Why are you asking this at age 36? Your life experience should be able to answer something as simple as this for you, personally I can see that you are not mature enough to have kids, therefore I would have to ask you to not get any semen inside you, not even take the chance with birth control or condoms, I would even go as far as to say that you should probably not even have sex. If you bare a child, just by looking at this question, I would say that, that child will probably not have a good life or turn out a criminal,
Not judging or assuming but it takes so much common sense to raise a child properly, just to keep them safe or out of danger you need quite a lot of savvy. and you don't seem to have any. With all due respect, you might bring yourself so much heartache and judgement from other people if you cause your child's death by irresponsibility or being naive as you sound.
No don't do it.0 0 0 0If you're ready to have kids with him, than go for it. Or, if you're on birth control and you know for a fact that he's "clean", than why not? The birth control they have nowadays is very effective. Also, if you know your cycle and are also on birth control, than you have like 1% of a chance of getting pregnant from a one-time deal. But, I've heard of girls getting pregnant even on birth control and the guy had a condom. It's all magic to me... But, if you are ready and able to accept the consequences if you get an oopsy baby or an STD out of the deal, than have at it.
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It's fine as long you're on the pill and you're both clean.
0 1 0 0Pill doesn't always work. I always make them use condoms.
If it's taken correctly, then it should be ok. I've just been on the pill with my boyfriend for the last 9 months and we haven't had any problems so far lol.
Ok. I'm just saying, I know a girl who forgot to take her pill for a couple days and ended up pregnant (not me, thank God).
I would hope the answer to this would be obvious at age 36.
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3 19If you're on birth control and you're sure that neither of you has any STDs then yes, go for it. If either of those things aren't the case then probably not a good idea. I'm sure you know that as well as anyone.
If you're asking "Should I take a blind risk?" then that's not a question for anyone else to answer. You're the one who faces the consequences.0 0 0 0Nobody likes condoms. However, even on the pill, there's still enough of a chance of getting pregnant that if you're not ready, it's not worth it. Plus, you can't know for sure that you are both clean. Even tested, which doesn't cover every possibility, that can change with one "mistake" (e. g., drunken one-night stand with someone else that he doesn't tell you about.)
If you're willing to risk that, then finishing inside feels best (though, well-time oral finishing is pretty good, too.)0 0 0 0I've been with my wife 14yrs and have one child. She stopped taking birth control for 2weeks and she was pregnant. That was 12 years ago been on it ever since.
If you are in a committed relationship and are on another form of birth control go for it.
0 0 0 0It depends if you're on birth control and if you're confident that he doesn't have any STDs. Be smart. Maybe suggest that both of you get tested for STDs.
0 0 0 0Depends upon if you are in safe period, or if you want a baby, ornyou already have taken care of birth control etc.
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