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Which Is More Important To You: A Partner That Is More Open And Communicative Discussing Sex And Kinks Or One That Will Initiate Sex More?
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Communicating
Vote A
Initiating
Vote B
Damn can't I have both
Vote C
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4 49Communicating. Your?
I'm greedy I need both... Communication crucial for best sexual chemistry but also need to feel wanted and desired and so should my partner feel desired why I think both should be initiating
Communicating and than sex Feel like heaven. no?
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I suppose if she were to take the lead more often, that WOULD be a type of "communication". She's "asking"- can I run the show a while? By letting her, the guy would be "answering", that she surely could and he'd be down with that sexy power shift.
Communicating about it openly would be great and having that PLUS more willingness- together- would be tops! I love the enthusiasm quote. That and a brain that doesn't shove "sex" onto a back shelf somewhere would be wonderful.
Great answer! Agree 💯 here!!
Communicating frequently leads to initiating.
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More open
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For me both are important.
I agree
Talking about it means you could possibly change up how long things last, combination of things that go one, type of lighting, type of music, clothing etc. It feels good to not always be the one to plan it or even out of the blue start it by sexting, sensually touching, making out etc.
Right! Very true
I'll take the red and blue pill 😁
Does that mean both?
Yep because i'm the muffin man and not the weak NEO 😄
Okay
I prefer who is open and communicative discussing sex. It also gives a fair idea how should I proceed and what does she like the most.
One that is open to talking about sex and kinks I think is more important. With that said... if my partner is open to talk about it all.. she may as well be about it all as well... if she wants to talk the talk we can do it until she can barely walk...🤦🏾♂️💯😜🔥👍🏾
Needs a wheelchair and shit 🤣🤣
You know what I'm sayin' 😜
Yep 👍 didn't need a wheelchair but damn near had to pull my Walker out once, but still not sure if it was that the sex was that good, or just cuz I'm old lady with bad back 🤣
Maybe a combination of both...🤷🏾♂️
I've had to sit a bag of frozen peas on my swing low once or twice before.. you don't realize till it's over that you've over done it..🤣🤣
But you aren't old... silly
Right!! But overdoing it leads to really great sex, don't it 😉
Not old? I'm gonna be 49 soon, and then one year away from 50😱😱
Oops you 49,🤣🤣
Wtf does that make me then? Thanks a lot...
Drive the bus right over me...
Sorry 💛💛🤗
Meant sorry didn't mean to offend not that you're sorry 🤣
Can't be mad at you... no worries.. 😂
I didn't think of that... thanks again... dayum😔
I'm just gonna quit, cuz I just keep sticking my big foot in my mouth 🤣🤣
Someone who is open and communicative is more important. If either of us want to try something new we discuss it first.
That's good!!👍
Isn't that how a relationship is supposed to be
Supposed to be yeah... But not everyone does that
I guess it's true, I'm old school
Me and you both lol
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A open minded girl is great. The association together is great part.
Sex can get us closer but with out talking it's basically just a Shag...
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I like both
Right! Both worlds best
I prefer to initiate and then see what sticks and what doesn’t
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I want both!! 😂😂
Greedy, greedy lolol it's okay, me too🤣
The doer for me is more important than the thinker communicator...
It’s been my experience that when I initiate, the sex is so so.
However when she initiates, it doesn’t get any better than that.
Definitely a girl who's open and don't hide what she wants in bed, so she won't cheat on me later
If you ask anything for a girl she always say no.. so FUK that! I Just do it and usually the girl let’s me do whatever I want.
I guess having sex is like driving a car here. The one driving would most likely just want to get to their goal, whilst the other would want to ask for the right way first.
I can initiate sex myself, but I like Great sex... so setting the ground rules is very helpful
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Commicative for sure because the conversation can be about initiating more often. Get the best of everything that way.
Haha right! There you go 👍🙂