Fucking is a physical act. It is about attraction, arousal, and orgasm. Conscientious sexual partners will still show concern and understanding toward each other, so fucking is not to be taken as meaning either vulgar or selfish behavior. Fucking is just only physical, that is all that it is.
The man you have been having sex with wants something more from you than merely fucking. He is reluctant to move to quickly or to make to radical a change lest it not be reciprocated. He fears the result of one of you left feeling awkward and the other alone.
He is not diving right in and saying:
"I love you." or
"I want you to be my girlfriend." or
"I want a serious relationship with you."
Instead he is changing the character of your sexual relationship to one that is more appropriate to a lover than a fuck buddy.
He wants you, all of you, not just your body and more than your friendship. He wants everything you have to give. He is just afraid to come out and ask you directly.3 0 0 0Thanks for the MHO.
Wow yea I was a little shocked when he said that because making love definitely implies deep feelings and its made me an idiot all day long smiling. But I definetly dont have the courage to say it first... last week he was telling me how much he wants to be there for me and cares for me and whats to help me open up and be less scared and worried about things and to let go. I told him I was guarded with my emotions and he asked me to try and open up with him... Asked me why I was so afraid to open up and I said because people leave and hurt me and he told me that was life but he wasn't going anywhere because true friends deal with your drama and accept you for you. I honestly didn't know what to say back other than 'thank you'. We have a long messy history but we always find our way back to each other.
It's fine that you don't have the courage to go first. You just need to let him know that when he summons the courage to make the leap, he will be well received. I'm sure you were a quite lovely idiot what with all the smiling. Good luck to the both of you.
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i think you should see that as something good and try to open up to him
0 0 0 0Why don't you try asking him about what he meant by that?
0 0 0 0def too afraid to ask.. he mentioned wanting to look into my eyes while he entered me... but we already do look each other in the eyes and it usually feels like more than just sex but well... making love seems like wayyyy more and much more serious of a thing. I kind of took it as an attempt to become even closer to each other than we already are.
Yeah it seems like he may have feeling for you but is probably too scared to say anything.
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3 2I think its a way of saying he enjoys beeing intimate with you
0 0 0 0it's the same thing basically
"make love" is more politically correct simply0 0 1 0Romanticized bullshit that people love.
0 0 1 0marry the shit out of him
2 1 0 0I think make love sounds more mature and "responsible" than fuck.
0 0 0 0Fuck has its place. Even in marriage. Even in middle age. I make love to my wife. I also occasionally fuck her. She needs both and so do I. Sometimes we need to feel close and connected. Other times she needs to feel raw attraction and desire for each other. Different feeling meeting different needs requiring different actions. Moreover, in modern usage, making love is not limited to intercourse. Neither does it necessitate orgasm for either partner. An afternoon of foreplay is more than enough to rise to the level of making love. If you doubt any of what I'm saying, just ask @GraySailorsBride
Happy for you
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