When a guy gets really tired is it really hard for him to get hard? Is it normal that my boyfriend was soft today is he losing attraction?

[Anonymous]

Just worried because my boyfriend is always hard around me and for the first time when we were about to say good bye he was soft which has never happened before but he said that he was actually turned on a few times today around me. It’s weird though because this guy has always been hard lol

[wondering_guy]

He went soft when you were saying goodbye? Where were you going?

Guys get soft if they are tired, never assume guys get soft because they are losing attraction

[Asker]

But he’s always tired

[Asker]

Could it be because we didn’t spend a lot of time cuddled up next to each other like the other times? Today was the first day we worked on college stuff together

[wondering_guy]

You can't always expect him to rise to the occation, if he got hard all the other times then count yourself lucky, he prob just had an off moment, I'm sure there were times he was in the mood and you wernt

[RemoErdosain]

I agree with this. The poor guy has so much pressure on him. How hard someone gets isn't a good indicator of how attracted they are

[djmzes]

Simple

[AustinMan]

Fatigue kills libido.

[Alexandrubaschet08]

Yes, when a man is thired or stressed by something it can afect the erection.
In the time i finish the univerity for one month i whasn't able to cum for my girlfriend and olso very dificul even whit my hand

[mich15smith]

yea it is

[AmeerX]

Are you like holding his in your hand to check everytime?

[Asker]

I just touched it last night out of curiosity

[AmeerX]

You have to give him that feel

[Wise4myage]

Yes, being really tired could definitely cause that to happen.

[Jamie05rhs]

Stop staring at his crotch. Lol. Contain thyself, woman.

[pizzalovershouse]

Yes being tired can do that just kike if s girl is tired she diesnt usely want to think about sex

[Twalli]

It's possible. I get hard around my girlfriend, but I am not hard 24/7 with her. No guy can be hard 24/7 with someone else.

[allaboutyou2]

I'm 51 and never in my life have I been too tired to get hard. For a while in worked 2 full time jobs and still was never that tired. I do know stress can mess with a guy though.

[Sreenivasa_1998]

Yeah its very Hard When we really Tired
But actually i Get tired after 2 to 3 times Cum

[Valnac]

I never had that problem!
Was he seeing somebody other than you?

[Asker]

This is why I can’t ask anything online

[msc545]

Its harder to get hard when you are tired.

[Tstrbrainer]

Yeah we become soft if we are tired

[Younghungguy17]

Yeah fatigue and influence guys abilities to get hard

[dominantdaddydominic]

When I want someone I get hard so fast. You can message me what's going on if you want.

[JohnTheGoodMan]

When a guy is very tired, he won't get boner easily.