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Sexual Health When in a relationship, how long does it take for you to start having unprotected sex?
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Is it like a month, couple of dates, or whenever you're ready?
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52 61Took two years.
Not unless we were actively trying to get pregnant. I’m not taking any chances.
As soon as possible.
really, why so and not wait a couple of weeks or months?
I like it better without protection. Just my preference. I will only have sex with someone I'm with exclusively and comfortable with.
oh, okay, I was just wondering because I actually never had sex but want to badly.
This is the problem that most couples must endeavour to reach Making love has been infected by the pressure of sex To much emphasis on how long before instigating Base 1 reaching Base 2 etc Why has it become like this My opinion is everything in a relationship should be natural No time estimating Love will conquer all including guidance on all aspects
It's different for everyone and whenever both people in the relationship are comfortable, then they can have unprotected sex. There's no specific time when a couple should start
Depends what you mean by unprotected. I've never had sex without birth control but I have been unprotected from STDs. I only go without a condom when I'm sure a guy is STD free.
By unprotected I mean no condoms but yes to birth control.
Some of these responses make me really woke about how diseases gets spread, it only takes one slip up and some people are making it a practice.
The first couple dates
hot.
When she consents.
Any other time is illegal, wouldn't you say?
Define unprotected. Do you mean using any form of birth control or using condoms specifically? I admit that the first time I had sex with my boyfriend, we did not use condoms. It was spontaneous and very heat of the moment so I didn’t think about it but I was on birth control. We still don’t use them (condoms) because he doesn’t like them and I know he doesn’t have any STDs but I now have an IUD to avoid pregnancy so by my definition we are having safe sex
It took me about 6 months
Protect yourself before you infect yourself.
Few dates... first date for the right person
That's pretty hot
Depends. But I’ll have to trust you, you’ll have to get tested, you’ll agree to my rules before anything happens. But when we decide to go at it, we go au natural
After the engagement ring has been given and a date has been set.
Couple months
when you want kid
Like... never. : D
I usually dont even if im not in relationship.
I dont sleep with dirty dudes. And I've never had an std. So i see no point
Well it depends. I dont want kids and I'm not going to take birth control because I react badly to it. I'll talk to my partner first. With my current relationship he had a vasectomy so we talked about it and stopped using protection pretty quickly.
Not all vasectomies work so it still is a good idea to play it safe for awhile. If you truly don't want any kids get a hysterectomy and remove all doubt and periods.
@Daniela1982 not necessary but thanks. We already have our situatuion sorted out. That's why I commented that