When you are in a relationship, do you feel entitled to sex from your partner?

Yes, and I'm a man
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No, and I'm a man
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Yes, and I'm a woman
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No, and I'm a woman
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I am a non human, like a potato or a bunny
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There is a correct answer here, and if you said yes to feeling entitled to someone else's body, you're the problem in society.
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  • I wouldn’t say entitled, expected though maybe?

  • I’m afraid I did more when I was in a relationship. I didn’t really think about it honestly but I was always just pushing her to try it and hoping I would turn her on. I know she thought I thought I was entitled.

  • Nope.

  • No but you sure as hell expect it because it's part of the relationship. Now how much you have sex is between the two of you so please have that conversation.

  • Most of the answers to this seem to assume that “entitled to sex” means that you can demand it at any moment. That’s certainly unrealistic —and wanting that is insensitive. However, if you consider yourself my “partner’… Then, yes, I believe I am entitled to sex. Not sex whenever I want it. Not sex however I want it. But that has to be a thing that I can ask for that you don’t think it’s an unreasonable demands andthen, yes, I believe I am entitled to sex. Not sex whenever I want it. Not sex however I want it. But that has to be a thing that I can ask for that you don’t I think is an unreasonable demand and that we expect to be doing with each other.

    • I have no idea why that rendered with repeated italics. Sorry.

    • I just saw your update. I believe that society is based around the family and the family around marriage. If you believe that marriage is an institution in which no one is entitled to ask for sex…you might be… Well, I will leave it at that. The idea that a married man or woman has no more expectation of sex with their partner than they do with any other person around them entirely breaks the idea of marriage.

  • It's assumed that there will be sex, at least at some point, but I don't feel entitled to it. It really depends on how the relationship develops and grows. It should be a mutual feeling and understanding, not a matter of being entitled to it

  • I don't feel entitled to anything in life and that goes for sex. Sex is a bonus feature not a privilege. Her attention and love should be enough.

  • Entitled? No, but if she regularly refused she wouldn't be my partner.

  • Only when it is agreed upon.

  • Not entitled but definitely need to feel appreciated and respected and not one sided

  • Every letter in the word entitled has a tripwire connected to explosives. I'll pass thanks.

  • It’s no different than any other expectation in a committed relationship.

  • complicated question and answers. From my POV now, at this place in my life, I think/feel deferentially than at 20'something. Really young guys think "yes", but the reality is that sex is not and should not be a requirement for a 'relationship.

  • If you a guy and are not getting consistent sex from your girlfriend, leave her. Don't beg for sex. She has her right to refuse, you have your right to get your d*$k wet elsewhere

  • In a serious male-female relationship, each of us expect to share sex with our partner, "entitled" is not the right feeling.

  • because you want a lot from me and I want sex in return for your shit!

  • Entitled? No. But prolonged abstinence does not make the heart grow fonder.

  • sex happens as a by product of a good healthy relationship.
    At first it is because you are horney.
    But to simply expect sex at any given time is not right.
    Your partner may be tired, not feel well, or a bazillion other reasons.
    You keep doing that they will grow to resent you for demanding sex all the time.

  • No, especially if I'm sick or she is sick..

  • No one is entitled to sex at all period

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