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Sexual Health When is it okay to send nudes?
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How long should someone wait to send their significant other nudes?
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56 127Never. Unless it's your husband or common law and no one's leaving
Once those pics are sent
They're there forever... your nudes are all over the internet waiting... 2 years? 5? 12? To come back and haunt you.
I'd never send any. Ever
Never
As a general rule only send nudes that ultimately worst case scenario you are okay with becoming public some day. Don't send anything you'd be ashamed of.
As for when to send them it's really more case by case. You have to determine for yourself who you can trust and be honest with yourself when you see red flags. Don't let you liking them lead you to ignoring the signs.
For someone like me, day one is safe. But I wouldn't recommend that with most guys.
Why do I feel like this belongs on r/niceguys
Generally it's OK once you're fine with the pictures ending up being sent to your boss/parents/new SO in the event you break up less than amicably.
It various on couple and beliefs.
When you are comfortable
I'd say after a few months of dating just to be sure, but even still I'm not letting my nudes end up on the internet so if my man wants some he can come look or get an envelope with some polaroids.
That is up to the couple
Make sure you know who they are and always remember they can share them nudes so you got know who your dating and just be careful that them nudes don't get into hands of someone underage
When you feel like sending them but don't ever show your face.
Until they're in the bedroom with you.
I probably done hit it after 1-2 times of hanging out and nudes are not a priority.
Don’t send nudes. We’re made for bonding with each other not with pixels on a screen
when they have verified the number they are sending it to, and they are sure they fully trust that person and they send me a copy to review prior to sending to anyone else. Im just looking out for ya. kidding. just be sure you trust the person so it dont come back at ya later. but ill always take nudes!
I absolutely never send nudes. I'll send sexy pictures where I'm wearing lingerie or where I am naked but I have blankets or pillow strategically-placed. I feel that that is more of a tease then sending nudes. Plus whoever I send them to doesn't have pictures of me naked and can't send them to anybody else. I mean me and lingerie? Okay fine I don't care me naked that would embarrass me.
Even if you’re wearing lingerie he’ll send them around if he’s an asshole
@Erik-7 yeah but there is a difference. Even the lingerie I wear doesn't show everything. So its a tease and shows more skin then normal but it doesn't actually show any of the important bits.
That is honestly up to you and your partner.
When you're fine with those nods to either purposely or accidentally leak onto public.
If you or her has a problem with those nudes leaking out, just dont send them.
Cuz sooner or later they WILL end up in public. One way or another.
I've taken and received dozens of nudes of the years, and never once has a single one ended up in public circulation. Just don't send them to people you don't trust.
@Torari it's just a matter of time. Like i said sooner or "later". You can never tell what will happen tomorrow.
By the time later comes along, I'll be unrecognizable
@Torari Okay man. Keep sending "your" nudes them all over the internet. Looks like you can see the future and know everything. -sigh-
Sorry, I'm not paranoid. Carry on.
@Torari well you would if you knew how that image that you "send" from A to B gets transported from her device to your device. “Confidence is ignorance. If you're feeling cocky, it's because there's something you don't know.” - Eoin Colfer, Artemis Fowl
However long it takes for u guys to be in a loving, trusting, committed relationship. U have to be able to trust them with the nudes. bso however long it takes to build that trust
You should wait until you're okay with his friends and everybody on the web to see your naked pictures. No matter how much he loves you or you feel you can trust him there's always that chance that he looses his phone or it gets hacked or you guys break up and you wind up on pornhub. Which now a day's isn't that big of a deal so if you're cool with that one in a million chance your pictures get out like that then go for it. Those odds happen more than you might think
whenever it feels right and both parties agree on this.
I hope you never get blackmailed