Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health When my boyfriend and I have sex I never cum. Help me?
nicoleissexluver Xper 4
When my boyfriend and I have sex he always has an orgasm and cums and I never do. By the time he is done he tells me he is too tired to keep going. I get nothing out of the sex we have and he doesn't even care. How do I tell him that he is not pleasing me when we do it?
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he also tells his friends he gives it to mean so good.
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14 33i was gonna answer and then I saw how old the Q is haha...
and it says you're single now.
Just when he is about to reach there, twist his balls so tight that his eyes pop out. If he says why, tell him you wanted to make sure he does not get there before you.
ive got an idea that might help you, instead of telling him, tell one of your best (girl) friends to hell him that he's not making you come and say to her to tell him but tell her not to say to him you told her to tell him, ask her to put it in a conversation alone and ask her to give him some advice to suprise you with to help you each climax and have her say if he can't get you to come then prepare for a lot of less sex in the future or no sex.
that way you haven't told him and he think he can suprise you with it and try harder.
Sounds complicated. Just tell the guy. The sex is between the guy and the girl. Why involve someone else in this situation? If someone can't be open now, how is that good for the relationship later?
Good point
...I'm sorry, but the irony in the gender views of this little exchange is just hilarious.
Get a new boyfriend
i think I got best anwser ^^
TRY THE "69" POSITION OR MAKE HIM EAT YOU EAT OR MAYBE HE'S TOO SMALL TO SATISIFY YOU
I try not to finish first, but it does happen sometimes. There are always options and a woman should never be left unsatisfied! Any of the following will do the trick, it just depends on what she wants and the particular situation. I find a combination works best for giving her a multiple release.
1.) Oral sex (my favorite)
2.) Fingering
3.) Vibrators
4.) Back rub (helps me get hard quicker for a longer lasting replay)
Good luck!
Well what you have to do is grab his head and drive it onto your p**** and just grind his face in after that make him stick out his tongue and spell the alphabet then grab his hand and get two fingers to slide in and out , in and out, in and out then all around tell him to suck your clit and flick it around keep doing these thing at a faster motion until you come on him. If he doesn't do anything he's a selfish asshole and you should leave him.
He needs to make sure you orgasm multiple times 1st!
I went through the same thing with the first boy I had sex with. Maybe he's not just being selfish though , maybe he might not know how to get you off and is ashamed or shy about it . What about a joint effort? When me and my current boyfriend have sex or he fingers me, I rub my clit so I get off and it's not too much work in his part as I am the first girl he has slept with so we both use sex as a way for him to learn more about my body and what gets me off. When we first started having sex I told him straight out that I couldn't orgasm over penetration alone, so when we have sex he always cums and through his penetration and me rubbing my own clit so do I and it makes us both feel good knowing we are both satisfied. You should try it with your lad cos he might just need a push in the right direction.
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I'm not experienced but try different positions every few minutes. Or just ask him to go down on you more often, make him do some work! Does he do foreplay enough? Extensive foreplay to you is probably a good idea then just grab him and begin sex when you're close to cumming.
Maybe if when you're doing a position where you're kind of in control slow it down and kiss him while you're doing it neck, lips and chest. Show him it's more than just getting your rock off and that you're doing it because you love him or care about him and he might return the favour. I think sex should be full of lust and passion, both people should let out their feelings for each other when having sex. That's all I can say tho hope it works out for you!
ineed help on that too;im the exact same way you are,so iguess were on the same page here!:)
we should help each other out;b
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can I please you instead of him?
more foreplay
Seriously dude, just be happy you have a boyfriend & you have sex. I don't have either, & I'm so depressed about it. I'll never get a boyfriend or have sex, you are so much luckier than you relize.
you should let him know what's up.its pretty unfair that he gets all the pleasure and you get nothing...
you shoould never be left unsatisfied. press your body to his and whiper, pleasure me! I want you to make me orgasm, he'll get the idea,
please yourself? you have hands, start rubbing that clit while he's inside.
ride on top till you come first then give him head after
youd totally get a orgasm if you go on top =D your clit would be rubbing againist him too so you don't have to touch yourself lol
It's actually pretty rare that a woman cums from just sex alone. you need more stimulation, such as rubbing your clit or breasts.
just be honest with him. He'll understand (hopefully; if not he's not worth it) and change things. Make it a game... he has to beat his own record for making you come the quickest :)