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When I was 14 I was a babysitter and crushed on an 8 year old and let him touch me, is that wrong?

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  • Yes. That would be considered child on child sexual abuse. Because you are both minors I dont anything criminal would come from it. You were so young you werent even old enough to consent to have sex in most states. So most likely it is a situation where you wouldn't be allowed in the home to baby sit. YOu would be consider the abuser.

    Would you be on a sex offender registry? I don't it. As I stated before. If this was found out it would be considered a situation of two minor children having sexual activity. In most states at the age of 14 years old you wouldn't even be old enough to be charged as an adult.

    If you still are in contact with the guy I would recommend you apologize to him. Most likely, if I was 8 years old I would forgive you because we like sex. But make it clear you are sorry. Or just leave it alone.

    Other than that I wouldn't tell anyone about it. I would try to be the best adult as possible and to make sure that you dont harm kids as an adult.

  • Yes but let it go and don't do anything like that again.

Most Helpful Girls

  • um yea, you basically kinda abused them plus if you did have a crush on them, it means your attracted to kids and you likely still are.
    now i know that sucks okay, you didn't choose that but honestly think really hard about this kinda shit and whatever you do, don't go touching any kids, and if you can avoid it do'nt crush on them. IT'S WRONG. VERY VERY WRONG.
    I mean if your asking if it's wrong on or not, you obviously are a danger and don't have a grasp about how shit this can be for a kid. read about survivor stories and how having sex with kids impacts kid. try to find non offending pedos to be with and talk with. th
    I've know kids who were abused, it's awful. don't ever fucking do it

    • She was a child. If they were both adults today it would be like a 26 year old woman having a crush on a 20 year old. The difference is not significant in age. but it is wrong. it is just two children though.

    • @Apope16 14 yo isn't exactly a child but yea. I mean yes she was a teen and at 14 yo do weird shit but she should have known better

    • Thats true. She should have known better. The brain doesn't fully develop until like 26 years old for men and like 22 for women. Teen girls are always making bad sexually decision whether its is guys their age or younger guys. There a lot of raging hormones with opportunity and a horny 8 your kid giving you a hug with an erection when no parents are in the home. It is totally wrong but these are kids who can't balance what they know is right from lust. And guys what? Most adults can't even resist lust. Yet we consider some 14 year old girl who probably his puberty and started growing boobs early to resist? I think a lot of people answering here my know that the average age of losing virginity in American is 14 years of age. That means 14 year olds are having sex with each other or older 17 year old guys from college etc. I think what makes it taboo is that the boy is 8 years old. and its horrible that she was a baby sitter and he was supposed to trust her. But if she had sex with a 14 year old boy it still would be bad.

  • He touched you because he was curious, and I think it was okay. It doesn't mean anything and you didn't touch him.

    Confession time, I did the same thing when I babysat a kid one time. He was 9 years old and he asked me what boobs felt like. I let him touch them. And that's all that happened. Where did he touch you?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • kids will be kids

  • I'm sorry that you're still feeling guilt about this after so many years. As long as you haven't done anything like that after becoming an adult, you have moved past the mistakes that you made with this situation during childhood.

  • You didn't touch him. You let him touch you and explore you. He learned. It's normal. Where did he touch you?

  • All I can say is that, that kid probably didn't think anything about it, I would say any 8 year old is still drooling over a new toy or what's for dinner that night

  • Very wrong, but as long as it didn't go much further, and you can look back and recognize that what you did was a bit messed up, then I wouldn't worry about it too much.

  • Yes it was wrong... it is also odd for a 15 year old to be attracted to a 8 year old

  • Yes. Very wrong.

  • Yes that was wrong he was very young. If someone heard this they would say you forced him to have sex.

  • both of you are under 18 so you 2 can olso have some fun :)

    • lol a 17 yo with a 8 year would that be okay too lmao

    • @xANGEx is the last change for guy 17, is the girl really want

    • i hope your from a third world country cos omfg

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  • Aww... It's okay sweetie... You let him touch you..
    You didn't touch him, inappropriately.. And at that age curiosity and exploration is a thing..

  • Unpopular opinion:
    It was good.

    • Omg what

  • obviously that is wrong... imagine a guy saying that. the fbi would raid his place.

    • i mean i think we all did some messed up sexual stuff when we were minors, without necessarily knowing, it was sexual. that stuff is probably best kept to yourself.

  • No. It's not. You were young. When I was 14, my 16 year old cousin let me to touch her boobs

    • Why r girls thumbs upping this? 14 / 16 is not 8 / 14 this kid was prepubescent its not right

    • 14 is early teenage. They might unintentionally indulge in sexual activities.

  • It's a bit late to worry about it...

  • No not really.

  • I believe that is wrong

  • Yes, because you were hormonal and he wasn't.

  • Its a little wrong but totally normal for children to play and experiment with each other.
    Please don't worry about it, it happened a long time ago

  • My guess is that the person that you were watching as a babysitter was genuinely exploring differences between males and females nothing more nothing less in essence YOU personally have Absolutely No reason to feel guilty Period it's just kids being kids. NO WORRIES!

  • Of course, it could be considered assault. How far things went?

    • He just touched me on my ass and boobs and saw me naked but i never touched him or forced him to do anything. It just happened once we got close.

    • But what turned you on about a 8 year old kid

    • At the time I wasn’t thinking of the gap. I wasn’t thinking of the age of how young he was. It was how he treated me and at 14 of course as a teen girl I also had hormones and I just wanted a “boy” to like me. I wasn’t being picky about who. I just was seeking someone and we became close friends and liked each other.

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