When it comes to intimacy. Do you like your partner to tell you what they like and dislike so that you can in approve The experience for next time?

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  • Yes, hard and soft limits have to be laid out unless it's just going to be a one night stand. Then it's just some pumping and a goodbye.

    Otherwise you figure out what's desired, what is off limits, what can be explored, both ways, and you go with it, observing, getting lost a little, seeing where things go. Then more so talking after about what could be better.

    It's better than keeping it all in your head while not being satisfied. Crappy blowjobs and choking that's unwelcome, so on and so forth.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I'd rather they tell me, but from my experience, people don't communicate as much as they you'd think. I dated one girls that went with the flow. and always wanted to leave decisions up to me. I'm not the best at decision-making.
    If there is something that the girl doesn't like or doesn't want to do, I'd rather she tell me instead of just going along with it. It just causes confusion in the end because actions speak louder than words, so it's not hard to comprehend when she's miserable because she's doing something she doesn't want to do.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Although we both believe in communication, thankfully both my husband and I know precisely what each other's likes and dislikes are.

    • Thank you for the MHO.

  • don't have to they know by the sounds I make, or how I move my body

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  • Yes! I love it when she talks dirty. LOL And I want her to get exactly what she needs when she needs it. "Fuck me harder!" "Right there!" "Yes!" Don't stop!" "Slow down." "Ouch." "Slap my ass." "Pull my hair." Whatever she wants, because when she cums it's my biggest turn on.

  • Absolutely. I can probably tell if they like what I'm doing, but there is no other way to know if they want something I'm not doing

  • why wait for the next time though...

  • Absolutely. If you don't say what you want how can you expect to get it? Lucky guess? I don't want to sleep with anyone that immature.

  • Yes, nothing wrong with it , we can’t read each other’s minds so if there is something she wants me to do to her that I am not doing for her, I would definitely want to know so I can please her , her getting off gets me off

  • I prefer the exploration and mystery to an interview.

  • yeppers.
    If you don't talk to your partner about it all they can do is guess, and they are probably wrong when they guess.
    I would rather my partner get what they like and enjoy.
    The way I figure it the better sex is for them the more often they will like/want to have sex with you.
    A win win.

  • It would certainly help.
    The key to a good relationship, in amd out of bed, is communication and compromise.

  • I'd appreciate any guidance... but I'd rather she tell me NOW so she can experience all the pleasure possible NOW and not have to wait. Plus, we only have to wait for ME to recharge. I could keep going on her anytime.

    No waiting

  • Absolutely!

  • I do instructions during sex... lol... give as well as recieve... lol

  • That's only the most logical thing to do. Come work with us ladies help us make the experience more pleasurable for you. We can't read minds.

  • Yes. Communication is key in a relationship.

  • Yes, it makes it easy then trying to guess and hope and supports open communication

  • Absolutely. I get pleasure from knowing that my wife is getting pleasure from me. There is not a thing wrong with that. Some women may feel shy to tell their partner what they like or dislike. I advise couples young or old to take the time out to learn about each other bodies. Fellas, figure out her spots and pay attention to her moans. Vice versa for women.

  • Conversation is key to best and pleasurable sex. And it is good if we tell our partners like and dislike.

  • Yeah, I like when girls tell me what to do. I’m down for anything so no worries on being direct.

  • Yes. That way I don't do something they don't like.

  • Yes. Sex is about pleasure with me. If you aren't enjoying it then there needs to be changes.

  • Oh yes that is always a good thing.
    God Bless

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