Choking during an argument is non-consensual, meant to be painful, threaten real harm, intimidate. Choking during sex is consensual, not painful most of the time. Often it's just a hand around the throat, only squeezing very lightly, not cutting off blood or air supply. It's just erotic domination. I notice more recently that many people, men mainly, seem to have a problem with this stuff. They can't understand it because they can't separate consensual acts of dominance, or even dominance itself, with real abuse and mistreatment.

If i had a girlfriend or if i was married i won't choke her in reality and not in sex, this woman will be my family and my everything and loves me from all her heart, imagine me choking her and stopping her to breath, that's impossible, i will assure that she will always breath and have a long life

I'm not a fan of it either way... people have some weird ass kinks, lol Well one is consensual and a turn on, the other is abuse because she did not ask for it, thus it's a form of abuse/assualt.

the next time you are in an argument with a woman and she suggests you choke her, that argument also becomes hot

I don’t think either one is hot. Anytime you choke someone without their consent it’s abuse.

One word: Consent. Consent is sexy.

Who do you know that actually does this? The girl who does must have a rape fantasy or something.

Why dont u have an argument while having sex? This way u can freely choke her😂😂😂😂

Lol yes, because consent matters

OP, aren't you a little old to be an edgy alt-right troll? I mean, I know I used to like /pol/ and stuff in high school, but this is just embarassing.

That's sexual enslavement, not liberation.

It's the intent, not the action. During intense fucking all logic goes out the window.

Because one is just a form of consensual domination during sex, while the other is an act of abuse.

When you choke her during an argument its abuse but when you do it during sex its hot?

esotericstory Guru

When you choke her during an argument its abuse but when you do it during sex its hot?

#sexualliberation

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Dont assume this question is about me...

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Some women like to start arguments because it turns them on when men get angry. Its not always men who refuse to respect the boundaries of consent, sometimes its the women.

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Anonymous
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Choking during an argument is non-consensual, meant to be painful, threaten real harm, intimidate.

Choking during sex is consensual, not painful most of the time. Often it's just a hand around the throat, only squeezing very lightly, not cutting off blood or air supply. It's just erotic domination.

I notice more recently that many people, men mainly, seem to have a problem with this stuff. They can't understand it because they can't separate consensual acts of dominance, or even dominance itself, with real abuse and mistreatment.
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TonyMetal86 Yoda
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If i had a girlfriend or if i was married i won't choke her in reality and not in sex, this woman will be my family and my everything and loves me from all her heart, imagine me choking her and stopping her to breath, that's impossible, i will assure that she will always breath and have a long life
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Anonymous
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I'm not a fan of it either way... people have some weird ass kinks, lol

Well one is consensual and a turn on, the other is abuse because she did not ask for it, thus it's a form of abuse/assualt.
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- esotericstory
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  The man did not consent to get argued to so thats also abuse then?
- MayBlythe
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  You missed one key point. An argument isn't verbal abuse, so you don't need consent to argue with someone
- esotericstory
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  @MayBlythe Yeah okay I get it. :)
SarahsSummer Master
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the next time you are in an argument with a woman and she suggests you choke her, that argument also becomes hot
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PrincessGrail Master
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I don’t think either one is hot. Anytime you choke someone without their consent it’s abuse.
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- esotericstory
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  I would never choke a woman in an argument, I would just put her on my lap and spank her.

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-Aeon- Xper 6
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One word: Consent.
Consent is sexy.
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DublinRollerGirl Explorer
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Who do you know that actually does this? The girl who does must have a rape fantasy or something.
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- esotericstory
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  Many women like being dominated.
- DublinRollerGirl
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  But not choked or slapped or whatever that would be deemed sexual assault if done to anyone else.
- kittycat119
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  Actually no. Spanking, choking and things like that does not mean she has a rape fetish. Just means she likes being dominated and a little pain
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- TonyMetal86
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  I wouldn't choke her in both ways... i might slap her so she wakes up, if she wants some pain, i'll spank her ass a little bit that's all, but choking her no way, when you love your girl, you can never do this to her!
- TonyMetal86
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  I prefer to kiss her neck and bite it instead od choking 😄
- kittycat119
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  @TonyMetal86 you can definitely love your girl and choke her if she wants it
- TonyMetal86
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  @kittycat119 nope, even if she wants it, i'll refuse and switch it with something else... it's my responsibility to protect her and take good care of her, if she loses her mind because she's very aroused, i know how to calm her down without choking her... My duty is to assure that all her body is healthy and working well and not cutting the air flow or stopping her blood circulation...
- kittycat119
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  @TonyMetal86 you might not. Bit saying someone can't love their girl if he chokes her is dumb as yes he can
- TonyMetal86
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  @kittycat119 when someone loves you, he cannot hurt you or perform something painful on you especially if your his wife... It is dumb for you but not for me.
- kittycat119
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  @TonyMetal86 yeah he can. He definitely can
- TonyMetal86
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  @kittycat119 as you wish, maybe some other guy but not me.
- DublinRollerGirl
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  @kittycat119 You are so full of shit.
- DublinRollerGirl
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  @kittycat119 Then you are an abusive asshole.
- kittycat119
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  Yes because liking a man to dominate me n bed and control me sexually makes me abusive lmao. You spund like a moron saying that
- DublinRollerGirl
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  @kittycat119 You are a fucking Ho! Enjoy it up your ass you slut.
- kittycat119
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  Lmao someone's pissy others enjoy different forms of sex I see. And nothing is wrong with anal boo boo. Just cause you can't get a man who actually wants 2 fuck u doesn't mean other women have that problem lol
- TonyMetal86
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  @kittycat119 @DublinRollerGirl calm down girls, you don't need to bash each other. And kittycat you need to be polite cause when you don't agree with someone, there is no need for you to say bad words... just learn to respect others... Dublin girl each person is different, i mean some likes to be dominated and it's not wrong but i never agree with choking, when i love a girl and she becomes my wife, it is impossible for me to choke even if it was a game, we are making love and not some insane acts... Both a husband and his wife can never hurt each other cause they are one and they love each other forever and the man have to protect his wife and take good care of her, not to choke her...
- kittycat119
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  @TonyMetal86 yes because I insulted her first. Seriously dude? Don't even try that
- DublinRollerGirl
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  @kittycat119 So you must also be into BSDM then. Who knew?
- kittycat119
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  Sorta yeah. Not hardcore though. But I do like pain during sex as I've mentioned b4 on gag
- kittycat119
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  So gonna keep attempting 2 call me an abusive ho?
- DublinRollerGirl
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  @kittycat119 You are so full of shit. You are really a guy, aren't you?
- kittycat119
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  Lmao says the one trying 2 insult someone because she enjoys rough sex. You really are a moron
- DublinRollerGirl
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  @kittycat119 No, you are because you cannot enjoy normal sex but need to be treated like a ho in order to get off. I bet you like porn too.
- kittycat119
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  Nope hate porn actually. And I can get off with normal sex easily if it's with someone I love. I just prefer 2 b dominated by my man
- kittycat119
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  So again not really an insult boo boo
- DublinRollerGirl
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  @kittycat119 You are so full of shit. Are you really a guy?
- kittycat119
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  Lmao that's the only idiotic sentence you know?
- DublinRollerGirl
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  @kittycat119 you are a guy., admit it. Only a guy would take your stance.
- kittycat119
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  Lmao people here have seen my pics. I'm not a dude. Only a complete dumbass would act like i am just cause I like rough sex
- DublinRollerGirl
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  @kittycat119 You got one bad pic and a private profile. You are FAKE.
- kittycat119
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  Yet half of gag has seen other pics of me lmao. So again u look like an idiot assuming dumb shit
- DublinRollerGirl
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  @kittycat119 pics can be faked, You are a fake troll!
- kittycat119
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  Yes because it's not like u can't just reverse Google search my pics and see they're real lmao
- TonyMetal86
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  @kittycat119 o know that your a girl and i know that you haven't began to insult, i was just saying to relax and calm down, i do understand what you like and it's not wrong, maybe wrong for me but not for you and people are different... Also i knew that you had some rough times in your life, if you can remember that i haven't left you when you were away and kept checking on you, maybe you forgot about that, anyways miss kittycat people are different, some are nice and some aren't, try to do what makes you comfortable and happy, arguments won't lead you anywhere...
- TonyMetal86
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  @DublinRollerGirl she's a girl, i know her from the past and she ain't fake at all, i can see that you two are different but you don't have to insult each other if your different, i mean people are free right? Let her be what she wants and she let you be what you want, just be respectful to each other, you both know that these bad words and bashing each other won't lead you to anywhere... If you both can't agree with each other just stop talking to each other, in the end no one will force you or her to be something that you both don't want... People around the world are different, they come from different cultures ans have different ideology, what might be right for me might be wronf for you... That's just the way things are meant to be...
- DublinRollerGirl
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  @TonyMetal86 You are right. I'm sorry kittycat. I'll shut up now.
- TonyMetal86
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  @DublinRollerGirl it's okay don't worry and thank you...
Ultimate_Gohan Yoda
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Why dont u have an argument while having sex? This way u can freely choke her😂😂😂😂
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wiseyoungman Xper 6
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Lol yes, because consent matters
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DanoMR98 Xper 6
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OP, aren't you a little old to be an edgy alt-right troll? I mean, I know I used to like /pol/ and stuff in high school, but this is just embarassing.
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- esotericstory
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  Says the guy with a pepe profile pic.
- DanoMR98
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  Alright, touché
CuChullan Explorer
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That's sexual enslavement, not liberation.
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CuriousMufuxka Guru
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It's the intent, not the action. During intense fucking all logic goes out the window.
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The_Revolver Xper 6
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You got choked?
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Anonymous
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Consent is key!
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Anonymous
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Because one is just a form of consensual domination during sex, while the other is an act of abuse.
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- esotericstory
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  I didn't not consent to this reply so stop abusing me.
- Opinion Owner
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  Lol why’d you post this then?
- esotericstory
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  Dont argue with me.