.
If the person begs you to do so, not so much.
One of my ex was into a lot of crazy things, I wasn't "abusing" him. He enjoyed all of these shits...
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depends how much older he is. 75 year old Mick Jagger is dating 31 year old ballet dancer, is she too old for him?