When's the right time to have the talk about anal sex?

Whens the right time to have the talk about anal sex?
As soon as you meet.
Vote A
After you get engaged.
Vote B
Never.
Vote C
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Superb Opinion

  • With any relationship no matter the gender or sexuality, it’s important to have clear communication.

    Both should be able without judgement to discuss sex.

    @purplepoppy says, as soon as it heads towards a sexual relationship, then you discuss boundaries, limits, likes don’t likes, also importantly consent.

    just because on Tuesday your partner said yeah okay will try anal sex, the next weekend, does not mean they are still up for it.

    the other bit about anal, is actually knowing how to do it right and not just like happens in porn movies lol, doing it as in porn will instantly put your partner off for life.

Most Helpful Guy

  • If you haven't already had that talk, when you are doing 69, you can start fondling her butt and working closer to her butthole. She'll let you know if that's off limits.

Most Helpful Girl

  • As soon as you get sexual with someone you should make your dos and don'ts clear and that includes anal

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • When you start having sex.

  • @Funnygirl1500 how many days in were we? Like 2? 🤭😂

    • At the most. You're the reason I lost my anal virginity babe. ❤️

    • 😘😘😘😘

  • Anal sex is not natural and the best sex is natural. Used to have the appetite for it but I lost it when I read what real sex is all about in Romans1.

  • Right before you accidentally insert.

  • gross.

  • At dinner with her family is acceptable

  • Once you start having sex.

  • My girlfriend and I did about 6 months after having sex, both the talk and the sex.

  • In the bathroom stall an hour after you met her in the bar.

  • If it is a deal breaker, sooner is better. I actually don't need it, but I am weird.

  • I don't know most of my girlfriends have been cool with it I just ask them if they would like to do it and that’s probably after like a week of having sec

  • When your periods going to start

  • Once you are too much into sex

  • Just stick it in, I like surprises honey. 💋

    • "Just stick it in" and another girl will report you for sexual assault, turn around and punch you in the fact, try to cut off your member, or scream until you leave. How is a guy supposed to know that YOU want a surprise?

  • If it's a deal breaker for you if she's not into it, ask early on so you don't waste her time.

  • Between A and B.

  • Just after you cum in it.

  • Usually that's something you want to let her initiate. I never ask to do anal, it's got to be something she's into.

    • I'm into it.