Which gender tend to have more sexual partners?

[Anonymous]

[Miristheiss]

Women.

Overall. Some men sleep with a lot of girls but overall a lot of guys don't do that or don't have the opportunity to be able to do that.

Maybe guys at the very top, the handsome, rich, guys with status, guys who are charming they may sleep around more than most women but there aren't a lot of those guys, in general, just the vast bulk of your average guys and your average girls... your average girl will have slept with more people.

[zeitgeist057]

Exactly. I think like this, in a room of 100 guys, maybe 5-10 of them will have sex with more than 50 women. The middle set with have sex with around 1-10 women. The bottom set will never get laid except if they pay for it. In a room of 100 women, 5-10 of them will have sex with over 50 guys. The middle set will average around 20. The bottom set will vary between 1-10, unless they choose not to have sex or have some debilitating combination of terrible looks, weight, and insecure/hostile personality. Just rough numbers.

[Anonymous]

I think women do, but it's not because guys are angelic. Guys need skills and game, a girl just has to say "yes."

I know of three nympho women, and they lost track of their body count in the thousands. One lady is around 40, and is gorgeous. She sent me a pic of her and her friend in a swinger club, and they were surrounded by about 30 sailors. They went there to see if they had the willpower to go one day without fucking a stranger. They abstained.

[Grond21]

It is so much easier for women to get it. And that is just so sad to hear about women like that.

[Opinion Owner]

@Grond21

It cost her her husband, children and family. It was a sickness.
She looked like Heather, but older.


Everything in life has a plus and minus. Guys rarely hit on me, but they hit on her all day long. She couldn't resist the temptation. She begged me to post her pics online. She NEEDED compliments. It seems strange, but only on this vanilla website.

[Grond21]

It's not truly strange. It's just another version of addiction. Like a man who loses all of his family and reputation because he can't stop being obsessed with porn. She is pretty. And she sounds very shallow in the worst way. I pity her

[Opinion Owner]

@Grond21 I know another woman who is worse. She went to the bar everyday and got a new guy. One day she called me and said she found a nice guy who wanted to be her boyfriend. I told her that's awesome. She then said it won't work because she will cheat on him. I told her to not cheat, but to explain it to him and see what he says. She did, and he liked the idea. But he was a bit crazy, and worked the night shift. He went online the same day she talked to him, and found a stranger for her. He never even met the guy. They did this everyday, until one day she to beat up and raped. There's a lot of crazy shit out there.

[Grond21]

Geeeez. That is sad, terrible, and just so empty!

[Opinion Owner]

@Grond21 Some women don't know any other way to be liked by a man. They think the only thing to offer, is their pussy. Guys like pussies and women love dicks. But there is way more in life than that. My best piece of advice to guys, is to listen. Most guys can't do that. When she comes home and tells you her problems, your job is to just listen. Don't talk. It doesn't make sense, but it's just how it is.

[Grond21]

Yes. And so the devalue themselves to only sex, then think that is all they have to offer. It does make sense. You just have to think not with practical logic, but emotional logic. And it is very good advice!

[Hannajenky]

Technically, in heterosexual sex, every time a man is man has sex, a woman has sex…. The average is going to be 1/1….

but since gay couples report having more sex on average than Hetero couples, with lesbians reporting having the least amount of sex….

I would argue that men have more sex than women…. But for heterosexuals it is equal because by definition it means one man and one woman having sex

[zeitgeist057]

lol good technical mathematical point.

[LiamJHayden]

In order to know for sure, we'd have to have exact numbers of men and women and how many of each have never had sex. If every man had sex with exactly one woman, each woman would have to average sex with 1.01677 men to make it work. And since each new woman any man had sex with would likewise increase the number for women, the relative advantage for women would remain.

[ShesRad80]

who can really tell these days, working in healthcare from what i see this days its been woman but could just be men aren't coming in for treatment, it is a toss up

[charon142]

tbh, both are equally viable for this question, it really depends on the person but if I had to guess one blindly I would say women are more capable than guys in most scenarios

[nolabels]

I love the disparity between the girls' and the guys' responses in the poll.

Each thinks the other is horn dogging their way through life.

Lol.

[KingslayerC]

Women will have a higher median because the average woman sleeps around more than the average man. Most men can't pull chicks so they have super low body counts. While a smaller percentage of men have crazy high counts, like triple digits. The mean will be close to the same though.

[slatyb]

Its equal. The numbers of men and women are nearly equal. Every time a man has sex with a woman, a woman has sex with a man. So men and women have an equal number of heterosexual encounters.

[Grond21]

Unless it's a tiny fraction of men having sex with a lot of women.

[slatyb]

@Grond21 Although that is often asserted by men unable to attract a partner, that's not the case. If it were the case, it would be well-known.

[Grond21]

Not all truth is publicly acknowledged by a broad audience.

[slatyb]

@Grond21 And not all beliefs are true. There's no data to support that.

[Grond21]

There absolutely is data. Have you not looked into it before you made that sweeping claim?

[AviatorTom]

Interesting question. I think guys, in general, have more sexual partners. Girls are picky about who they have sex with while guys are not. Yes, it's easier for a girl to have sex... just select a willing Male, while guys have to work to get a girl to have sex. But, overall, I think girls tend to pick a few partners while guys pick many.

[Nikki1989]

It is men.

Women are more picky, most guys will bang anyone that gives them the eye.

[Unit1]

20% of men have sex with 80% of the girls.

[DextroShade]

A woman can walk outside and find a guy willing to have sex with her in 5 minutes, and 1 in 3 men are either virgins or haven't had sex in over a year. There is no way they average guy has a body count higher than the average girl, who is probably in the high double digits.

[Jmmmfi4]

Girls... its no comparison

[Anonymous]

Definitely women, they can have so many different guys where that might be the third different woman for him since there are more younger men than women until you reach later ages , I knew a young woman that was up to at least 50 different guys and I was one of them but she was only my sixth. They can get sex anytime they want if they are attractive, lots of guys are virgins in their 20s and even 30s now

[Anonymous]

In the past it was men, but today it's women. Many men aren't even having sex at all today, and women are of course more promiscuous today than ever.

[slatyb]

Who are those promiscuous women having sex with? Space aliens?

[Opinion Owner]

@slatyb Studies show they are either having sex with one of the very small percentage of equally promiscuous men who most other women are also sleeping with, or with other women.

[slatyb]

Studies? Which studies?

[Anonymous]

Obviously guys.